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Posted by Cloudburst on Jun-06-2009 09:50:

I just think it's pity fayahadahadaddetc isn't here to see all those pictures of Sara.


Posted by Sushipunk on Jun-06-2009 09:54:

I liked Fahad, I don't see what the big deal was.


Posted by Cloudburst on Jun-06-2009 09:59:

I didn't think one way or another about him since I didn't know him at all. Didn't see where the ganging up came from because of that.


Posted by Fledz on Jun-06-2009 10:01:

quote:
Originally posted by Sushipunk
I liked Fahad, I don't see what the big deal was.


+1

But you know what the citizens of the c0r are like

So did he just never come back or is he still banned for an overly long period of time like I was (which was a load of shit but anyway...)?


Posted by Sushipunk on Jun-06-2009 10:03:

quote:
Originally posted by Fledz
+1

But you know what the citizens of the c0r are like

So did he just never come back or is he still banned for an overly long period of time like I was (which was a load of shit but anyway...)?


He was banned too? Don't know then. Could be either


Posted by Fledz on Jun-06-2009 10:04:

Yea he was banned when Lucid decided to be lazy and just blanket ban everyone for a week. Considering I had to constantly ask to be unbanned, I wouldn't be surprised if he was still banned.


Posted by Sushipunk on Jun-06-2009 10:07:

quote:
Originally posted by Fledz
Yea he was banned when Lucid decided to be lazy and just blanket ban everyone for a week. Considering I had to constantly ask to be unbanned, I wouldn't be surprised if he was still banned.


Lulz. Spring/Sprung/Sprang etc?



It happens. Were you around for the 'happy birthday' fiasco? Lol.


Posted by Fledz on Jun-06-2009 10:11:

Yea that was it. What annoys me is how poorly the mods handle it but meh whatever. It's not a massive deal, just shits me that's all...

Oh screw this, I'm heading out to find me some womenz (to get back on topic )


Posted by Cloudburst on Jun-06-2009 10:23:

It's about too lunch here, to early for chasing skirt. (I'm lame like that)


Posted by squirrelly on Jun-06-2009 12:34:

Don't bring up whatshisface! That's like a curse.

PS my vag went back to normal today It only took a week!

And last night my bf told me to just shut up and take it during the middle of sex.

And to answer Myra's question... last time we had sex in a car... 3 weeks ago on the way back home from a restaurant... that was 2 miles away


Posted by Slylee on Jun-06-2009 14:03:

lol rose


fuck yo friend!



tell her i said that


Posted by Slylee on Jun-06-2009 14:05:

it's sunny out.

i got an interview in an hour

then i'm going shopping

then i'm gonna try to hit up the beach or my friend's pool

then we got a poker game & bbq going on here later

maybe go out later tonight

i got laid last night AND again this morning...on the couch. while watching porn.

today is gonna be OFF THE CHAIN


I SAID OFF THE CHAIN! off the HOOK


Posted by iclone on Jun-06-2009 14:12:

going to my training session.

then to the beach to ride jetskis.

then it's going to storm like a muthahfuckah.

then shopping.

then champagne birthday party.

still on the chain but pretty damn good


Posted by Slylee on Jun-06-2009 14:14:

quote:
Originally posted by iclone
going to my training session.

then to the beach to ride jetskis.

then it's going to storm like a muthahfuckah.

then shopping.

then champagne birthday party.

still on the chain but pretty damn good


fuck i was gonna go with you.

whatever dude when are you gonna drive here and stay the night so we can party


Posted by iclone on Jun-06-2009 14:21:

no plans next weekend...let me know which night, and i'll be there with a rice steamer.


Posted by Zild on Jun-06-2009 16:21:

quote:
Originally posted by Sushipunk
I liked Fahad, I don't see what the big deal was.


That guy was fucking terrible. He made me want to take everyone's left testicle and run it over with some sort of tracked vehicle. No sympathy for that ****.


Posted by LinX on Jun-06-2009 17:28:

JUST WOKE UP A MIN AGO

HAD A BOWL OF CEREAL

STILL ROLLIN A LITTLE FROM LAST NIGHT

MY GIRL'S ROLLIN UP A BLUNT, WE'RE GOIN TO COOK A NICE BREAKFAST

HAD ANOTHER AMAZING TIME WITH HER LAST NIGHT

PACKIN UP THE NEW TAHOE TO GO TO THE BEACH, LAY OUT FOR THE DAY, AND THEN ROLL AGAIN TONIGHT





OHH YEAH.. ITS GONNA BE OFF THE CHAIN LOL


Posted by Slylee on Jun-06-2009 18:24:



yea umm change of plans. my boyfriend dragged me to the fucking junkyard to look for toyota supra parts and it started pouring rain

oh well im gonna roll a joint and watch a movie or something.


nicole next weekend i got a wedding on sat night and then sunday morning we get up early and head to orlando until monday

oh well one of these days we'll hook up.

oh yea and i got a jobbyyyy...i start monday. woot!


Posted by nrjizer on Jun-06-2009 18:37:

This seems to have turned into the general relationship thread, so I figure I'll ask this here. I've been wondering about this for a while.

Is it safe to assume (in general) that if two people are compatible enough to begin with for any real chemistry and lasting attraction to occur between them, these feelings are going to manifest themselves fairly quickly? Let's say in a span of weeks to a few months, in which the two people interact on a fairly regular basis (obviously, things are gonna move a lot more slowly for two people who meet and then only interact now and then for a while).

I ask because I don't really understand situations in which two people are friends/acquiantences for a long period of time before feelings start to develop and a relationship occurs. The whole "growing into the relationship" thing seems more to me like two people simply getting comfortable with each other and deciding to be in a relationship for some random reason that isn't due to actual love (like the need for companionship or validation). I don't get how there can be any passion in situations like that. I'm strictly talking about the presence of romantic feelings here--obviously there are legitimate circumstances that can prevent or delay the actual relationship.


Posted by Slylee on Jun-06-2009 18:41:

quote:
Originally posted by nrjizer
This seems to have turned into the general relationship thread, so I figure I'll ask this here. I've been wondering about this for a while.

Is it safe to assume (in general) that if two people are compatible enough to begin with for any real chemistry and lasting attraction to occur between them, that these feelings are going to manifest themselves fairly quickly? Let's say in a span of weeks to a few months, in which the two people interact on a fairly regular basis (obviously, things are gonna move a lot more slowly for two people who meet and then only interact now and then for a while).

I ask because I don't really understand situations in which two people are friends/acquiantences for a long period of time before feelings start to develop and a relationship occurs. The whole "growing into the relationship" thing seems more to me like two people simply getting comfortable with each other and deciding to be in a relationship for whatever random reason. I don't get how there can be any passion in situations like that. I'm strictly talking about the presence of romantic feelings here--obviously there are legitimate circumstances that can prevent or delay the actual relationship.


yea i know what you mean. usually it might take a night of heavy drinking and/or drugs with the 2 people and they ravage each other and have sex all night and then it's like, "wow, i never thought i'd be attracted to him like that" and all of these romantic feelings come out of nowhere. it's possible.

otherwise i would imagine it's a situation where one has feelings and the other doesn't really, and then the one with feelings gets balls and says, "hey i like you more than a friend, what do you say we give it a shot" type of thing.


Posted by nrjizer on Jun-06-2009 18:52:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
yea i know what you mean. usually it might take a night of heavy drinking and/or drugs with the 2 people and they ravage each other and have sex all night and then it's like, "wow, i never thought i'd be attracted to him like that" and all of these romantic feelings come out of nowhere. it's possible.


Yeah that does happen. I'd give those situations an exclusion, because what'll happen from that point on is that it'll either escalate quickly (as I would generally expect) or fizzle out quickly as nothing more than a drunken one-off.

The "giving it a shot" situation again just feels like there can't be anything worthwhile there. Why would it take you that long to make that decision, if not for the lack of any real spark to begin with? If it were a one sided attraction then it was doomed to begin with.


Posted by Zild on Jun-06-2009 18:59:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee


"hey i like you more than a friend, what do you say we give it a shot" type of thing.


that is when you stop answering the bitch's phone calls


Posted by l�cid on Jun-06-2009 19:26:

quote:
Originally posted by nrjizer
This seems to have turned into the general relationship thread, so I figure I'll ask this here. I've been wondering about this for a while.

Is it safe to assume (in general) that if two people are compatible enough to begin with for any real chemistry and lasting attraction to occur between them, these feelings are going to manifest themselves fairly quickly? Let's say in a span of weeks to a few months, in which the two people interact on a fairly regular basis (obviously, things are gonna move a lot more slowly for two people who meet and then only interact now and then for a while).

I ask because I don't really understand situations in which two people are friends/acquiantences for a long period of time before feelings start to develop and a relationship occurs. The whole "growing into the relationship" thing seems more to me like two people simply getting comfortable with each other and deciding to be in a relationship for some random reason that isn't due to actual love (like the need for companionship or validation). I don't get how there can be any passion in situations like that. I'm strictly talking about the presence of romantic feelings here--obviously there are legitimate circumstances that can prevent or delay the actual relationship.

hmmm... i feel like this applies to me, considering the last two relationships i have been in started out as simple friendships at first which then developed into something more (first one took a few months, second one took a few years).

i'd attribute it more to whether or not it's the right timing than anything else. maybe the feelings/passion have always been there, on some level, but there are so many things that could get in the way... maybe they aren't ready for a relationship at that point, maybe there's other stuff going on in their life, maybe they live too far away, maybe they don't realize until later that the feelings they have are more than platonic, etc...

i do agree that it's easy to fall into a relationship with someone you are already comfortable with, but personally i have no interest in being with someone unless i feel like they're my best friend. i've never done it out of convenience or because i was lonely. i can genuinely say that both times i felt a certain connection with the person and taking it to the next level just seemed so natural and obvious.


Posted by Slylee on Jun-06-2009 19:32:

quote:
Originally posted by nrjizer
The "giving it a shot" situation again just feels like there can't be anything worthwhile there. Why would it take you that long to make that decision, if not for the lack of any real spark to begin with? If it were a one sided attraction then it was doomed to begin with.


no in that situation, i meant that one always had the feelings but was scared to come forward about it. and then all of a sudden they do and the other person isn't sure how they feel, but they go along and see what happens.


Posted by l�cid on Jun-06-2009 19:33:

out of curiousity, Tom... were you referring to my situation in that post, or am i just reading into it too literally/personally?


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