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Posted by TranceGiant on Oct-01-2003 12:10:

I don't see a problem with internet contacts. Saying it's sad because it's less personal and "easy" is just dropping slogans without really thinking it through.
By contacts I don't refer to 30 minute long conversations in some chatroom but to long, stable "realtionships" on the basis of instant msngrs / email.
The internet allows you to be more "selective" which definitely accelrates things. You can, for example, look into a forum which deals with a certain type of music, or any other of your interests and immediately find "soulmates". It is my experience that sharing the same passion for certain hobbies is often only one indication for a genral smiliarity / chemistry between people. It's kind hard to explain....I got to know two guys form my area through music websites and they happened to share many more of my interests, simply because their loving this specific "underground" music (it IS underground here) was just one aspect of a genral open-mindedness referring also to movies, books and what not. So of course, I've got my friends but I also found new friends to hang out/ discuss music/ party with. I think that's great, and I'm grateful for these new possibilites.

As for romantic relationships I don't know....I've had very "deep", strong contacts with 3 girls and met all of them after 3 to 4 years (yes, FOUR YEARS!) and it was just great. The tranistion wasn't akward at all, I just finally won them as "real" friends too. Again I'm grateful as without the i-net I wouldn't have met them.

So the internet is definitely no replacement but just adds and sometimes helps.


Posted by Misty Kitty on Oct-01-2003 12:39:

I'm please i dont really know what they are talking about... call me dumb instead of each other, share the hate


Posted by vmc on Oct-01-2003 16:45:

I had sex with a girl whom I met online. A lot of people meet that way.


Posted by DigiNut on Oct-01-2003 16:58:

This is the stupidest discussion ever. I guess the dictionary definition should have used the term IP (Internet Protocol) instead of TCP (which is just one wrapper for IP in addition to UDP, ICMP, etc.), since every computer that can be said to have internet access either has a public IP or can access public IPs. Still, I don't see why this required over 50 posts of bullshit, it has nothing to do with what the thread was originally talking about anyway!

P.S. I like ya Orbax, and you've made a lot of good points in other threads, but we all know that anyone can pass the MCSE by taking 50 sample tests off the CD and memorizing all the answers. That's besides the obvious point that Microsoft's view of the world is a little skewed.


Posted by ShadoWolf on May-25-2004 22:55:

quote:
Originally posted by DJ Mikey Mike





the ironic thing is that they're good for each other lol


Posted by fbgdavidson on May-25-2004 23:11:

Re: Re: Re: Have you met someone online?

quote:
Originally posted by UWM
And that, IN MY OPINION, is sad that 'most of the people in the world' have resorted to meeting people on a computer because they lack the social skills to do it in person.


Now, flame me please.


Just because someone uses the internet doesn't mean they lack social skills to do it in person, they could do it as well as meeting people in the traditional face to face sense

I've met people from other internet messageboards in London. Was quite funny because we planned to meet in a pub in Mayfair at 6.30pm and none of us knew what we looked like. Since it was a group from the British Airways forum of a frequent flyer messageboard I had to go round to businessmen types asking and holding up a BA First Class baggage tag and asking if it meant anything to them! Quite embarassing!

As for meeting someone of the opposite sex, well it'd be a tough call to make, I guess you have to take each case on its own merits but in general I wouldn't, too many things to go wrong, but as I said each case on its own merits.


Posted by Orbax on May-25-2004 23:18:

this thread made me realize how fun I am


Posted by DigitalMP on May-25-2004 23:27:

yep.


Posted by Transporter on May-26-2004 00:07:

I met my gf online ...so yeah it can happen


Posted by meneedit on May-26-2004 00:17:

I hope your strong enough to fight off a fat-fuck 40 year old


good luck




P.S

lol


Posted by Orbax on May-26-2004 00:44:

quote:
Originally posted by meneedit
I hope your strong enough to fight off a fat-fuck 40 year old


good luck




P.S

lol


I dont think I could fight off DigitalMP...or want to Hubba Hubba


Posted by NinetyNinety on May-26-2004 01:10:

quote:
Originally posted by UWM
Internet dating is for geeks and pedophiles.




Cruel Intentions?


Posted by PETRAN on May-26-2004 01:20:

So, lets do it guys lets meet!!!Should we gather somewhere in canada or somewhere in europe?We could go to a trancenight as well and have some fun!

Is this an old thread?If yes have they finally met?


Posted by ShadoWolf on May-26-2004 01:21:

quote:
Originally posted by PETRAN
So, lets do it guys lets meet!!!Should we gather somewhere in canada or somewhere in europe?We could go to a trancenight as well and have some fun!

Is this an old thread?If yes have they finally met?


hopefully not in Bristol


unless we want to hear some excellent trip-hop


Posted by PETRAN on May-26-2004 01:46:

hahaahaaa why bristol is good!Lots of r'n'b and garage nowadays...(trip-hop is completely absent). Now, if you don't like english weather we can meet in greece. Mykonos is good, lots of progressive house and stuff ios is good as well. samothraki is good if you r into psychedelic stuff...


Posted by DarkAngel on May-26-2004 01:50:

quote:
Originally posted by Orbax
this thread made me realize how fun I am


We need to have some drinks.

I've met a few girls online. Nothing really spectacular...and of course, I'm not referring to any TA's....TA's that I've met are hella cool.


Well, most of them.


Posted by Orbax on May-26-2004 01:54:

im on my 4 th beer and 3rd margarita


Posted by UWM on May-26-2004 01:58:

Re: Re: Re: Re: Have you met someone online?

quote:
Originally posted by fbgdavidson
Just because someone uses the internet doesn't mean they lack social skills to do it in person, they could do it as well as meeting people in the traditional face to face sense

I've met people from other internet messageboards in London. Was quite funny because we planned to meet in a pub in Mayfair at 6.30pm and none of us knew what we looked like. Since it was a group from the British Airways forum of a frequent flyer messageboard I had to go round to businessmen types asking and holding up a BA First Class baggage tag and asking if it meant anything to them! Quite embarassing!

As for meeting someone of the opposite sex, well it'd be a tough call to make, I guess you have to take each case on its own merits but in general I wouldn't, too many things to go wrong, but as I said each case on its own merits.


I think people who have to meet people, i.e relationship-wise, through a computer because they can't do it in person are lame.

I've met several people in real life after I've 'met' them on chat rooms and forums and such. I think that's normal.


Posted by DarkAngel on May-26-2004 01:58:

quote:
Originally posted by Orbax
im on my 4 th beer and 3rd margarita


Damn it, I'm out of alcohol!

I'll knock a few back for ya Saturday, bro.

Oh, I did meet one cute girl here on TA....she thought I was a girl though, because of my username. Damn James Cameron to hell.


Posted by UWM on May-26-2004 01:58:

quote:
Originally posted by NinetyNinety
Cruel Intentions?


Yep.




I forgot about how fun this thread was back then.

Orbax, I toast to you a beer.


Posted by Orbax on May-26-2004 02:02:

Cheers, Dude.

"Gosh nobody ever asked me that.They just scream at me. And all that screaming really upsets me. So i eat them."

if you can answer that I will take a shot of vodka.


Posted by DarkAngel on May-26-2004 02:03:

quote:
Originally posted by Orbax
Cheers, Dude.

"Gosh nobody ever asked me that.They just scream at me. And all that screaming really upsets me. So i eat them."

if you can answer that I will take a shot of vodka.


Wild guess: Eat and Run?


Staying on topic, the girl I met was the very first TA i ever met in the flesh. She was cute and all.....


....but she likes a certain genre of EDM that I despise and apparently she likes girls more. Oh well.


Posted by meneedit on May-26-2004 02:04:

you and your Vodka, Orbax


Posted by Orbax on May-26-2004 02:05:

heres another hint:


Pirates they're paranoid! They hide stuff! They're all crazy. Could be in their butts!


Posted by DarkAngel on May-26-2004 02:08:

quote:
Originally posted by Orbax
heres another hint:


Pirates they're paranoid! They hide stuff! They're all crazy. Could be in their butts!


I'm totally clueless.


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