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Posted by mos man on Oct-19-2002 23:25:

Smiley DJ Re: Re: oink

quote:
Originally posted by Eugene
NO!
I disagree completely!
If you're an old virgin, you deal with MORE emotional crap. You realize your worthlessness, the fact that you're a loser.

Yes, there is something wrong with being a virgin -- and I admit that I am (recently turned 22). You lack experience, you're too timid around girls, you have little social confidence. These things are usually related.

And I'll be the first to admit that I have these issues. But you want to know the truth? I just haven't met the right girl yet -- and I've never had a real girlfriend. I had a chance to lose my virginity to a slut -- yes, I had it, but I didn't. Who would respect himself after this? This would have been a terrible "first time." If I were to look back on this as my first time, that would make me feel even more worthless than I feel now.

So, what's better: The feeling that you're a loser because you're still a virgin at 22, or the feeling that you're a loser because you had your first time with a dirty slut?

Not that there's anything wrong with sluts or "easy" girls... I feel they're an important part of society (and plus, there are girls who simply love and enjoy sex, and this is great -- but for some reason society labels them as sluts; the one I was talking about, though, was a real slut).


I'm almost 18, have had a fucking bizarre life, not what happens to your average teenager, I work Part Time, have good friends, go clubbing often, have a wiked time, have had 2 girlfriends, no problem pulling.. so just because I haven't fucked someone @ the first opertunity i've had makes me a looser ?


Posted by BTG on Oct-19-2002 23:40:

i'll never have sex.......ever!


Posted by biznology on Oct-19-2002 23:41:

haha at ^^^

yah i think one of the things you learn as you get older, esp coming from that crazy horny period during the teenage years is that shit gets over sexualized. you need to go into a relationship looking for a PERSON, and not just a vagina or whatever, cause youll get out what you put in.

when you are a virgin it seems like youll never get any, and you self reinforce that by getting all uptight and worried about it. just chill out and have a good time, sex isnt the only way|


Posted by mos man on Oct-19-2002 23:43:

Smiley DJ

quote:
Originally posted by biznology
haha at ^^^

yah i think one of the things you learn as you get older, esp coming from that crazy horny period during the teenage years is that shit gets over sexualized. you need to go into a relationship looking for a PERSON, and not just a vagina or whatever, cause youll get out what you put in.

when you are a virgin it seems like youll never get any, and you self reinforce that by getting all uptight and worried about it. just chill out and have a good time, sex isnt the only way|


Word.. inanutshell

Better way to enjoy yourself = my sig


Posted by biznology on Oct-19-2002 23:50:

quote:
Originally posted by mos man
Word.. inanutshell

Better way to enjoy yourself = my sig


a j and a porn vid keeps the doctor away|


Posted by jp on Oct-19-2002 23:54:

Technaut's real reply to this thread:


Posted by fastmp3 on Oct-20-2002 00:06:

quote:
Originally posted by jploveparade
Technaut's real reply to this thread:





wahahaha nice one jp


Posted by mos man on Oct-20-2002 00:14:

hehe nice 1 jp

/me gives jp high five


Posted by trancedfarmer on Oct-20-2002 00:15:

quote:
Originally posted by BTG
i'll never have sex.......ever!



i thought about becoming a monk-


Posted by SgtFoo on Oct-20-2002 02:41:

Smile

18 in 2 days.... and I'm still a proud virgin. She who takes it will take it in valour and through extreme orgasmic masses. And I who loses it..... will be a really happy guy!


Posted by USMC_Greg on Oct-20-2002 03:01:

I'm not sure why everyone is saying they are proud. If it were up to me, I'd have lost it years ago.


Posted by Magimaster on Oct-20-2002 03:37:

I'm 18 (just 2 days ago) and still am.

and I'm about to fukkin crack.

Thinkin I could take the easy way out (slut style) but looking at the big picture that's not the way I'd like it to be.

However, I don't feel like going into my twenties without experiencing it atleast once.

still got some time...


Posted by libra_1143 on Oct-24-2002 23:49:

Right...

This is my first post on the forum, so i think this is a brave place to start!

I'm 18, nearly 19 and still a virgin. I came very close to losing it once, but was kicked out of the room by my mate (this was at a party! was a real let down, as was seeing the girl anyway). On reflection though, I'm happy I kept it. Most of my mates also say they wished they had kept it longet, as most of them regret the way it happened the first time. This has not affected my confidence in any way at all, cos I ain't that bothered any more. I used to be, but that's cos all my mates were having sex, but then I realized that most of them weren't happy in the relationships they were in, and always got loads of teenage emotional stuff going on, whereas I just 'had a laff with the lads'. Now that I'm at uni, and everyone is more grown up, I think that things *just might* be different. And who knows? Maybe be (*head swells*) natural charm will make up for lack of experience, just cos I'm a nice guy! Oh yeah, and I would never consider the 'losing it to a slut' option either.

Anyways, that's a little about me! I'm off to the music forum now, cos that's why I actually joined the forum!


Posted by archie on Oct-25-2002 00:20:

20 in 10 days, still with the white wedding gown

was in a long relationship, got hurt a lot now i'm not even bothering with love for a while

fuck love, it hurts too much


Posted by Vanilla on Oct-25-2002 00:26:

Im 18 and Im not. I remeber thinking at one time that I would probably be a virgin forever, thinking it was so hopeless.


Posted by Lira on Oct-25-2002 02:54:

quote:
Originally posted by libra_1143
This is my first post on the forum, so i think this is a brave place to start!


Very brave indeed, welcome aboard!

quote:
Originally posted by archie
fuck love, it hurts too much


It hurts sometimes, but when you really get to feel it... it's amazing


Posted by da_MynDLesS_one on Oct-25-2002 03:14:

quote:
Originally posted by libra_1143
And who knows? Maybe be (*head swells*) natural charm will make up for lack of experience, just cos I'm a nice guy! Oh yeah, and I would never consider the 'losing it to a slut' option either.



Sorry, which head was that?


Posted by Lira on Oct-25-2002 03:23:

quote:
Originally posted by da_MynDLesS_one
Sorry, which head was that?


You move your neck to the left and to the right repeatedly looking straight foward, get it?


Posted by speedracer_mec on Oct-25-2002 06:35:

Talking

oops..LOL..i dont belong here..



**leaves***


Posted by .-WooDY-. on Oct-25-2002 13:17:

quote:
Originally posted by infinity HiGH
true dat!

I'm 19, and still a virgin...not that i'm waiting till i get married...I just don't want it to be some slut that gets it (and to my luck, all the girls I've been semi-involved with aren't worth 5 bucks OR something always got in the way and stopped the relationship before it progressed far enough to get to that point.) and i'm shy as fuck...unless someone introduces me, and I feel comfortable around her, then no way in hell am I gonna come up to a girl. I have met someone not too long ago that I think is just amazing and definately worth it...so yea...

welcom on board,brother!
The point is...every girl is different...you have to cope with so many new problems when you meet a new girl..thats often too much for me...im that dreamer guy that says:
when i wnat sex,both have to be virgins,it has to be sth. special,it has to be perfect...i know its trash..try to find a 19yr old good looking handsome female virgin nowadays!! IMPOSSIBLE!!!
Most of them just want sex to say: well i had sex,whats so special about it now?
or they want it to be "adult" , no child anymore...and because all friends had already sex...
just go to one of those houseparties where everyone is drunken and pick out a 2nd-hand guy...bang...no virgin anymore..
here in germany the average age for girls to have sex is 15 and for guys its 17....well...if im 2 years above the average...than there must be guys that have sex with 15...and if i meet a girl that is a virgin at the age of 17,then there must be a girl that had already sex with 13.....so its nearly IMPOSSIBLE to meet a virgin at the age of 19...


Posted by Blake613 on Oct-25-2002 18:19:

19 Virgin here. I haven't found the right person yet. Right now I just having fun enjoying life not having to worry about AIDS, other STD's, infections, and getting some random girl pregnant. The time will come, but for now I am just having fun.


Posted by Miss Proximus on Oct-25-2002 18:44:

I lub sex


Posted by jp on Oct-25-2002 18:50:

I lub sex with women who lub sex


Posted by Fanyen on Oct-25-2002 19:37:

this is a good chat, i thought at my age (45) i would feel bad for being a vergin, but seeing yall makes me feel better. as im sure others too. but still its hard for a guy then a girl omho. im like others, shy and this dating game is just to much work hehe, im more laid back and whatever happens..happens wether its with some slut or the love of my life (hopefully the love will coem first) but i wont complain


P.S. im not really 45, im 20 =) heheh


Posted by butterfly on Oct-25-2002 20:04:

quote:
Originally posted by .-WooDY-.
here in germany the average age for girls to have sex is 15 and for guys its 17....well...if im 2 years above the average...than there must be guys that have sex with 15...and if i meet a girl that is a virgin at the age of 17,then there must be a girl that had already sex with 13.....so its nearly IMPOSSIBLE to meet a virgin at the age of 19...

that's weird - i would think guys lose their virginity at a younger age.


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