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Originally posted by Spam ...I guarentee you this chick that Jay took out has a HUGE level of respect for him now (not that she'll EVER admit it) because he stood up for himself and sent her packing. She had none up to that point.

You still don't get it....SHE'S NOT TO SWIFT....SHE DOESN'T RESPECT HIM...SHE'S CLUELESS...why else would she call back. Duh.

You don't know much about women do you.
IMO ur too busy sticking labels like "leash and collar". A relationship between 2 ppl is not about labels...it's about compatability, giving and taking...compromising and respecting each other for their differences.

In jay's case....he hasn't found that yet....but if you go in with the attitude your showing....it's never gonna happen.

As for your comment...and I quote..."many females have 0 respect for guys" and "fems don't like it when a guy wins, she's seeing if she can play some more games and take the victory".
According to this females are struggling against men. Well if that isn't the pot calling the kettle black.
If you haven't clued in yet....your stereotyping women, and as I said earlier....both do the same to each other.

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Originally posted by b4k-oz SHE DOESN'T RESPECT HIM..

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Originally posted by ShadoWolf

hahahahaha

shadowolf...the emphasis was on "she was clueless" in other words she doesn't know the meaning of respect.

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Her "game" is the whole money thing. Well, you can either play her game.. and win.... or stay at home alone with your "respect."

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Originally posted by Jayx1 Women asking me what my salary is is no different than a guy asking what bra size she is

i love asking girls for bra sizes (just bc im curious... not bc it affects anything in terms of my thoughts or interactions with the girl)

but that said, id never ask a girl i just met and was on a date with, or looking to date ? Why? bc it comes across has HORRIBLE just the way Jay said it! Incredibly rude.

but new friends ive met thru other friends, oh yea, ill ask them� thats just me. and ive never really offended a girl with my asking either (well, once, and that was fine, i dropped the subject, and apologized). after talking to a chick (as a friend, not as a date) for a while, u get a sense of if asking such a question would be offesnive to her or not... usually not i find... but it also is in the way u ask... dont be a jerk or pervert about it... and dont act like the answer matters (bc it doesnt! as i said before, I was just curious if my guess was correct or not)

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Originally posted by Jayx1 For years women were told to accept the situation that men gave them. Sadly I see the roles have largely reversed. What ever happened to the idea of equality (in the true sense of the word?) Last I checked, equality meant that men were involved.

Oh yea, totally!

http://www.tranceaddict.com/forums/...threadid=236395

Very very very much in line with the point Michael Crichton was making in this article.

Check it!

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Originally posted by b4k-oz None of the majority of girls that I've met are like that. It's only a small percentage IMO. And I never make these girls my friends either. They hate it when a person is straight out with them. Tho there prolly are thorns....maybe it's time to change your strategy. Maybe it's best to keep them guessing about your job and income....and don't offer that your a nice guy that pays for things either. Sometimes it's the mystery that makes the relationship better.

And sometimes it's the trance music!

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Originally posted by Playa24_7 that girl sounds like a super bitch!!! tell her to get a fuckin life. it goes to show that personality comes first, if the girls an ass, she can fuck right off

hellz yeh!

U tell 'em!!!

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Originally posted by ShadoWolf Her "game" is the whole money thing. Well, you can either play her game.. and win.... or stay at home alone with your "respect."

Hahahahahahahaha very interesting analogy shadoWolf

Hey where's the link for the video or cassette purchase hehehehehe

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Originally posted by ShadoWolf Her "game" is the whole money thing. Well, you can either play her game.. and win.... or stay at home alone with your "respect."

Sorry, my goal when going out with a girl is to find a potential life-mate who will respect me the way I will respect her, who will give and take the way I will and etc etc all that other stuff people want from a long-term relationship. My goal is NOT to get some action. Incidently, a gold-digger does not fit that criteria. So I'd prefer to stay at home alone with my respect and my dignity. Let her find a man like you, who's all too willing to pay for the sex at the end of the night, it's win/win for both of us!


B4k, do you know the difference between a stereotype, and a comment that says "many"? A stereotype labels ALL of said people (in this case, women) while 'many' refers to the fact that indeed, many (but not all, because if I meant all, I'd have said so) of said people act that way. You're dead wrong in your assessment of my comments, and I didn't even say 'most'! Also, when I said "fems" it was short form for "feminist", not females.

Reading comprehension my friend, it's NOT that hard.

I read a couple pages of interesting posts, and what say I say ... its a crazy world out there.

Cant really post an opinion, cause I dont have the experience ... I have bad luck with women, so I am just gonna shut up and edit what I posted here seconds earlier.

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Originally posted by Spam ...Reading comprehension my friend, it's NOT that hard.

Try listening to yourself some time. Then we can discuss. Till then...not much to say to you lonely guy.

BTW the difference between a man and a boy is that the boy ^^ always refers to women as putting men on leashes etc. A real man, doesn't make such comments.

Best of luck to you in finding that mate....your gonna need all the luck you can get.

I rememeber one of the best first dates I have ever had. The guy treated me to everything....not that I expected all that he did for me that night...but wow it sure did leave a lasting impression on me. A night of dinner (steak dinner I must add), then taking me to T.O to dance the night away...and we both just got reXXT!

and well as much as I don't want his head getting TOO big about me posting this....I feel I still need to mention who his is b/c he is a fellow TA that we all know.....

it is Floorwhore!!


So guys....even though most of us good girls don't expect everything out of a guy, it still pays off with just the little things you can do. Girls appreciate every little thing that you can do for them. It's definately the thought that counts. and a girl like me is definately going to give her appreciation back soon enought


Again guys this applies to a girl that you really dig.....

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Originally posted by dance2dabeat I rememeber one of the best first dates I have ever had. The guy treated me to everything....not that I expected all that he did for me that night...but wow it sure did leave a lasting impression on me. A night of dinner (steak dinner I must add), then taking me to T.O to dance the night away...and we both just got reXXT! and well as much as I don't want his head getting TOO big about me posting this....I feel I still need to mention who his is b/c he is a fellow TA that we all know..... it is Floorwhore!! So guys....even though most of us good girls don't expect everything out of a guy, it still pays off with just the little things you can do. Girls appreciate every little thing that you can do for them. It's definately the thought that counts. and a girl like me is definately going to give her appreciation back soon enought Again guys this applies to a girl that you really dig.....

Di you ever take him out for a night on the town?

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Originally posted by Jayx1 Di you ever take him out for a night on the town?

well I didn't have my own car back then...but I became Jeff's gf soon enough and there were many great partying nights after that.

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Originally posted by b4k-oz Firstly..I'm not a liberal

Hahahahahahaha...

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!



Oh man... can't breathe... ahhh...

...Right, and George W. Bush is not a conservative!

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Originally posted by dance2dabeat well I didn't have my own car back then...but I became Jeff's gf soon enough and there were many great partying nights after that.

But did you ever treat him all night like he did for you?

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Originally posted by Jayx1 But did you ever treat him all night like he did for you?

not all out like he did that night no. does that answer ur question???????

why not? Isnt it supposed to be a 2 way street?

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Originally posted by Jayx1 why not? Isnt it supposed to be a 2 way street?

yes it is...I paid back in other ways....like paying for dinner, and buying drinks now and then, and sex even when I wasn't in the mood.

WHAT DO U WANT FROM ME GEEZ!

you paid him back through sex?????




I guess im just trying to say that men also like to be pampered and in this day and age (equality and all) it's not an unreasonable expectation in my opinion.

If guys don't hold these standards for themselves then they are lame whipped losers. Enough said.

Kelly's a good girl, cut her some slack.

Despite the age we live in I'm always surprised when a girl offers to pay for something. Unfortunately, in my experience at least, that behaviour is also usually an indicator that the girl isn't romantically interested.

One of those "catch 22's" I suppose.

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Originally posted by Jayx1 you paid him back through sex????? I guess im just trying to say that men also like to be pampered and in this day and age (equality and all) it's not an unreasonable expectation in my opinion. If guys don't hold these standards for themselves then they are lame whipped losers. Enough said.

I understand and I totally agree...I don't think I was arguing with u now was i???? I just wanted to share a good dating experience OK!!!!!

GEEEEEZZZZZZZZZZZZZ!!!!!!

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Originally posted by DigiNut Kelly's a good girl, cut her some slack. Despite the age we live in I'm always surprised when a girl offers to pay for something. Unfortunately, in my experience at least, that behaviour is also usually an indicator that the girl isn't romantically interested. One of those "catch 22's" I suppose.

Not in my case... when a girl offers to pay it means that the date was so much fun that the whole factor of money wasnt even a thought worthy of mention so when the bill comes you just do whats natural and reach for your money.

I dont mind treating and splurging but not when its a one way street. I draw the line at that.

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