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Originally posted by DJ El Kay Dee HOLY CRAP NO EMAIL ADDRESSES PEOPLE YOU WILL: 1)MAKE YOURSELF LOOK LIKE A GEEK 2)OR GET THE EMAIL ADDY WHICH U WILL SEND 5 EMAILS TO AND SHE WILL NOT REPLY COS SHE HAS THE OPTION TO JSUT DELETE IT AT WILL

You're wrong man. This was the case several years ago, but now everyone uses email. It's a lot more convenient because when you get a number, you have to remember to call, and at a time when she's likely to be home, and then she may not even be there after all. But with an email, you just fire it off and you're done. If she's interested, she'll reply. If not, that phone number wouldn't have done you any good either.

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Just read my post above...

Grab a spoon and enjoy it while it's here

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Originally posted by djdustx Well for those who dont know...im italian...and i didnt shave that day and well...i have to shave everyday to look decent...and i wasnt lookin decent...didnt shave..wearin same clothes as before...a white long-sleeve shirt with a tomato sauce stain that was pure noticeable, jeans that had a pasta string dried into the crouch area...wasnt lookin to good...but i went for it anywayz...and i got rejected ..but i did it none the less Sebastiano

The visuals of this are just killing me....

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Originally posted by Matt whooo Frou Frou!

damn straight. FROU FROU. I got a few PMs from TA peeps in the last few weeks who recognized the signature as Frou Frou. That made me smile. Glad to see there are fans out there!!! I keep hoping they will come to Toronto.

hj

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Originally posted by angelgirl damn straight. FROU FROU. I got a few PMs from TA peeps in the last few weeks who recognized the signature as Frou Frou. That made me smile. Glad to see there are fans out there!!! I keep hoping they will come to Toronto. hj

Is that the song "Breathe In"?

Nice tune...


Edit: Nope, it's not...but "Breathe In" is my fave from them...

I agree with RJ, I think you should follow his advice it's pretty original

hhaha these kind of threads on tranceaddict always get the most mileage.. and they last for ages and ages and pages and pages. Everyone's got something to add, to advise, to negate..
..grr I guess I'm no different

Which movie was it that Robert Redford talked about a girl he saw on a subway and hasn't approached her and kept coming back every day to that same place -- forever -- and never saw her again.. The way we were?

I agree about not asking for her number. I never give out mine.. and if he insists, I'll give it - a fake one though. E-mail works just fiiiine for me. If I get his number, it's alright too. I'll call - if I am very interested and if I'm not busy.
I also hate compliments, unless they are really revolutionary and unique. Great eyes, great posture (?!), great nails (hmm?)... are waste of breath

There are some things you can do - but you have to be very original and in such short instances catchy. I've actually regretted not coming up to somebody like that myself in some situations. Because I believe that you can tell a lot about someone's personality and character from their gaze, their physical appearance and some gestures, actions and reactions to certain things.

btw - if you do see her next time, don't tell her that you've seen her before and that you're thanking your lucky stars that you ran into her again cause you dreamt of her since haha

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Originally posted by psychosomatica When have you ever known RJ to give out bad advice?

Exactly.

Ok then I guess I'll just slap her ass

Thanks RJ

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Originally posted by starsearcher Ok then I guess I'll just slap her ass

Gently now. Don't over-do it on the first try...

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Originally posted by rabbitjoker Gently now. Don't over-do it on the first try...

Thanks RJ I'll do my best

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Originally posted by starsearcher Thanks RJ I'll do my best

And remember kids, its not sexual harassment if she enjoys it

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Originally posted by EvilDust Is that the song "Breathe In"? Nice tune... Edit: Nope, it's not...but "Breathe In" is my fave from them...

you got it...signature is from "Let Go". I do love "Breathe In" too...in fact I love the whole Details album.

Hey, haven't read your replies bcuz you asked for a girls point of view/opin, but I'm relinquishing my keyboard hehehe--->read on

Hello, here's my female suggestion:
1) Don't just look at her, make contact, what have you got to loose?
2) Girls like guys who are not afraid to talk what's on their mind (which should always be a compliment at a first contact) Sounds corny but it works.

So the ideal scenerio should go like this:
You see the girl, you move up closer to her, looked her in the eyes, smile and say
..."Hi!"
Wait for a reply and if it does or doesn't comeback, say
..."I'm (insert starsearcher name here) I've seen you with some friends dancing at ...(give the name of a club & day you've been there often, like...The Guv on Thursday nites)" then (don't even wait for a reply) say
..."You've probably heard this before but you have an amazing look and your a great dancer."

Wait for a reply here. If she confirms she's been there then go for it full blast or use the same comeback--if she says she's never been, say:
..."well you should go bcuz you'd have a great time--and if your ever at ...(name the place and date of the week again) you should wave. I'm usually by (name a spot in the place here) the stage around (insert time here) 1am."
..."A lot of amazing people go there and you'd have a really good time, and I have some good contacts there that can probably get you past the long lineup at the bar for that (name a popular drink here)drink I've seem all the girls ordering"

So know you've just set a date with her. You've set the date, place, location and time. You have max 3 days opportunity within the 3weeks to meetup. After 3 it will never happen. What have you got to loose. Even if she turns you down on the spot atleast you tried. Most likely you won't even see her or anyone else from that train again. And even people that are listening in won't really think your trying to pick her up. Of course you've got to do it convincingly. So practice with some girls that are friends.
Also, speaking up makes you look like a really self confident guy and girls like that. Good Luck! From Pat

And back to me--->B4k-oz hehehe
Later

Did you just seriously tell him to walk up to a random chick, tell her to be at a particular club on a certain night, and expect her to actually show up? You know, even with an ego the size of mine... i just can't fucking see that working Just get her number and take her out to for a cup of coffee sometime. See if she's worth the trouble, then take it further if you want.

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Originally posted by d!abolic Did you just seriously tell him to walk up to a random chick, tell her to be at a particular club on a certain night, and expect her to actually show up? You know, even with an ego the size of mine... i just can't fucking see that working Just get her number and take her out to for a cup of coffee sometime. See if she's worth the trouble, then take it further if you want.

Wow.....let me correct your assumption......my girl Pat posted that suggestion. It's a women's perspective. Definately not mine.

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Originally posted by b4k-oz Hey, haven't read your replies bcuz you asked for a girls point of view/opin, but I'm relinquishing my keyboard hehehe--->read on Hello, here's my female suggestion: 1) Don't just look at her, make contact, what have you got to loose? 2) Girls like guys who are not afraid to talk what's on their mind (which should always be a compliment at a first contact) Sounds corny but it works. So the ideal scenerio should go like this: You see the girl, you move up closer to her, looked her in the eyes, smile and say ..."Hi!" Wait for a reply and if it does or doesn't comeback, say ..."I'm (insert starsearcher name here) I've seen you with some friends dancing at ...(give the name of a club & day you've been there often, like...The Guv on Thursday nites)" then (don't even wait for a reply) say ..."You've probably heard this before but you have an amazing look and your a great dancer." Wait for a reply here. If she confirms she's been there then go for it full blast or use the same comeback--if she says she's never been, say: ..."well you should go bcuz you'd have a great time--and if your ever at ...(name the place and date of the week again) you should wave. I'm usually by (name a spot in the place here) the stage around (insert time here) 1am." ..."A lot of amazing people go there and you'd have a really good time, and I have some good contacts there that can probably get you past the long lineup at the bar for that (name a popular drink here)drink I've seem all the girls ordering" So know you've just set a date with her. You've set the date, place, location and time. You have max 3 days opportunity within the 3weeks to meetup. After 3 it will never happen. What have you got to loose. Even if she turns you down on the spot atleast you tried. Most likely you won't even see her or anyone else from that train again. And even people that are listening in won't really think your trying to pick her up. Of course you've got to do it convincingly. So practice with some girls that are friends. Also, speaking up makes you look like a really self confident guy and girls like that. Good Luck! From Pat And back to me--->B4k-oz hehehe Later

Um..that sounds like a lot of work.

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Originally posted by Trancewave Um..that sounds like a lot of work.

I agree with you, but she swears it will work. She says it works for both males and females really great. She also suggests inviting someone over for a poker nite. She's helped her friends meet loads of guys that way and I'm sure vice versa.

LOL I kinda was direct with her when I met her. Only our meet wasn't preplanned...it was spontaneous and it turned out fine for us. We've been together now for several years.

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Originally posted by b4k-oz Wow.....let me correct your assumption......my girl Pat posted that suggestion. It's a women's perspective. Definately not mine.

Hahah! (go back and read what i said earlier about women's perspectives on dating). I don't mean to be a prick (and to give her credit, the dialogue walkthrough seems pretty solid), but.. man, i don't even know where to begin. I mean, if you run into an attractive girl who's a great dancer at a club, why not just introduce yourself then and there?

dude, you just SAW her.

how do you know she's not a total bitch?

bahhh...i say write a little note with ur name, number and a funny drawing....and toss it her way
lol

(dunno..jsut a thoguth..i think i should try it some time)

Diabolic ur making this alot more difficult for urself

(assuming this thread is now aimed to help you out)

U walk up to her and say whats up...B4k-oz's girl jus helped u out large...I would have to say she needs to write the How to Apporach a Female for dummies (Helpful Hints 4 D!abolic) edition

This thread should have been done 5 pages ago

Sebastiano

this isn't my thread, nor was her post directed at me...?

yea i only read replies here and there...mainly the first...and last 5 replies

Sebastiano

P.S. was it not about u?

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Originally posted by DJ El Kay Dee bahhh...i say write a little note with ur name, number and a funny drawing....and toss it her way lol (dunno..jsut a thoguth..i think i should try it some time)

targeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeem... ROFL

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Originally posted by starsearcher The moral of yesterday's lesson in the school of life is -- there is no ONE perfect girl...there are just too many out there, and although I'm sure there is that ONE perfect girl for everyone I haven't met mine yet. As usual as the summer time comes all these beautiful girls come out of hibernation and the city turns prettty once again.

It seems to me that you are basing your idea of the perfect woman on the wrong characteristics.... If you can tell that a woman is perfect for you solely by looking at her, you have some astounding powers of deduction. By looking at a woman, you might only be able to discern her "hotness" while only scraping the surface of her personality.

My point is, if you are basing your idea of a perfect woman only on looks, then it's no wonder you are intimidated. Once you realize that people are more than just their appearance, then you will become more comfortable talking to them (and more interesting b/c you will have things to talk about other than her appearance)

-+Aron

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