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Originally posted by halo20 The best advice I can contribute (aside from my earlier quote: "I COULD WRITE A BOOK") is that in time you will find someone who is right for you. Don't shape or mold who you are for someone who you think is right, but rather let time (and a dash of fate) bring that person to you.

That right there is very good advice. Not only are you doing the wrong thing for yourself if you bend to their will, but it also turns them off. One just told me today, "I like that you stand up for yourself." If you've got no individuality, then what good are ya in a relationship!?

That's what the first people who said "be yourself" really meant - don't give up your own interests/friends/whatever just to get the lovin'.

Frankly, I don't think women are that hard to understand (why should they be if men aren't?). As for me personally, I just don't bother in most cases because I don't have the patience (yes Emery, I'm BITTER ).

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Originally posted by AmbiguousBliss If in the end, you're just too frustrated with it all, watch this: Uhmmm...

HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA, that is the funniest thing I've seen in a long time

I guess I now have to talk about this Topic since I�m Posting

First things First, from my experience every girl that I have dated I meet through my friends (NOT all good otherwise I wouldn�t be single). Secondly, be who you are and Lastly Follow Newton�s Second Law of Motion( SINCE IM A GEEKY ENGINEER, and Hopefully its the right motion (wink wink) ), with every action their is an equal and opposite reaction, SO it is up to you to make an action or reaction BUT make sure to make one or the other.
A few examples(>>>Insert clearing throat sound<<<)

1. If a girl looks at you you can either look at her and smile (to show interest), look away(to show no interest) or look confused and confuse her

2. If a GIRL tries to start a conversation (which happens on the odd occasion) you can either talk back and hope you don�t sound stupid ( I am the king of Fucking up conversations ) or you can talk back just to be polite and give her the brush off or you can pretend you heard nothing or say you don�t speak English.

3. If you find a girl to be attractive you can go up to her and do what come natural(which is strike up a conversation) or you can tell you friend to go up to her(if you were in Grade 7 or lower cause your a KID ) or you can do nothing and SPEND the rest of the night dreaming of what could have been and sulking

Im going to stop, cause I can make up situations forever

SO THE Choice is yours to either initiate or to respond in a given situation

BEST OF LUCK, and Never dwell upon one little Thing that never was

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Whatever will be, will be. If it's wrong, it's wrong, if it's right, it's right. I'm not here to glorify fate in the most extreme of cliches, but I can honestly say I've lived my life accordingly and have nothing but great fortune come my way. (knock on wood) Anyone who knows me (outside of this board) might be rolling their eyes at me because I could come off as a hypocrite. Seeing as these last few months have been stormers in terms of relationship/love etc. I'm the biggest suck / hopeless romantic (MALE) you will ever meet. And I can tell stories about fate for days. In the end, my words of advice are to "know thyself" (in the words of Plato) and to balance your life accordingly especially in terms of relationships and love.

That's basically what I tried saying, but yours is worded better

I've found in my previous relationship that anything that goes wrong, will usually teach you something about yourself and your partner. You can't be ignorant however to what's happening around you, so rather than just saying "ah fuckit" you should reflect back and see what went wrong, why, and try to reason both sides. Sometimes we're the jerks, sometimes the girls are (all depending on the person) but always and ALWAYS remmeber to draw a positive conclusion.

This way if a long and meaningful relationship goes to waste, you'll learn quickly, adapt, and move on to greener pastures. IT was probably not meant to be anyways

double U TEE F?!

Bah, enough of this "meant to be"-ness. You choose your own fate. Take control! But they're right about one thing, don't stick with someone if you know they're not working out, it'll only end in stress and lost time (and heartbreak, if you're a sap).

Anyway, I think this thread was more about breaking the ice, so let's keep it on track.

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Originally posted by DigiNut Bah, enough of this "meant to be"-ness. You choose your own fate. Take control! But they're right about one thing, don't stick with someone if you know they're not working out, it'll only end in stress and lost time (and heartbreak, if you're a sap). Anyway, I think this thread was more about breaking the ice, so let's keep it on track.

Yeah, good point, you still have to make sure you have the balls to approach that person, and if you don't...well, then wave that "special someone" a nice goodbye, and go back to the rut :P Lesson: gotta have the guts to approach, and gotta stop looking since the chance to pick them up will come when it's supposed to end of story!

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Originally posted by DigiNut Bah, enough of this "meant to be"-ness. You choose your own fate.

Well listen they both go hand in hand. I believe that if you make a decision to "chose your own fate" you're ultimately doing what is "meant to be".

I also subscribe to the theory that just because you KNOW something is meant to be, doesn't mean you can just sit back and watch it roll in. At many times you still have to work at the inevitable, just be happy you can see the end result and try to patient enough to roll with it.

EX: I bet you Gretzky knew at like age 5 he was incredible in terms of natural hockey talent and possibly going to be "the best". But he still had to work and "choose his own fate" to make sure whatever was "meant to be" would thus occur. Am I just talking shit? hah

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Originally posted by AmbiguousBliss I prefer it in Latin, though... Nosce te ipsum.

Nice.

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EX: I bet you Gretzky knew at like age 5 he was incredible in terms of natural hockey talent and possibly going to be "the best". But he still had to work and "choose his own fate" to make sure whatever was "meant to be" would thus occur. Am I just talking shit? hah

In the words of Grounds Keeper Willie: Ooh! Good comeback!

"The only one who could ever reach me, wsa a son of a preacher man, the only one who could ever teach me, was a son of a preacher man, yes he was, heee waaas. Being good isn't always easy, no matter how hard i tried........."

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Originally posted by AmbiguousBliss *Bingo*... So true. Don't even try getting yourself into a relationship and trying to know that person if you're lost when it comes to your own self. I prefer it in Latin, though... Nosce te ipsum.

isn't it "Temet Nosce"?



if you build it, they will come

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Originally posted by whiskers isn't it "Temet Nosce"? if you build it, they will come

Uhh... No. We were talking about 'Know thyself' = Nosce te ipsum.

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Originally posted by AmbiguousBliss Uhh... No. We were talking about 'Know thyself' = Nosce te ipsum.

but doesn't it say Temet Nosce, know thyself, above the door in the matrix?

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Originally posted by whiskers but doesn't it say Temet Nosce, know thyself, above the door in the matrix?

lol... What are you talking about? I never mentioned the Matrix... Hah, I have yet to even see it. I'm confused now, but I dunno what Temet Nosce means. You could very well be right, I just have no clue. I do know that Nosce te ipsum does mean know thyself.

Edit: According to some Yahoo search results, they both mean the same thing. w00t. Who'd a thunk?

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Originally posted by TranceGeek "The only one who could ever reach me, wsa a son of a preacher man, the only one who could ever teach me, was a son of a preacher man, yes he was, heee waaas. Being good isn't always easy, no matter how hard i tried........."

Is this said by a female? I can only see it only having significance that way

Ili sam ja prolupo ili si ti hehehe

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Originally posted by AmbiguousBliss lol... What are you talking about? I never mentioned the Matrix... Hah, I have yet to even see it. I'm confused now, but I dunno what Temet Nosce means. You could very well be right, I just have no clue. I do know that Nosce te ipsum does mean know thyself. Edit: According to some Yahoo search results, they both mean the same thing. w00t. Who'd a thunk?

i feel like i have to explain myself... lol


"know thyself" is the title to my journal entry that i'm gonna make tonight, but i wanted to make it in latin and i searched on google and "temet nosce" came up. it was in the matrix, above the oracle's door, 2 words, as i can remember. so there... hehe...

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Originally posted by whiskers i feel like i have to explain myself... lol "know thyself" is the title to my journal entry that i'm gonna make tonight, but i wanted to make it in latin and i searched on google and "temet nosce" came up. it was in the matrix, above the oracle's door, 2 words, as i can remember. so there... hehe...

lol... I get it now.

Your "if you build it, they will come" is what threw me off in the first place, lol.

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Originally posted by Prod Is this said by a female? I can only see it only having significance that way Ili sam ja prolupo ili si ti hehehe

lmao... Heh, no, that's a purely masculine statement, right Dan?

Oh, and by the way, "ti si prolupo, ne on!"

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Originally posted by AmbiguousBliss lmao... Heh, no, that's a purely masculine statement, right Dan?

Then I need some explanation on the statement Sorry, my mind's not picking up literary clues tonight, been too much math in the last few days...now that I think about it, there hasn't been enough girls in the last few days *gasp* I must return to the Bat-Cave at once!

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Oh, and by the way, "ti si prolupo, ne on!"

Cini mi se da jesam nazalost Opet bolje nego oboje da smo

Now just how do you speak this language with the Brazilian flag as your icon

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Originally posted by Prod Then I need some explanation on the statement Sorry, my mind's not picking up literary clues tonight, been too much math in the last few days...now that I think about it, there hasn't been enough girls in the last few days *gasp* I must return to the Bat-Cave at once!

No worries. It took me a while to recover from my Data Management exam the other day. (Ugh, how many f*cking hours... ) Just to save you further grief, I, unlike wonderful TranceGeek/Dan over there, am a female, lol.

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Cini mi se da jesam nazalost Opet bolje nego oboje da smo Now just how do you speak this language with the Brazilian flag as your icon

I am a polyglot, but in the case of serbian, I do not work alone. You're not crazy. Pomogao mi je neko ko prica Spanski... Now I'll drink to that!

P.S. - I still think spanski sounds kinky...

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Originally posted by AmbiguousBliss No worries. It took me a while to recover from my Data Management exam the other day. (Ugh, how many f*cking hours... ) Just to save you further grief, I, unlike wonderful TranceGeek/Dan over there, am a female, lol.

Heheh, I've been writing midterms for the past month, I feel like kicking the crap out of whoever put this exam schedule together

But once this is over, I've got a week before I have to start studying for the finals (I suddenly have an urge to burst out laughing, perhaps like a lunatic) if I wanna get through this semester alive (they say the 1st is the worst, they seem to be right!). *sigh* Like my OAC algebra prof used to say: "University, hard to get into, easy to get out of" haha that man was a genius

I figured you were a female I picked it up in other posts (earlier in this thread) as for my fellow countryman Dan, I guessed he was a guy from his posts as well

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I am a polyglot, but in the case of serbian, I do not work alone. You're not crazy. Pomogao mi je neko ko prica Spanski... Now I'll drink to that!

Hear hear! I presumed this was a team operation I suppose there's a crack team of lawyers, linguists, spies, and knock-around guys working for your higher purpose Am I right *lights go out, sounds of beating up* on second thought, your friendly "workers" have convinced me otherwise

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P.S. - I still think "spanski" sounds kinky...

Si Senorita now if only I could say anything more intelligent in Spanish

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Originally posted by Prod Heheh, I've been writing midterms for the past month, I feel like kicking the crap out of whoever put this exam schedule together But once this is over, I've got a week before I have to start studying for the finals (I suddenly have an urge to burst out laughing, perhaps like a lunatic) if I wanna get through this semester alive (they say the 1st is the worst, they seem to be right!). *sigh* Like my OAC algebra prof used to say: "University, hard to get into, easy to get out of" haha that man was a genius I figured you were a female I picked it up in other posts (earlier in this thread) as for my fellow countryman Dan, I guessed he was a guy from his posts as well Hear hear! I presumed this was a team operation I suppose there's a crack team of lawyers, linguists, spies, and knock-around guys working for your higher purpose Am I right *lights go out, sounds of beating up* on second thought, your friendly "workers" have convinced me otherwise Si Senorita now if only I could say anything more intelligent in Spanish

Ah, what a comfort it is to be able to share this state of insanity with a fellow 'pulling my hair out now' student, haha.

As for spanish, just be sure to remember: Dos cervezas, por favor; Mueve la colita; and Que carajo es esto? You'll be fine...

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Originally posted by AmbiguousBliss Ah, what a comfort it is to be able to share this state of insanity with a fellow 'pulling my hair out now' student, haha.

Just don't ask me about how I got through my OAC year, you'd laugh/kick my ass I think we're all in the same crap, and it's the only thing that brings comfort to me when I go to bed every night

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As for spanish, just be sure to remember: Dos cervezas, por favor; Mueve la colita; and Que carajo es esto? You'll be fine...

Dos cervezas, por favor - "Another beer please" (Thanks to my cousin from when he went to Cuba) or something to that effect I try to teach EVERYONE that in case they wind up in a latin country and need an emergency drink

As for the rest, a little translation help would be nice (too lazy to go on google at this time of night haha, yes lazy lazy me)

Anyways, I should hit the sack, probably would help if I slept a little bit before the exam tomorrow night, and then again I might wake up before 11 am for once, and actually attend a lecture or two Uni's great, way too much freedom for a slacker like me (and somehow I always pull through, maybe running a Mafia would be up my alley)

PM me sometime, could use a little spanish to impress the ladies around here with

Good night

listen to these two hitting on each other. haha

awww, it's love.

wow what a radical change of topic

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