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things are gonna get more and more interesting....i feel like im goin into a downward spiral...i just wanna land already...fuk tha pain

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Originally posted by occrider EPT ... $10, at every grocery store, and you can view the results as well.

I think you need to buy it and deliver it..that way you can get your $1.88 back by force if necessary.

MrS

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Originally posted by igottaknow After aplz online suicide, I'm very skeptical about what I read here. Speedy, I'm calling you out. I don't believe you have herpes or a girl friend, or that you got her pregnant. Whether your story is true or not it doesn't make a difference. You're f*ucked up either way. Btw, if anyone wants to know why he didn't use a condom, because God says its wrong to use contraception its the same as abortion. But why am I getting worked up this is all a fake story to get some attention.

Yeah, remember all those Catholic priests who are telling the poor and ignorant that condoms were infected with AIDS?
If I had a picture of the Pope I'd rip it up too (go Sinead lol).
I'm sure he (pope) knew about all those sexually abusive priests as well.

Anyways, just abort it when it's a zygote or something hehe.

My cousin went through the same thing actually when he was 18/19, and he married the girl and they have 2 kids now. I think they just barely manage to scrape by, so then all my relatives etc told us all to keep it covered lol.

If youre not both ready to take care of a child, then go for the abortion, really.

If things work out well for you two you can have a baby later when youre mentaly and financialy ready and the child will probably be a lot happier.

If thing doesnt work out, well, good thing you didnt keep the baby.

An abortion is better done as soon as possible.

Provided she is pregnant of course.

If you keep the baby at your age, then your life is f***ed, literelly.

Do the abortion...now!!!


obviously everyone will take the situation differently towards a baby at your age, BUT a friends mate killed himself cause his life went downhill after having a baby, surely killing himself was pretty stupid cause the situation could have been resolved, BUT as i said everyone is going to take this situation differently.

If you can't make a decision, maybe flip a coin?

Abortion? Abortion?! Whadda heck is wrong with you people!? It includes you, Speedie!

Please, let's review the situation. Just because this person, whose herpes seem to be in such advanced state that he's got mushrooms down there with smurfs living in it and whose head now musta been affected by some sort of trangenic virus because he can barely give any clear thought on the situation and realise the obvious absurd in which he managed to get himself into, is with a paranoid emotionally unstable manipulative partner who probably, instead of loving herself, expects others to do it for her by controlling their attitude, is now saying that she's expecting a child (which worries me because she seems not to have emotional stability to have breakfast, how can she have a child!?)... I mean... think of the child: the poor human being is already coming to this world in the worst possible way, and you want to kill it already. Give this thing a chance to be adopted and have a good life.

... luckily, this child in the future may grow up, be your friend and teach you something (let's face it: considering his situation he'll be mature a lot earlier than you two! Mentally, obviously )...

And Speedy Mec, stop feeling pitty for yourself, waiting for God to save your soul from this everlasting torture and do something for a change. If there's a child you're to blame (and killing him is stupid because it's YOUR fault, not his): despair will get you nowhere. Sit down and think: if it happened to someone else, what would I say? If it sounds difficult, pretend it's Diginut/Yoda/God talking to you by telepathy/cordless phone/hypnosis! Then do it!

Not to say that your lady is not nice or that you two do not have a potentially good relationship but; if shes crying in the shower this girlies got issues and I mean ones that are only in her control (or out of) not yours.

You need to think how much of your life and where u want it to go you are willing to sacrifice or comprimise (or mebbe it is where u want to go) for this lady as she is asking for it.

From what i've read from your posts your mind is all over the place. You�ve had the doubts already i think that warrents questioning the relationship in its entirety.

From the not calling her apart from being cowardly (and mebbe shows your lack of thought/maturity for the situation in general), it is obvious indication that you want out.

Really one of the hardest things to do is to be honest to yourself, and then act upon this honesty. I don't feel you are being fair on her nor yourself.

Atm though take it step by step,

Is she pregnant? Then take it from there and explore all options not just the black and white ones.

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Originally posted by speedracer_mec yea she wants me to quit school and move bak to houston...indefinitely and be with her....not because of the money..but for me.

Dude, wtf? she's using her unborn baby as a hostage... that's pretty low. Especially considering how she was fuckin with you before. I haven't heard both sides of the story but she sounds like a real bitch. If this pregnancy thing turns out to be another headfuck she's pulling on you (and chances are it will) then cut of ALL contact with her. She's obviously no good for you.

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Originally posted by astroboy Dude, wtf? she's using her unborn baby as a hostage... that's pretty low. Especially considering how she was fuckin with you before. I haven't heard both sides of the story but she sounds like a real bitch. If this pregnancy thing turns out to be another headfuck she's pulling on you (and chances are it will) then cut of ALL contact with her. She's obviously no good for you.

Hey now, she probably is psycho, but let's not take all the blame off Meccy here. There's a lesson to be learned.

Confucius say: boy who not wrap sausage in bacon, often end up with eggs.



P.S.

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Originally posted by Delay Llama pretend it's Diginut/Yoda/God talking to you by telepathy/cordless phone/hypnosis!

What's that implying? LOL

day 3 of panic.....has underway..


today she gets tested

I got few points:

1. How do u know its yours? Maybe it�s her ex who just bought her ice cream (ref to past thread for those who haven�t been following). Have her get a DNA test while she at it (does EDP make one of those? ).

2. If you stuck to anal sex this would never have happened.

3. This is a hoax.

4. Why ru getting advice from an online forum and a loveable robot we call diginut? Go to counselor, shrink, or plan parenthood center.

5. Ur gf aint preg she just using it to suck you back in.

6. I told u long distance relationships don�t work.

7. I still think this story is a hoax.

^^^^^ rofl

Instead of panicking (sp?) and counting down the time, think what you would do in both circunstances.

If she's pregnant, give it to adoption (the child shouldn't be punished for your irresponsability).
If she isn't pregnant, ditch her.

If panic were helpful, people wouldn't freeze while there's a car going at 200 miles per hour toward them

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Originally posted by DigiNut What's that implying? LOL

God = Speedy is a strong believer, so he might believe that God speaks wisely... and self-pity is not a wise thing.

Yoda = this guy knows everything but grammar giving kick ass answers to nearly everything from astronomy to DJ'ing.

DigiNut = you've already given him some good advice and I didn't remember what the name of that old guy from Karate Kid was... plus, you remind me of David Schwimmer for some reason and my sister was watching Friends

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Originally posted by Delay Llama DigiNut = you've already given him some good advice and I didn't remember what the name of that old guy from Karate Kid was... plus, you remind me of David Schwimmer for some reason and my sister was watching Friends

Mr. Miyagi, grasshoppa!

I bet she's not pregnant. All this bickering for nothing.

i cant beleive this thread is still entertaining...

anyway, this is my take on it, with the limited information we have.

i think speedy should drop the girl regardless cause she is controling him and seems to be psychotic. i think if there is a kid he should support it but not be with her. i think he is in a fucked up relationship and that is unhealthy for the kid since this relationship seems ultimately doomed. though i agree that there is like a 75% chance she is not pregnant.

regardless, i think speedy should learn to use birth control (and condoms from his previous post) and that he should drop the girl.

i also predict that he wont drop the girl because he is whipped and possibly because he is afraid that getting a new girl will be hard because of the herpes.

and igottaknow... it could be a hoax - wouldnt be a first - but at least it is good TA entertainment.

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Originally posted by DigiNut Mr. Miyagi, grasshoppa!

Yeah that's it!

Speedy, you can think of God, Yoda, DigiNut or Mr. Miyagi Grasshoppa!

lets take bets that after all this

SHES NOT PREGGER!
and if she is mmm c section, because yes, Herpes transmits to babies.(if they come out the normal way.'



I got 5 on not pregnant.

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Originally posted by butterfly i cant beleive this thread is still entertaining...

I did my part.

b-fly, i agree with you. To recap: its good entertainment, he's wipped, he should breakup with her but wont, she's probably not preg, she's a psycho who's got firm grip on his dumb stick, and oh ya that condom thing.

Ok speedy since u didnt take any of our advice about splitting up with this girl here's what you should do:

1. Drop out of college.
2. Move back to Houston and live with her in her parents basement.
3. Get a job @ Mc Donalds.
4. Most important (write this one down)! When I stop in for lunch and you take my order, don't ask me if I wan't frys with that or whether I'd like to Supersize it.
5. Keep banging her without a condom. Use the pull out method it saves you money plus its a lot more exciting.
6. When you finally get her knocked up, sign her up for that child welfare thing.
7. When you've built up enough baggage give Jerry Springer a call and let us know when the show will air, I'm sure we would love to watch the drama unfold to its natural conclusion.
Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!

You do what 'cha want, bub, but here's a thought to consider when talking about her decision to abort:

It was your decision and your responsibility to have unprotected sex. Whether you want to admit it or not, it is a responsibility, and there are consequences with a lack there of. Getting rid of the child/fetus/whateverthehellyouwanttocallit is NOT owning up to your lack of responsibility. I'm not even that big of a anti-abortion advocate, but I still see problems in the logic of having an abortion simply because a baby is an inconvenience in your life. If you were responsible enough in the first place to know what the hell you were doing when you were f$cking, you should be responsible enough to know and accept the consequences.

All that being said, this girl's messin' with you. Long distance relationships don't work, period. If she's pregnant (that's a big IF), please consider having the kid. You can be with her or not, but for the sake of the kid, it would do him/her credit by being there as a worthy father. This is esp. true considering she doesn't seem to be much of a worthy mother (at least by initial conversations about her).

But by all accounts, I would concur with others here and say she's yankin' your chain - probably because of the fact that you ARE farther away, and she can no longer hack it. This is the ineviteable result of nearly all long distance relationships: one or both members can't hack it. To make it worse, she's attempting to pursuade/blackmail you into dropping your life and starting one with her in the same neighborhood. If she is, in fact, pregnant, that choice is entirely up to you, though I think it would, at least, be very beneficial for the child if you had visitation rights. But I sincerely question her mind frame ATM, as well as her intentions with you.

Because if she really does love you (and if she's not pregnant), she would let your life continue to develop the way it was before you two met. I say this because you are at a point in your life where there are a number of crossroads and a multitude of directions to choose, and it is important that ATM you make the right decision for YOU.

If, however, she does decide to have the baby, I might also suggest to have a DNA sample immediately after birth. It's a little expensive, but I think you know why.

Good luck.

I'm having a Deja Vu....I missed my period for 3 f*cking months...scary as shit for me and the guy. But I wasn't pregnant. There wasn't even anything wrong with me, just my body was like F U imma gonna scare the shit out of you. I was stupid and didn't use anything during sex. I was lucky and nothing bad happened...but never again, Im always gonna use something now...No matter what! I doubt she is pregnant, girls for some reason love to hold the whole "I haven't gotten my period, just thought you should know" thing over a guys head as a last ditch effort to hold up the relationship. If she isn't pregnant, dump her, she is not worth it. And it sounds like you need some time to get straitened out and grow up before you can get into a relationship again!

Now.....if she is pregnant, its not the end of the world. Kids have babies all the time, and its not neccisarily so bad for the baby. You had just better not be that kinda daddy who leaves or freaks out, cause thats what my dad did, and my parents got divorced. But then when he saw me, he only wanted to be there for me, but I can still never forget he wanted to kill me (i.e. abortion) and he didnt' want anything to do with me. I live with him now, and not my mom. But I'll never forgive him for that, and he has spent the last 18 years trying to make up for his poor choice before i was born. Nothing he'll ever do will make up for that. 3 of my cousins were born at times when my aunts weren't ready to have a baby, and they are fine. So don't feel like you need to go for abortion just because everyone says you'll be hurting the baby by keeping it. You just can't be a f*ck off dad. There are plenty of means for gov. support for the baby and your gf. Money will be tight, but babies don't care how much money you have, as long as you take care of their needs and love them. My mom had me and she had nothing. My Mom-Mom helped us out till she got back on her feet, and I feel like i've had more support in my life then a kid with a two parent home. I've got alot of adults who love me and would do anything for me, all because my mommma wasn't prepared to have a kid when she did.
After all that shit...i know it runs on forever....but im just saying, I don't think she is pregnant, but if she is, its not the end of the world either. You could abort and be done with it if thats your choice (and its not a bad choice, just a choice), you could have the baby and go through lots of bumps in your road of life and still be okay, maybe even a better person for it. Or you could give it up for adoption ( i really have no comment on this choice, I have no experience here, i just know i would never be able to do it myself)
I am not condoning you for getting into this situation, but im not offering up congrats either, just putting my two cents in!

I agree with everyone else ... abort the girlfriend, then perform self castration. No more gf, no more baby, no more vd worries, and no more fuck-ups on your part.

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Originally posted by TheatreBaby Now.....if she is pregnant, its not the end of the world. Kids have babies all the time, and its not neccisarily so bad for the baby.

i beg to differ

I'm not saying "Ohhh....your 19...have a baby, It will be the best thing in the world for the baby" No way am I advocating that. But I'm just pointing out that children born to 18-20 year olds do not always live a terrible life. My cousin is 35, with 3 kids, and my aunt was 18 when she had him, and he always said that he didn't have a bad life. He didn't get all the newest toys or the best clothes, but his mom loved him, and he never knew his dad. And he is okay with that, in lue of a dad he got really close to my dad, and my aunts and uncles, my grand-daddy, and my grand mom. And now he is raising an 8 yr old, a 7 yr old and a 2 yr old. And he is the best dad i know. Showing that if you love your kids, they'll be okay.
But if any parent (young or old) neglects their kid or doesn't show them love, thats when you have problems. When you find out you are to become a parent you simply need to ask your self seriously if you are gonna commit the rest of your life to loving this child and concerning yourself with their wellfare over yours. This applys to any parent at any age!

Okay, first off-

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pretend it's Diginut/Yoda/God talking to you by telepathy/cordless phone/hypnosis!

Now *cracks knuckles* I have a few things to say.

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things are gonna get more and more interesting....i feel like im goin into a downward spiral...i just wanna land already...fuk tha pain

Get the fuck over yourself. Seriously. Even if she's pregnant, its not the end of the world. From reading your other threads, now along with this one, I have deducted (along with many other fellow TA's) that this "relationship" (put in quotation marks because it's really just a joke) was fucked from the beginning.

If she is pregnant (which, is highly doubtful that she is, two days or three days late, is nothing) there are a few things you should keep in mind. First off, I would be getting a blood test if I were you. From what you say, since you live 90 miles away, and she's chummy with her ex, and you've given us all the impression that she's been around town three times, it's highly likely it's not even you. That may sound a bit mean, but come on people, it's the facts.

Also, if she is pregnant, I wouldn't abort it, but give it to a family who can love it and take care of it properly. God knows what will happen to the kid if he/she grows up with two mentally instable parents. It was your responsibility, and you have to deal with the consequences. If you weren't prepared to face the harsh reality of the decisions you made, you should not have been having sex.

Since she is most likely not, I say drop the B.S. and drop the girl. I lost all sympathy for you as well on this matter, because it is your fault that you choose to stay with a psycho who wants you to quit school and go live with her. If she really loved you, she'd tell you to continue on with your education. It sounds like a half assed way of trying to get you to stick around. Maybe the ex that buys her Ice Cream bought her sorbet instead and she doesn't like it as much, hell if I know.

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