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Posted by starsearcher on Jul-12-2004 14:03:

quote:
Originally posted by AwakenedAddict
It seems to me that you are basing your idea of the perfect woman on the wrong characteristics.... If you can tell that a woman is perfect for you solely by looking at her, you have some astounding powers of deduction. By looking at a woman, you might only be able to discern her "hotness" while only scraping the surface of her personality.

My point is, if you are basing your idea of a perfect woman only on looks, then it's no wonder you are intimidated. Once you realize that people are more than just their appearance, then you will become more comfortable talking to them (and more interesting b/c you will have things to talk about other than her appearance)

-+Aron

Well basically she was my dream girl "looks - wise" obviously I couldn't tell her personality - but I never said from the get go that it was anything more than looks that i found dream-girl like in her...(did that sentence make any sense?)

In any case...I can't believe this thread is still going strong...this is very interesting

Posted by b4k-oz on Jul-12-2004 15:01:

To Starsearcher or anyone else including diabolic, you know what, I think my girls got it right. Setting up a meet at a familiar surrounding to you, would give you and this girl time to get a feel LOL I mean, get to talk with each other.

See for all you know this new girl might be a psycho beeatch or she might be too much for you.
But IMO meeting someone in a social spot is a safe place if your gonna get shot down/or the thing don't work out....and if she's ok, you contine your meet later over coffee or whateva.
To me, if something doesn't feel right with her, then your in a great place to meet others and maybe keep her as an acquaintance or a lead (LOL in business it's called keeping good contacts) which you can follow-up with later cuz you never know how HOT her own friends might be. There's also a plus to all this--->ur giving her/other guys ops too.
Also, IMO.....sometimes the quiet sweet friends are worth way more than the super hot ones---and they may even be an interesting and memorable freak in bed too LOL!

BTW, I was speaking to my girl Pat n she suggested a quicker version of her first advise. I's like it. She says when you see a hot girl, walk up, say the hi! stuff, and give her a piece of paper with your e-mail and the words "Poker Nite $$$" written underneath it. Your supposed to tell her u think she's amazin looking and that you'd like to invite her to a social game where she can come with friends.

My girl figures you can email her that she'd be really interesting at your poker nite. Tell her you think she's amazin looking and that you need her help, as a distraction, for your next win in a poker game (that's if she doesn't know how to play) or she can join in and make some cash$$.
I think that's a win win situation.
You invite your buds and/or gal friends (that may make her more comfortable to come by) and you'll all have a blast. Just my opin.

Personally, I can't think of a guy or girl that will feel uncomfortable playing or watching a game where $ is involved.
I'm not talking about breaking the bank here, just a nice little pot (say a max or limit of $5-$10 from player)for some lucky winner to get at the end of the nite. It's a good excuse to get laundry money or empty out all that heavy change ya got. Hell...I'd be shouting that the winner's gotta get us losers some coffee (cheer our egos up) after the game.

Posted by starsearcher on Jul-12-2004 15:16:

quote:
Originally posted by b4k-oz
Also, IMO.....sometimes the quiet sweet friends are worth way more than the super hot ones---and they may even be an interesting and memorable freak in bed too LOL!

Well I like the sound of that

Now all I need to do then is to learn to play poker

Posted by rabbitjoker on Jul-12-2004 15:59:

spank that ass.

Posted by Trancewave on Jul-13-2004 00:16:

Hi there! If you don't mind I would like to add my $0.02.

When you come on to the sausagefest that is TA and ask for advice on women, isn't that kinda like asking six year olds to explain to you the theory of quantum physics?

Posted by LKD on Jul-13-2004 00:21:

Posted by d!abolic on Jul-13-2004 00:31:

quote:
Originally posted by Trancewave
Hi there! If you don't mind I would like to add my $0.02.

When you come on to the sausagefest that is TA and ask for advice on women, isn't that kinda like asking six year olds to explain to you the theory of quantum physics?

You mean as opposed to asking a group of WOMEN? Have you ever TRIED this? It usually goes a little something like this

Guy: So what kind of a guy are you looking for?
Girl: Oh... someone sweet, intelligent and caring
Guy: Intelligent? But your last boyfriend couldn't even keep a job. And didn't he hit you?
Girl: Well.. um.. see, i know he loved me. We had something special.
Guy: And the guy before that... didn't he cheat on you? Twice?
Girl: Yea, but.. you just don't understand. That was different.
Guy: But I'M sweet, intelligent and caring. Why won't you date ME!?
Girl: Aww, that's really cute. But i just want you to be my friend.

*guy walks away far more confused about women than ever before*

Posted by djdustx on Jul-13-2004 00:35:

quote:
Originally posted by DJ El Kay Dee
not really...its more like asking 5 y/o kids to explain sex...they think its eww and think it inludes flowers and bees

errr...u mean birds and the bees right?

Btw if its not peoples confidence or self-esteem that dont push them to talk to a gurl...then maybe there not heterosexual

so anywayz...lets stop this thread...cuz i dont know how to switch off the email reply to thread thing...and its already bad enough i get an email every minute

Sebastiano

P.S. smack her ass...if she giggles thats the woman for u

Posted by Trancewave on Jul-13-2004 00:38:

quote:
Originally posted by d!abolic
You mean as opposed to asking a group of WOMEN? Have you ever TRIED this? It usually goes a little something like this

Guy: So what kind of a guy are you looking for?
Girl: Oh... someone sweet, intelligent and caring
Guy: Intelligent? But your last boyfriend couldn't even keep a job. And didn't he hit you?
Girl: Well.. um.. see, i know he loved me. We had something special.
Guy: And the guy before that... didn't he cheat on you? Twice?
Girl: Yea, but.. you just don't understand. That was different.
Guy: But I'M sweet, intelligent and caring. Why won't you date ME!?
Girl: Aww, that's really cute. But i just want you to be my friend.

*guy walks away far more confused about women than ever before*

OMG! that is so true

Posted by Trancewave on Jul-13-2004 00:40:

quote:
Originally posted by DJ El Kay Dee
not really...its more like asking 5 y/o kids to explain sex...they think its eww and think it inludes flowers and bees

quote:
Originally posted by djdustx
errr...u mean birds and the bees right?

You see what I mean? we're all confused.

Posted by starsearcher on Jul-13-2004 01:19:

quote:
Originally posted by djdustx
Btw if its not peoples confidence or self-esteem that dont push them to talk to a gurl...then maybe there not heterosexual

AAhhhmmmm yes...since i'm too nervous to talk to a girl i'm really impressed with and very attracted to I must be GAY!

Posted by Elmo-On-XTC on Jul-13-2004 01:32:

i haven't read all of this thread and quite frankly im not going to.

what should you have done? probably make eye contact with her, smile, if she smiles (like comeon a REAL smile not a polite smile and stare at the ground kinda smile) then approach her and just say hi. if she says hi back make a comment about something but don't compliment her looks...don't say "i think your uber beautiful" (also don't mention tranceaddict in the first sentance...i don't think girls are terribly interessted in guys and their internet forums...so i've heard ) ...say something unusual like "i think your socks kick ass" or "I wear the same earrings when I play dress-up in my moms clothing" ...you know be creative. if she laughs or smiles (basically if she doesn't walk away from you or give you a bad look) maybe introduce yourself 'hi my name is Sven (i hope you're name isn't Sven) i work over at [insert wherever] would you like to join me for a cup of coffee sometime?'...she says yes then ask her what her schedule is like and she'll give you her number (unless she's dunce). she says no then just leave her alone (don't ask twice...it's pathetic).

just keep it short and sweet...do most of the talking...you score you score you don't you don't who gives a fuck? Women are like trolly cars...there are plenty of them in the sea

Posted by LKD on Jul-13-2004 01:34:

quote:
Originally posted by Elmo-On-XTC
Women are like trolly cars...there are plenty of them in the sea

the expression is "there are many more fish in the sea"

dont be changing around stuff

Posted by Elmo-On-XTC on Jul-13-2004 01:37:

im sorry

Posted by Matt on Jul-13-2004 02:02:

hot mermaid sex.

Posted by drgoodvibe on Jul-13-2004 02:08:

quote:
Originally posted by Matt
hot mermaid sex.

hot lesbian mermaid sex

edit: oh wait that had nothing to do with finding a mate.. oh well!!

only advice I can think of is be yourself?

Posted by rabbitjoker on Jul-13-2004 03:57:

squeeze that ass.

Posted by Espresso on Jul-13-2004 04:16:

hmmmmmmm.....

and what if the whole situation was reversed?
what would a girl do if she fell for a guy in a public place? i guess they'd never have the guts to do anything about it

Starsearcher:
this might sound funny but it damn works: pack yourself with the best brands of chocolates/chips,etc, have plenty of 'em ready and attack her with a handfull , just ask her :"so which one do you think i should have today?"

play around with that (remember from that point on it's just about acting and performance, the more amusing and funny you are the better, but don't overreact! just act naturally as if you're playing with some kids trying to entertain them, with your good spirits i'm pretty sure it would work

no gal can say no to chocolates/chips or something delicious.
trust me i've tried it and it works, more than you'd imagine...

Posted by DJ Ski on Jul-13-2004 12:26:

Posted by starsearcher on Jul-13-2004 12:54:

quote:
Originally posted by Espresso
hmmmmmmm.....

and what if the whole situation was reversed?
what would a girl do if she fell for a guy in a public place? i guess they'd never have the guts to do anything about it

Starsearcher:
this might sound funny but it damn works: pack yourself with the best brands of chocolates/chips,etc, have plenty of 'em ready and attack her with a handfull , just ask her :"so which one do you think i should have today?"

play around with that (remember from that point on it's just about acting and performance, the more amusing and funny you are the better, but don't overreact! just act naturally as if you're playing with some kids trying to entertain them, with your good spirits i'm pretty sure it would work

no gal can say no to chocolates/chips or something delicious.
trust me i've tried it and it works, more than you'd imagine...

mmmm chocolate...women can't resist chocolate and neither can i Thanks for all the advice...I'll be putting it all into testing soon enough...already working out some plans

hot lesbian mermaid sex That's hillarious...

Posted by d!abolic on Jul-13-2004 14:01:

quote:
Originally posted by Espresso
and what if the whole situation was reversed?
what would a girl do if she fell for a guy in a public place?
Depends on her culture, but you could expect a shy smile from a Korean and a 'i wanna rip your clothes off with my teeth' look from a Filipina In either case, a stare or a smile is all you can expect, as girls hardly ever approach. And why would they? It's so much easier to look at a guy, who will do the approach himself if he's interested in her and man enough to do it.

Posted by starsearcher on Jul-13-2004 14:08:

quote:
Originally posted by d!abolic
Depends on her culture, but you could expect a shy smile from a Korean and a 'i wanna rip your clothes off with my teeth' look from a Filipina In either case, a stare or a smile is all you can expect, as girls hardly ever approach. And why would they? It's so much easier to look at a guy, who will do the approach himself if he's interested in her and man enough to do it.

I don't agree on the filippina idea...but you obviously have a thing for asian women

Brazilian women are the best - they don't hold anything back besides from what they told me, in Brazil girls hit on guys more than guys hit on girls...although that girl friend of mine is a bit of a freak I hope she's right At least from my own personal experiences with Brazilians in Toronto - she is indeed correct

Posted by AwakenedAddict on Jul-13-2004 14:27:

Hahah, ladder theory... so old, but still funny

Posted by ShadoWolf on Jul-13-2004 14:37:

quote:
Originally posted by AwakenedAddict
Hahah, ladder theory... so old, but still funny

It's a valid theory.

Posted by DJ Ski on Jul-13-2004 14:46:

quote:
Originally posted by ShadoWolf
It's a valid theory.

That's why its funny.

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