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Posted by RandomGirl on Jul-17-2008 17:17:

quote:
Originally posted by Moral Hazard
As I stated earlier, if you're having this problem then it's not really love.


I disagree.

You can love someone and not share the same dreams and goals. You can love someone but not want to give up your life plans. People who love each other can drift apart, and follow different paths in life.

Love does not mean you HAVE to forgo what you want for your life, and doesn't mean that you immediately would or should.

We love each other, and we both want to be happy. We both know that certain life choices would not make either one of us happy, and that may mean being together will ultimately not be the best thing for us. Happiness is just as important as love, because without one, the other suffers.

Posted by Axer on Jul-17-2008 18:41:



liquid

he looks like a recovering ecstasy addict

Posted by Moral Hazard on Jul-17-2008 19:03:

quote:
Originally posted by Theresa
You can love someone and not share the same dreams and goals. You can love someone but not want to give up your life plans.


Yes to the first, no to the second. If you really love each other you find a balance. If you really love another person their happiness is more important then your own.

Posted by Palladium on Jul-18-2008 00:48:

that was awkward

this why i wouldnt have a gf here in TA































































































PM ME

Posted by squirrelly on Jul-18-2008 03:00:

When you meet the right person, you know. You won't be posting a thread like this, because you'll be too busy enjoying your relationship. Somehow, everything just seems to mesh together perfectly at that moment.

The biggest mistake people make is staying with someone they've been with for a while, because of the fact that they spent so much time together.

If you're having doubts, you're not happy.

You can be delusional, and decide to stay and make it work, but ultimately, you both will be miserable, and things will burst into flames.

Posted by Lira on Jul-18-2008 03:19:

quote:
Originally posted by squirrelly
When you meet the right person, you know. You won't be posting a thread like this, because you'll be too busy enjoying your relationship. Somehow, everything just seems to mesh together perfectly at that moment.

The biggest mistake people make is staying with someone they've been with for a while, because of the fact that they spent so much time together.

If you're having doubts, you're not happy.

You can be delusional, and decide to stay and make it work, but ultimately, you both will be miserable, and things will burst into flames.

Oh, yeah?! Well, then you bet I'll be waiting for the flames!

I'm a pyromantic

Posted by Silky Johnson on Jul-18-2008 12:58:

This sorta reminds me of my buddy. He's got a gf in Korea right now, and he says he "thinks" he loves her. I said, "Dude, if you have to say "think", then you don't love her."

Posted by Lira on Jul-18-2008 13:38:

quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
"Dude, if you have to say "think", then you don't love her."

Allow me to correct your way of thinking:


  1. He thinks he loves.
  2. He thinks, therefore he is.
  3. He is he loves.
  4. He is he-in-love.
  5. He is He-in Love
  6. He is Love.

  1. His girlfriend is Korea
  2. His girlfriend is, most likely, in North Korea
  3. His girlfriend is in North Korea
  4. His girlfriend keeps bitching about North Koreans
  5. His girlfriend is-constant-in-bitching in North Korea
  6. She is-constant-in-bitching in North Korea
  7. Sbe's a bitch in North Korea
  8. If she's a bitch in North Korea, she's a bitch everywhere else too
  9. She's a bitch in North Korea
  10. North Koreans eat dogs
  11. She's North Korean food

Conclusion: Not only He's Jesus, he also sent 50 kilos of some of the food he loved the most to the starving children of the Socialist Republic of Korea.

Posted by Silky Johnson on Jul-18-2008 13:43:

Hah wrong! She lives in Busan...which I do believe is in South Korea.

Posted by Lira on Jul-18-2008 13:51:

quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
Hah wrong! She lives in Busan...which I do believe is in South Korea.

Dude, if you have to say "believe", then it is not really in South Korea!

Posted by eRRaTiK on Jul-18-2008 14:00:

quote:
Originally posted by Moral Hazard
I think the problem is that most people disregard the simple and/or correct answer because it's not the one that serves their psychological/emotional needs.


in other words, the sex is good.

Posted by Silky Johnson on Jul-18-2008 14:02:

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
Dude, if you have to say "believe", then it is not really in South Korea!






Why? I BELIEVE it...not merely THINK it.

Posted by eRRaTiK on Jul-18-2008 14:06:

quote:
Originally posted by Theresa
Anyway, I guess it just sucks that you can love someone so much, and not want to lose them, and yet know at the very same time that you're not really meant to be together. It's hard to let something go when you don't really want to lose it to begin with.

Logic battles emotion.


been there done that, like 3 weeks ago lol.

it was damn fkn hard that's for sure.

Posted by Lira on Jul-18-2008 14:10:

quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
Why? I BELIEVE it...not merely THINK it.

Well, I BELIEVE I can fly and touch the sky, I don't merely THINK it

Posted by Silky Johnson on Jul-18-2008 14:11:

Pffft, fag.

Posted by Lira on Jul-18-2008 14:14:

quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
Pffft, fag.

Gaaay, bro?

Posted by Silky Johnson on Jul-18-2008 14:19:

Lololol, you know it!

Posted by RandomGirl on Jul-20-2008 04:22:

So person A told person B that they needed to find a common ground or they wouldn't work out.

Person B said they would work toward getting to a place so that they could join person A in their travels.

For now, it seems compromise has been made.


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