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Also, yeah, spam every rotten slit of their social media accounts. A ton. Fuck with them and their public image. Because it's just like trolling, and that shit's fun to begin with. Just like "RAPERAPERAPERAPE" all their status updates and whatnot.

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Originally posted by Spacey Orange Don't listen to Ted Promo. He works for The Man.

I also have a mystical, glowing vaginal cavity that reveals secrets at each quarter hour.

Banora nobody gives a crumpet's ass what your degree is or what you went to school for unless you're entering a technical field. Seriously, education in America is a fucking scam! You're gonna have to do a little bit of networking, if you're socially awkward the internet is the best place for this.

I don't blame you for hating everyone, we all have our things. Just be yourself, and you'll eventually find a job that fits you. Just hang in there. Listen, the economy is utter shit right now, the jobs being created are half-arsed waiter jobs and part-time baristas at the fucking starbucks you're not alone in this pursuit.

just look for a simple steady stream of cash.

I know people that work here, give it a shot: http://www.surveymonkey.com

keep us posted

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Originally posted by Lagrangian Banora nobody gives a crumpet's ass what your degree is or what you went to school for unless you're entering a technical field. Seriously, education in America is a fucking scam! You're gonna have to do a little bit of networking, if you're socially awkward the internet is the best place for this. I don't blame you for hating everyone, we all have our things. Just be yourself, and you'll eventually find a job that fits you. Just hang in there. Listen, the economy is utter shit right now, the jobs being created are half-arsed waiter jobs and part-time baristas at the fucking starbucks you're not alone in this pursuit. just look for a simple steady stream of cash. I know people that work here, give it a shot: http://www.surveymonkey.com keep us posted

Interesting, I would have thought a site like that would be a scam or something.

I dunno, sometimes I feel like myself isn't very likable. There must be something wrong with me if I keep running into these issues; other people don't seem to have these issues. My boss told me I am a bit of a know-it-all because I am always prattling on about science and language and other stuff that people don't seem to care about but I think is really interesting. Maybe he's right.

If I keep to myself I am a bitch. If I try to be friendly I come off as awkward and weird (or in the famous TA case, a stalker). I don't know. Maybe I am a bad person. Even my boyfriend, who yeah will chat with me and checks in to make sure I am okay, seems slightly distant. I really hope I didn't fuck anything up with him. Granted, I guess there isn't much he can say or do on the matter. I don't know.

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Originally posted by Ted Promo Also, yeah, spam every rotten slit of their social media accounts. A ton. Fuck with them and their public image. Because it's just like trolling, and that shit's fun to begin with. Just like "RAPERAPERAPERAPE" all their status updates and whatnot.

Well, I still need this job until I find something else.


So it is 3am and every day I find myself becoming more anxious and upset. Sleep is getting harder to come by, I feel more sick and don't want to eat. I wonder why I am suddenly feeling so anxious days after the attack instead of immediately after? Even the prosecutor noted to me that I was unusually calm and collected considering what had happened. Now I just keep getting this anxious pangs and a million what-ifs and I can't sleep. Sigh. This is stupid.

PTSD. You have it. You were essentially in shock, at least on some level, till now. You are finally able to sit back and actually let that part of your brain calm down and get out of fight/flight/posture mode and you are now emotionally processing the attack.

Get in therapy now and try and nip it in the bud.

Not joking.

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Originally posted by Joss Weatherby PTSD. You have it. Get in therapy now and try and nip it in the bud. Not joking.

Broke American with no insurance. I can't go into debt and end up living in a cardboard box so I can see a shrink. I think things will be better once I get a verdict on the case and switch jobs (every time my boss walked by me today I would get horrible pangs in my stomach and feel really anxious and nervous around him because I didn't want him to come over and bitch me out).

For now I just want some sleep.

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Originally posted by Banora Interesting, I would have thought a site like that would be a scam or something. I dunno, sometimes I feel like myself isn't very likable. There must be something wrong with me if I keep running into these issues; other people don't seem to have these issues. My boss told me I am a bit of a know-it-all because I am always prattling on about science and language and other stuff that people don't seem to care about but I think is really interesting. Maybe he's right. If I keep to myself I am a bitch. If I try to be friendly I come off as awkward and weird (or in the famous TA case, a stalker). I don't know. Maybe I am a bad person. Even my boyfriend, who yeah will chat with me and checks in to make sure I am okay, seems slightly distant. I really hope I didn't fuck anything up with him. Granted, I guess there isn't much he can say or do on the matter. I don't know. Well, I still need this job until I find something else. So it is 3am and every day I find myself becoming more anxious and upset. Sleep is getting harder to come by, I feel more sick and don't want to eat. I wonder why I am suddenly feeling so anxious days after the attack instead of immediately after? Even the prosecutor noted to me that I was unusually calm and collected considering what had happened. Now I just keep getting this anxious pangs and a million what-ifs and I can't sleep. Sigh. This is stupid.

It is normal what you are feeling. Someone i know was nearly kidnapped a year ago or so. Basically, she was walking alone, in broad daylight, when some guy tried to push her into his car. She fought him off. But she suffered similar things you are describing. After my prodding, she finally went to see a therapist who helped her. You should consider doing the same. There are nonprofits out there that may be able to help you on a free or sliding scale basis. Its something to consider.

Banora get some pepper spray.

it's not your fault, ok.

here i found it for you

im interested in giving it a shot myself...hey, i never turn down a chance to make some extra money.

http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/d2wx896

I can get you a job in Macau as a mermaid.

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Originally posted by Sinusoid I'm glad you stood up for yourself. Fuck your boss, you should shit on his desk when you find a new job.

Better still, smear faecal matter in obscure places around the kitchen then complain to health officials that the hygiene in the restaurant is sub par.

you have boobs, use them young jeddi

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy my summer job pays.

lol

is this your definition of impressive ? You remind me of this rap video were they are drinking champagne but they use those cork openers for retards with the 2 prongs. People like you could have all the money in the world but will some how just stand out as just another moron wearing his latest paycheque.

I mean not only is it really not that expensive but fucking tacky as hell. People with money don't need to show that they have money. You can just tell. And you are that ****** in the video.

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Originally posted by Looney4Clooney lol is this your definition of impressive ? You remind me of this rap video were they are drinking champagne but they use those cork openers for retards with the 2 prongs. People like you could have all the money in the world but will some how just stand out as just another moron wearing his latest paycheque. I mean not only is it really not that expensive but fucking tacky as hell. People with money don't need to show that they have money. You can just tell. And you are that ****** in the video.

Your pants told me you have a time machine.

hush hush. I do love the 70s. It was just better. Everything. The racsim was more intense, the music was intense, the drugs were intense, the spreading of legs was intense..

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Originally posted by Banora Broke American with no insurance. I can't go into debt and end up living in a cardboard box so I can see a shrink. I think things will be better once I get a verdict on the case and switch jobs (every time my boss walked by me today I would get horrible pangs in my stomach and feel really anxious and nervous around him because I didn't want him to come over and bitch me out). For now I just want some sleep.

You gotta get some family or heavy hittin friends to break both their heads.

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Originally posted by Lagrangian Banora get some pepper spray. it's not your fault, ok.

I know its not, but given my boss' reaction (he wrote me an email asking why I didn't cover a girl's shift whom I told maybe, and I kinda went off on him for being insensitive) and... I dunno. I feel bad. I feel like a bad person in general. I feel like I am upsetting my boyfriend who is currently in California on business and can't do anything anyway, I don't like making my friends worried, I still haven't told my family and don't think I will, then I just feel like I am a bad person, or not as nice as I think.

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Originally posted by Dykes_on_Jay I can get you a job in Macau as a mermaid.

I would probably take that. I love weird jobs!

Goddamn I would love to have a job where I travel; I've thought about working on a cruise ship but then I remembered how much I hate kids. I'd love to work at a resort or somewhere that allows me to travel. I've been in talk with some friends in edm for artist handling, but nothing has really solidified yet.

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Originally posted by jonSun You gotta get some family or heavy hittin friends to break both their heads.

No family that could financially afford to help me. The only one who could lives with my father and spends all of her time in fear/harassed/dictated by him and she spends a lot of her money to support him and rebuild the house that he and his dogs have completely destroyed.

Heavy hittin' friends... ehh, I don't know. I don't feel comfortable taking money from people anyway, even family, and the only people I know who have a lot of money I am worried they will want something sexual in return.

I would really try to get out of waitering. Even making less somewhere with structured advancement is just a better decision in the long term. Waitering looks terrible on a resume. I remember the summers i worked between semesters and it was sad how people are basically stuck doing it because they hit 30 and realize they have nothing to show for 10 years. I mean i get it if you are trying to pursue something and need money quick but as a career, its a tough road.

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Originally posted by Looney4Clooney I would really try to get out of waitering. Even making less somewhere with structure advancement is just a better decision in the long term. Waitering looks terrible on a resume.

I'm a hostess, not a waiter. I am trying. I am spamming my resume to all kinds of offices, customer support centers, etc. You have to think of all the other people I am competing with, though. I am worried I might have to take a place out of desperation, and restaurants/retail are always hiring (and firing).

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Originally posted by Banora I'm a hostess, not a waiter. I am trying. I am spamming my resume to all kinds of offices, customer support centers, etc. You have to think of all the other people I am competing with, though. I am worried I might have to take a place out of desperation, and restaurants/retail are always hiring (and firing).

Did you go to school? I can't remember.

Also, do you have Danish citizenship or residency ability?

honestly, just make a few postings on craigslist m4m casual encounters section for a restaurant manager who wants to get topped in a walk in freezer and put his phone number as the contact....

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Originally posted by Joss Weatherby Did you go to school? I can't remember. Also, do you have Danish citizenship or residency ability?

I went to school but had to drop out due to monetary and personal reasons last semester.

I... sort of no longer have my Danish citizenship. After the influx of immigrants in Denmark following the Middle East invasion, Denmark's borders became tighter than a virgin on prom night. Not to mention there is a woman in Denmark by the name of Pia Kj�rsgaard who hates anyone who can't trace their Danish ancestry back to some Viking. Even half Danes like me she and her party (the Danish People's Party) consider not true Danes and have no business being in Denmark. She and her party are pretty high up and have passed all kinds of crazy immigration and naturalization laws.

My Danish passport has expired and as I have lived in the US for more years than I lived in Denmark I am no longer considered a Danish citizen. I would have to jump through some serious hoops to become a citizen once, though I would get preference over someone who has no Danish ties.

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Originally posted by colonelcrisp honestly, just make a few postings on craigslist m4m casual encounters section for a restaurant manager who wants to get topped in a walk in freezer and put his phone number as the contact....

Not trying to be rude, but you should really get your GED.

Insensitive pig. She is going through a very difficult moment.

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Originally posted by enydo Not trying to be rude, but you should really get your GED.

But I've graduated from High School...

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Originally posted by Spacey Orange Insensitive pig. She is going through a very difficult moment.

He is right, I really do need to move past all of this. I really am fine! I just... you know, feel a little off. It is nothing I can't handle.

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