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Posted by Silky Johnson on May-21-2008 02:02:

Weird, my dad was Euro and he wasn't like that at all...but maybe because he was from the older generation?


Posted by heynow on May-21-2008 02:03:

Yeah, hah hah hah. And in my country when we greet women, we just pull down their drawers and poke them in the butt...hah hah hah... right.


Posted by bas on May-21-2008 02:03:

quote:
Originally posted by Ania_xox
Say my cousin and I are out shopping - we might walk around holding hands. That's just how it is. When she came over here a few summers ago, everyone totally thought we were lesbians.

Do you need an extra passport for all that slutiness you carry around, or is it something as simple as claiming it in customs?


Posted by PETRAN on May-21-2008 02:15:

quote:
Originally posted by Ania_xox
hahahahaha I experience the same thing
In Polska we greet with a cheek-to-cheek kiss
After spending a summer there, I come back to Canada and greet someone like this (male or female) and they are always like "did you just kiss me?"

This is how it goes in europe: (from my experience)

someone young/around your age - kiss once
middle-aged - kiss twice (both cheeks)
Babcia or Dziadzio (aka OLD) - gotta go in three times

Say my cousin and I are out shopping - we might walk around holding hands. That's just how it is. When she came over here a few summers ago, everyone totally thought we were lesbians.




Yep, although i guess that it depends on the country (for example i don't think British people kiss at all) but what you describe i think is the most usual. In Greece its a "twice-kiss" (on both cheeks) regardless of the age.


Posted by Ania_xox on May-21-2008 02:22:

quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
Weird, my dad was Euro and he wasn't like that at all...but maybe because he was from the older generation?


Jpie?? You're a polak??


quote:
Originally posted by bas
Do you need an extra passport for all that slutiness you carry around, or is it something as simple as claiming it in customs?


i let my egyptian man-servant carry it in his mouth
when he's good


Posted by RandomGirl on May-21-2008 02:23:

I am incredibly affectionate, and have quite a few times gotten myself into trouble because of it. I don't always realize that it can bother other people... so I just go in for the hug, and they get it whether they like it or not. Haha!

I also have troubles with "flirting". I don't really think of it as flirting, but more affectionate playfulness... and I don't discriminate, I "flirt" with both girls and guys. I sometimes wonder if people think I am a lesbo or a tease or something.

Anyway, I love being touched, especially on my back


Posted by Renzo on May-21-2008 02:34:

quote:
Originally posted by Akridrot
Physical contact? I guess I'm weird when it comes to physical contact. Very weird. Is there anyone else out there who's similar to me when it comes to being touched? I'll post a few key points

This is me most of the time: =|

- I don't like being hugged or touched by my mother, sister or any other family members. Nobody. I always push them away. Always. Not even my little baby cousin, even though he's like 3 or 4 (don't know) and always calls my name when I pass him.

- When female acquaintances try to hug me, I never open my arms, I just stay still until they stop. Expression is still: =|

- Even girls I like don't elicit much reaction when they hug me. Weird thing is, when they're really emotional (happy or sad) that makes me not like it. It has to be nonchalant for me to even tolerate it. Sometimes I wonder if it's not the girl I like, but just her looks.

- My guy friends usually nod when I pass by, but I hate shaking hands or doing that fist thing or patting shoulders. I just don't like it and I would rather just say hi or bye.

- I don't like hugging up during sex, just penetration (doggy style) is all I want. My expression is still: =| (Yes, I have actually had sex, which is quite surprising.)

- After sex, I HATE being touched. I hate cuddling, kissing, or anything after I orgasm. I am absolutely serious when I say that I just want to leave and never see her again until I want sex.

- When people touch my hands during training, there's always a strange sexual connotation to it in my mind.

- I am extremely stoic when it comes to fighting. People have punched me dead in the face with not a single flinch from me. I don't even have that stone-faced angry look, I'm just like a statue. I don't feel much unless you hit the right spots (like my trainer did when showing me how to knee people. ouch.)

My mother told me repeatedly that I never liked to be breastfed or held as a child, that I always turned away. She told me she just gave up and fed me from the bottle or left me in my crib.

When I was young, I didn't playfight much. Didn't hug much either. Nobody really got physical with me except for real fighting, and sex (when I got older).


I wanna hug you so fucking bad right now.


Posted by chimera66 on May-21-2008 02:50:

i used to be kinda adverse to superfluous hugging but i've gotten over it. my family as a whole isn't really touchy, we hug if we haven't seen each other for months not days or hours and even then it's quick...my mom really feels awkward with hugging and my sister has forced her to deal with it because she a huge hugger...my mom is more of a germaphobe than she would like to admit to.

i do the kiss on the cheek and hug thing with a lot of people and i don't personally care one way or the other about it. i've spent some time with a lot of foreigners (mostly european) so i've adapted to their ways. i just don't like those guys who hug you to coup a feel...makes me feel all creepy


Posted by squirrelly on May-21-2008 02:51:

quote:
Originally posted by gehzumteufel
*note to self, if you ever meet Sara, she is NOT hitting on you*




I get myself into trouble with the unknowing flirting. I try to catch myself now.


Posted by gehzumteufel on May-21-2008 02:55:

quote:
Originally posted by squirrelly


I get myself into trouble with the unknowing flirting. I try to catch myself now.

haha that's probably a good thing.


Posted by squirrelly on May-21-2008 03:02:

Yeah well ever since I got busted by the new guys friend lol. He was on speaker phone and he was like "I don't know about that girl, I can't tell if she's just genuinely that nice, or if she's flirting with me."


Posted by gehzumteufel on May-21-2008 03:04:

quote:
Originally posted by squirrelly
Yeah well ever since I got busted by the new guys friend lol. He was on speaker phone and he was like "I don't know about that girl, I can't tell if she's just genuinely that nice, or if she's flirting with me."


hahaha At least you didn't find out because of some stupidly shitty situation.


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