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Originally posted by anuneventrade Find me one that's not like that then that's not already spoken for! Every single boyfriend I've had has called me the "perfect girlfriend", but in the end, the don't want a relationship, they want a fuck buddy, so I get the boot. You're talking to the girl that does the laundry, cooks, cleans, is up to sex at any point and time in the day, doesn't care if you want to hang with the boys, doesn't think much of jealousy, and gets along with most of the boyfriends friends (if not all of them) and I play video games! Love them! If I don't know it, teach me it and I'll whoop your ass! Not lookin' for marraige (oh God no), just someone to wake up next to in the morning. But alas, maybe it's just this town, but that's not good enough, and the fact that I'm not willing to wear skanky clothes and throw myself onto random guys in an attempt to meet someone nice, apparantly is a bad thing.

see that's how us metros feel exactly.

i know i speak for shadowolf and uwm when i say that we all are very giving.

we don't expect you to have to do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry etc. instead we like to make you feel like a queen because that's what you are to us. when we date girls we try and show them how much they mean to us by doing little things to make their life easier.

of course sex is good, but we tend to also be very giving in that aswell...we want to please the ladies we are dating. and we like to snuggle too.

so the problem we have is the same that you have with men. we are ready to find someone that likes to be a little more serious and loving, but the women that we find have "chicks before dicks" attitudes hehehe. we are great guys, but never seem to be appreciated as such...

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Originally posted by UWM wow we've got all these great girls and all these great guys together in one thread on an internet forum, let's party.

seriously...

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Originally posted by Floorfiller i've always been pretty shy...but i'm getting a lot better about it. but to you ladies that are afraid to start up conversation with a guy...why? i personally have never turned down any girl that has started talking to me. if you see something, why not go for it? what do you have to lose? that's how i'm trying to look at things anyway...

I have never been afraid to talk to anyone. I think I was shy as a child, but I outgrew that quickly. I may get flustered at times, but I try not to let it stop me from speaking to someone. You really don't have anything to lose. Some people are afraid of rejection. I am the type to be afraid of not knowing.

Everyone is different and there is nothing wrong with being shy. It can be an endearing quality.

dude your post is exactly correct.

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Originally posted by UWM dude your post is exactly correct.

i know it is hehehe...us metros understand one another hehehe

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Originally posted by anuneventrade Funny thing is, I don't even remember the last time a guy came up and tried to get to know me.

Thats what I love about this here intarweb. I know I would be way too shy to go up and talk to you even if you did smile at me.


hehe, I am runnig the scenario through my head.....


I star at you, you smile back...I turn red and look away thinking she wants me....then I spend the rest of the night staring and drinking heavily and smiling from afar.



guys can be just as shy as you are...and those are usually the 'good ones'.



although for the past 2 years I stoped caring, and now I go up to girls expecting to stop talking to them after 5 minutes...not get their number, and not talk to them again...I dunno where that gets me, but I am talking to them.

Maybe soon I'll actually ask for a number..




anyways, it takes two sides to hook up.....you can't blame shitty guys, or shitty girls....we all bear the blame.

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Originally posted by anuneventrade Find me one that's not like that then that's not already spoken for! Every single boyfriend I've had has called me the "perfect girlfriend", but in the end, the don't want a relationship, they want a fuck buddy, so I get the boot. You're talking to the girl that does the laundry, cooks, cleans, is up to sex at any point and time in the day, doesn't care if you want to hang with the boys, doesn't think much of jealousy, and gets along with most of the boyfriends friends (if not all of them) and I play video games! Love them! If I don't know it, teach me it and I'll whoop your ass! Not lookin' for marraige (oh God no), just someone to wake up next to in the morning. But alas, maybe it's just this town, but that's not good enough, and the fact that I'm not willing to wear skanky clothes and throw myself onto random guys in an attempt to meet someone nice, apparantly is a bad thing. I get all flustered doing things like that. If I catch a guy looking at me I'll smile and look back a few time, giving the hint "hey, I'm interested! Come talk to me!" but I'm too shy to do it on my own. Funny thing is, I don't even remember the last time a guy came up and tried to get to know me.

well being so perfect can get a lil boring honestly...u need to spice it up a lil...i know i always liked a challenge or someone to keep me on my toes...

no offense lol

but i thought slylee was a gay man for a while LMAO

im sure i wasnt the only one..

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Originally posted by Mr. Pink no offense lol but i thought slylee was a gay man for a while LMAO im sure i wasnt the only one..

you obviously missed her sexy pics hehehee

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Originally posted by tranceaholic well being so perfect can get a lil boring honestly...u need to spice it up a lil...i know i always liked a challenge or someone to keep me on my toes...

What, am I supposed to cheat on my boyfriends? Sorry, won't do. Had it done to me.

I spice it up where it counts. In the bedroom

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Originally posted by tranceaholic well being so perfect can get a lil boring honestly...u need to spice it up a lil...i know i always liked a challenge or someone to keep me on my toes...

I thought that was the behavior that we were saying sucked ass. No one is perfect, that's obvious.

i would like too add that i found out that " the dont care mentality works best"..what i mean is pretend that u r not intrested or play hard to get...my bro always used to say..girls r like stamps spit on em and they will stick hahahaha...

By the way, the challenge is actually getting me to be your girlfriend. Just being hot and saying "hey, I want to date you" isn't going to cut it. It takes a smideon more than that. For example, a personality that I actually like.

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Originally posted by anuneventrade By the way, the challenge is actually getting me to be your girlfriend. Just being hot and saying "hey, I want to date you" isn't going to cut it. It takes a smideon more than that. For example, a personality that I actually like.

well see maybe the good guys are the guys that might have a little trouble in the beginning and the guys that you are dating are the guys that don't care about you so they act however the hell they want...and you find that attractive...

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Originally posted by anuneventrade By the way, the challenge is actually getting me to be your girlfriend. Just being hot and saying "hey, I want to date you" isn't going to cut it. It takes a smideon more than that. For example, a personality that I actually like.

i myslef always liked that..the challenge always intrigues me..lets just say the chase is more seductive than the catch.

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Originally posted by tranceaholic i would like too add that i found out that " the dont care mentality works best"..what i mean is pretend that u r not intrested or play hard to get...my bro always used to say..girls r like stamps spit on em and they will stick hahahaha...

How old are you. That works in maybe middle school. That kind of mentality would get you kicked to the curb. You're either interested or you're not. When you get older, you'll get sick of the games.

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Originally posted by tranceaholic i would like too add that i found out that " the dont care mentality works best"..what i mean is pretend that u r not intrested or play hard to get...my bro always used to say..girls r like stamps spit on em and they will stick hahahaha...

That is so true.

"dont care" and youll get the girls.

but hey, i mean, an "ugly person" can NOT care and still not get the girls....u gotta have something..


and FF- yeah, i did miss those sexy pics

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Originally posted by Floorfiller well see maybe the good guys are the guys that might have a little trouble in the beginning and the guys that you are dating are the guys that don't care about you so they act however the hell they want...and you find that attractive...

dude..good guys always finish last and thats for sure.

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Originally posted by anuneventrade How old are you. That works in maybe middle school. That kind of mentality would get you kicked to the curb. You're either interested or you're not. When you get older, you'll get sick of the games.

haha no way!!!

it works! believe me

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Originally posted by tranceaholic dude..good guys always finish last and thats for sure.

oh trust me i know.

this girl i'm going out with tonight...maybe i'll just slap her in the face that way she'll want me

i think the problem is u guys worry to much abt getting a girl or u try to hard to get one

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Originally posted by anuneventrade How old are you. That works in maybe middle school. That kind of mentality would get you kicked to the curb. You're either interested or you're not. When you get older, you'll get sick of the games.

i am 22..i used to be always the nice dude..and the girls always wanted only to be friends..now i will laugh with u,crack jokes and have fun but i will never show if i am intrested or not. i might be nervous as hell but i act a 100% confident

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Originally posted by Floorfiller well see maybe the good guys are the guys that might have a little trouble in the beginning and the guys that you are dating are the guys that don't care about you so they act however the hell they want...and you find that attractive...

I always give the nice guy a chance. Girls have a radar for the nice, but shy guys.

hehe, maybe that theory though, that the guys I date don't care would work if I dated I haven't been on a date in a long long time. Mainly because when I actually do get hit on, it's from a guy that says in a wannabe-husky voice "You know you want this" or "Let's take this elsewhere" or "Why don't you come home with me tonight?".

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy i think the problem is u guys worry to much abt getting a girl or u try to hard to get one

when u try to hard u look desprate..if u dont have that i dont care attitude..it will work alot better for ya.

i don't have a problem hooking them...i can flirt with the best of them...i guess my problem is keeping them...

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