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this thread got really interesting.

i'm still curious about a couple things, for you virgins who are waiting until marriage... don't you fear that once you have sex with someone, you'll want to experience it more times with more partners? people love variety and they love to experience new and exciting things. it's a natural impulse for humans to want & crave sex, and there's nothing wrong with that. i mean, no one would want to eat hamburgers every day for the rest of their life, no matter how you spice them up with cheese or bacon or mustard, it's still the same hamburger you're gonna eat for the rest of your life.

i'm not saying that it's impossible. imo, you have to be a very strong-willed person to stay with one person sexually for the rest of your life.

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Originally posted by l�cid i'm still curious about a couple things, for you virgins who are waiting until marriage... don't you fear that once you have sex with someone, you'll want to experience it more times with more partners? people love variety and they love to experience new and exciting things. it's a natural impulse for humans to want & crave sex, and there's nothing wrong with that. i mean, no one would want to eat hamburgers every day for the rest of their life, no matter how you spice them up with cheese or bacon or mustard, it's still the same hamburger you're gonna eat for the rest of your life. i'm not saying that it's impossible. imo, you have to be a very strong-willed person to stay with one person sexually for the rest of your life.

Myra, I think that your argument is valid. Yes they will likely want to have sex with more people then just their chosen mate, however, that applies to everyone at some point regardless of their past sexual experience.

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard Myra, I think that your argument is valid. Yes they will likely want to have sex with more people then just their chosen mate, however, that applies to everyone at some point regardless of their past sexual experience.

true, but i think it would apply moreso for someone who waits longer to have sex, and is having sex for the first time with someone they plan on marrying.

i mean, i'm 21 and im pretty content with the idea that if i marry my current boyfriend he will be the last man i have sex with for the rest of my life. i feel like ive experienced enough already.

ok who wants to join my alliance??

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Originally posted by l�cid true, but i think it would apply moreso for someone who waits longer to have sex, and is having sex for the first time with someone they plan on marrying. i mean, i'm 21 and im pretty content with the idea that if i marry my current boyfriend he will be the last man i have sex with for the rest of my life. i feel like ive experienced enough already.

Perhaps, however, you must remember that those who elect to save themselves for marriage usually due so due to some religious or moral belief. In most instances, these religious/moral beliefs are will also include the belief that it is either immoral or a sin to engage in an extra marital affair. Thus, while the temptation may be stronger it is also likely that the resolve not to stray outside the marriage will be stronger. I don't think it would be possible to show any corrolation between pre-marital sexual experience and post marital infidelity.

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Originally posted by l�cid ok who wants to join my alliance??

I'm in!

I plan on getting together with someone who wants to have sex hanging from our feet from the ceiling kind of person. Willing to try everything at least 3 times you know what I mean

Infinite variety within a relationship isnt an impossible concept to me.

And im not waiting for marriage at all. Just someone who I can see many years of being with


that also includes waiting a few months and intense hanging out to see if that would work.

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Originally posted by Orbax I plan on getting together with someone who wants to have sex hanging from our feet from the ceiling kind of person. Willing to try everything at least 3 times you know what I mean Infinite variety within a relationship isnt an impossible concept to me. And im not waiting for marriage at all. Just someone who I can see many years of being with that also includes waiting a few months and intense hanging out to see if that would work.

so what're you doin next week?

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Originally posted by l�cid so what're you doin next week?

being alone and taking finals...and going to my island house with 3-4 girls and getting hammered. Also going to teach them all how to scuba dive.

Women in wetsuits are like otters...sexy little otters.

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Originally posted by Orbax and going to my island house with 3-4 girls and getting hammered. Also going to teach them all how to scuba dive.

okay if that doesn't scream "foreplay" i don't know what does!

Im way too wholesome

Yeah yeah thats just your angle.... bet you come back and quietly remove the sig hopeing no-one notices

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Originally posted by ::TranceVanDyk:: u guys dont know nothin. i go to a methodist private school. they are a good majority of the school population.

No, believe me, I used to go to a Catholic school. And to make matters worse, I live in Iowa.. everyone is so damn conservative up here

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Originally posted by l�cid this thread got really interesting. i'm still curious about a couple things, for you virgins who are waiting until marriage... don't you fear that once you have sex with someone, you'll want to experience it more times with more partners? people love variety and they love to experience new and exciting things. it's a natural impulse for humans to want & crave sex, and there's nothing wrong with that. i mean, no one would want to eat hamburgers every day for the rest of their life, no matter how you spice them up with cheese or bacon or mustard, it's still the same hamburger you're gonna eat for the rest of your life. i'm not saying that it's impossible. imo, you have to be a very strong-willed person to stay with one person sexually for the rest of your life.

That still leaves out the people who can't have a variety like everyone else. It's not like everyone gets to have the privilidge of being blessed with an attractive personality or looks. Believe me, I've tried. Girls just aren't attracted to me. So, I can't have a variety.

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