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Originally posted by squirrelly Honestly, Ania beat out your story. Her story made you and your story, look like a chump.

Well, good thing the internet isn't a contest, huh?

dont know if most would consider this crazy but i was seeing a girl that would ring my cell at 3-4am in the morning on a weekday, just to say she misses me...i started to realize i made a bad choice fornicating with her at a party shortly after that, or at least staying in contact with her.

Everything on the internet is a contest.

you know what never ceases to amaze me? when girls tell you they're "not like all the other girls." then you kick it with them for whatever period of time, and lo and behold- they're just like all the other girls.

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Originally posted by squirrelly Honestly, Ania beat out your story. Her story made you and your story, look like a chump.

No, she didn't.

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Originally posted by Omega_Blue you know what never ceases to amaze me? when girls tell you they're "not like all the other girls." then you kick it with them for whatever period of time, and lo and behold- they're just like all the other girls.

Everyone's unique, just like everybody else

I never had a gf love me enough to fake a pregnancy.

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Originally posted by Omega_Blue you know what never ceases to amaze me? when girls tell you they're "not like all the other girls." then you kick it with them for whatever period of time, and lo and behold- they're just like all the other girls.

We all like to defend our friends.

We all like to feel special.

We all are intrigued by drama but as we get older we don't want to be stuck in the middle of it.

And hey, girls just wanna have fun!

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Originally posted by Omega_Blue you know what never ceases to amaze me? when girls tell you they're "not like all the other girls." then you kick it with them for whatever period of time, and lo and behold- they're just like all the other girls.

+1

Well, that ruined a rare good thread. Thanks!

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Originally posted by Echo of Silence We all like to defend our friends. We all like to feel special. We all are intrigued by drama but as we get older we don't want to be stuck in the middle of it. And hey, girls just wanna have fun!

hey, so do us guys, but we never make it a point to throw out claims about our individuality. i don't think that's why a female says a comment like that though; moreso a "i'm better than the other girls" implication. i understand WHY you say that, but it amazes me that it's such a common occurrence (at least with americans).

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Originally posted by hundred dont know if most would consider this crazy but i was seeing a girl that would ring my cell at 3-4am in the morning on a weekday, just to say she misses me...i started to realize i made a bad choice fornicating with her at a party shortly after that, or at least staying in contact with her.

I'd call it clingy, which on its own is okay if not overboard, but in conjunction with other things is unsettling. Seems cute and caring at first but then it starts getting to you. Especially if your phone is off when she calls you or you're sick/sleep in late and don't answer it because it's on vibrate and she starts calling your friends. Worrying is OK, just don't take it overboard!

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Originally posted by Echo of Silence We all like to defend our friends. We all like to feel special. We all are intrigued by drama but as we get older we don't want to be stuck in the middle of it. And hey, girls just wanna have fun!

so that would explain why you created all that drama with slylee and her ex

DO NOT date a girl IF:

Her eyes start glowing when she sees your credit card, and she asks you what the available balance is.

Every time you pick up your phone you can tell she's trying slyly see who you're talking to.

She wants to get a puppy/kitten/hamster within weeks of meeting you.

She wants to meet your parents prior to the 6 month mark.

She asks for a drawer in your chest <8 months of dating.

She knows your ex, your ex's friends, or your ex's family.

She's still "friends" with HER ex.

She tells you her ring size on the first date.

She's bad in the sack.

She asks you for money.

She asks you if you can buy her a car.

She tells you what her dream wedding would be like <1yr of dating.

She tells you she's been raped.

She has daddy issues.

Her parents are non-existent.

She's an "artist".







There you go.

I'll add more later

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Originally posted by squirrelly She wants to meet your parents prior to the 6 month mark. She asks for a drawer in your chest <8 months of dating. She's still "friends" with HER ex.

Strike-out!

Also, aren't all girls "friends" with their exes? At least they always want to be.

a few years ago during a breakup with my ex, i came home one morning after not coming home the night before (partied and got wasted and crashed on my friend's couch) and every single piece of clothing that i owned was all over the front parking lot of our apartment building LOL i was like, "woah"

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Originally posted by squirrelly DO NOT date a girl IF: She's still "friends" with HER ex. Her parents are non-existent. She's an "artist".

Whats wrong with being friends with your ex? If you tried to date and you both realized you would be better friends (this is, of course, before you get too far or involved) I see no harm.

Parents are non-existent could be for a good reason. Perhaps her parents aren't good people and she doesn't want to be associated with them?

Whats wrong with artist talent? I envy it, really.

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Originally posted by samochod so that would explain why you created all that drama with slylee and her ex

I did not create drama between Slylee and her ex.

If you cheated on a TA and then only weeks later, made a thread about cheating...admitted in the thread that you had cheated but went on to say you had matured...you weren't technically a cheater...

While the TA that you recently cheated on still reads and participates on TA. Yeah, I wonder why make a thread like this in his face? Why not show a little sensitivity?

I would call you out.

Sorry, that's me. If this bothers you, put my ass in ignore.

Oh hell no.

When it's over, it's over. I'm not friends with any of my ex's - too much drama involved (someone always still has lingering feelings). I also think that you can't really let go of that baggage if it's still in your face in occasion. You can't move forward if you're looking behind you - you're bound to crash into a wall.

It's also difficult to have a successful relationship with the new person if you're in contact with the old one. New relationships need to start with a clean slate.

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Originally posted by Slylee a few years ago during a breakup with my ex, i came home one morning after not coming home the night before (partied and got wasted and crashed on my friend's couch) and every single piece of clothing that i owned was all over the front parking lot of our apartment building LOL i was like, "woah"

Yeah, you made a thread.

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Originally posted by Echo of Silence Why not show a little sensitivity?

Yeah, because it was oh so sensitive to cheat on that TA in the first place

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Originally posted by squirrelly Oh hell no. When it's over, it's over. I'm not friends with any of my ex's - too much drama involved (someone always still has lingering feelings). I also think that you can't really let go of that baggage if it's still in your face in occasion. You can't move forward if you're looking behind you - you're bound to crash into a wall. It's also difficult to have a successful relationship with the new person if you're in contact with the old one. New relationships need to start with a clean slate.

I agree with you. When its over it IS over...which is why I won't ever go back and date someone who I have dated before.

But, if you dated say, a month, and just realized while you enjoy eachother's company but don't feel the 'spark' why throw away the friendship? Like I said, I think its okay to be friends with exes as long as you weren't deeply involved.

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Originally posted by Banora Whats wrong with being friends with your ex? If you tried to date and you both realized you would be better friends (this is, of course, before you get too far or involved) I see no harm. Parents are non-existent could be for a good reason. Perhaps her parents aren't good people and she doesn't want to be associated with them? Whats wrong with artist talent? I envy it, really.

That's not an ex then. I don't consider people you didn't get "too far involved with" ex's. Ex's are people you spent years with, lived with, loved, combined lives with.

Parents non-existent because they weren't good people means she's going to have abandonment issues, and eventually they WILL surface (unless she sees a therapist).

And I didn't say artist talent. I paint, I do photography, etc. I mean the "dark, moody, my life is so awful I want to die and I'm not REALLY an actual" artists.

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Originally posted by squirrelly Oh hell no. When it's over, it's over. I'm not friends with any of my ex's - too much drama involved (someone always still has lingering feelings). I also think that you can't really let go of that baggage if it's still in your face in occasion. You can't move forward if you're looking behind you - you're bound to crash into a wall. It's also difficult to have a successful relationship with the new person if you're in contact with the old one. New relationships need to start with a clean slate.

This.

Most of the time 'let's be friends' is used so that the person doesn't feel like an asshole and has an easier time moving on. Sort of like "everything is fine, just like before, only I'm trying to find other people to date".

Total BS, if you ask me. If it's broken, it's broken, don't mull over it, cry a few days in your beer, then move on. No need for reminders of how things were.

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Originally posted by squirrelly And I didn't say artist talent. I paint, I do photography, etc. I mean the "dark, moody, my life is so awful I want to die and I'm not REALLY an actual" artists.

Pseudogoths. Or emo.

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