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Posted by tc-fan on Aug-04-2004 21:36:

quote:
Originally posted by anuneventrade
I haven't had a boyfriend in over a year simply because it's the guys who want to fuck around and do their thing and do drugs while hanging with the girls and drone on and on about "bro's before ho's" and whatnot.

that is not sooo true...

Posted by squirrelly on Aug-04-2004 21:36:

quote:
Originally posted by Vivid Boy
i think the problem is u guys worry to much abt getting a girl or u try to hard to get one

That's why I have no problem with the fact that I'm single. I'm more than happy to stick with the life I have right now. If someone sweeps me off my feet, kudos to them, but it really doesn't matter to me. You can't be happy in a relationship if you're not happy being by yourself.

Posted by Mr. Pink on Aug-04-2004 21:36:

just be yourself

let things flow

for me, the key word is flow.

might sound stupid, but whateva- it's always worked for me.

Posted by Ang ' ela_ie on Aug-04-2004 21:38:

quote:
Originally posted by Floorfiller
i've already learned...its you skanks that need to settle down and stop whoring around

....

just kidding

no i'm not kidding

I just saw this. Youre in trouble.

quote:
Originally posted by UWM
Where's the high-5 emoticon when you need one?

What!?!

And so are you!!!!

Posted by Mr. Pink on Aug-04-2004 21:38:

quote:
Originally posted by Floorfiller
i don't have a problem hooking them...i can flirt with the best of them...i guess my problem is keeping them...

my problem is that i always got bored with the girl and found something "wrong" with them.

not sayin that they actually had something wrong with them, but they had something wrong for me.....they weren't meant to be mine, and i could see that.

So i move on- ALL THE TIME.

thats why i only had one gf.......cuz for a girl to be my GF she's gotta be pretty damn special

Posted by Floorfiller on Aug-04-2004 21:38:

quote:
Originally posted by Ang ' ela_ie
I just saw this. Youre in trouble.

And so are you!!!!

Posted by TranceGiant on Aug-04-2004 21:40:

quote:
Originally posted by anuneventrade
You can't be happy in a relationship if you're not happy being by yourself.

wise words.

Posted by tranceaholic on Aug-04-2004 21:40:

quote:
Originally posted by anuneventrade
That's why I have no problem with the fact that I'm single. I'm more than happy to stick with the life I have right now. If someone sweeps me off my feet, kudos to them, but it really doesn't matter to me. You can't be happy in a relationship if you're not happy being by yourself.

couldnt agree more..you should never settle for something that doesnt meet ur standards..lotta people tend to settle for some reason..if u r not swept off ur feet and like dreaming about the person then why bother?

Posted by Floorfiller on Aug-04-2004 21:40:

quote:
Originally posted by Mr. Pink
my problem is that i always got bored with the girl and found something "wrong" with them.

not sayin that they actually had something wrong with them, but they had something wrong for me.....they weren't meant to be mine, and i could see that.

So i move on- ALL THE TIME.

thats why i only had one gf.......cuz for a girl to be my GF she's gotta be pretty damn special

see i think i've learned from my last relationship is that you gotta have your own life. don't be so dependent on your gf/bf...stay busy and see each other when you can. i think that is the key

Posted by Mr. Pink on Aug-04-2004 21:43:

quote:
Originally posted by Floorfiller
see i think i've learned from my last relationship is that you gotta have your own life. don't be so dependent on your gf/bf...stay busy and see each other when you can. i think that is the key

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!! Very true!

that is somethign i learned too! We're brain twins!

but seriously, it is imperative to have your own life, do your own thing- when you see each other its all the more special.

giving some one their space, letting them live their lives and vice versa is the best way to go about things. Then when she wants, she can hang with you and your friends, blablablabla but it all has to take a natural course. Nothing forced.

i ocmpletely agree/

Posted by trancebrat on Aug-04-2004 21:47:

I want to be with someone that wants to be with me as much as I want to be with him. Sounds simple? It is. I refuse to chase after someone. Life is too short to always be wondering what the other person is thinking. You may think it is fun at first, but then it gets old. I want to be sure of who I am with. I want him to be sure of me as well. I don't play games. I did enough of that when I was younger and played shit like hide and seek. I don't play hide and seek with my feelings.

In order for me to be happy I need to connect with someone in the following ways:

Mentally
Intellectually
Emotionally
Physically
Spiritually

In order for me to fall in love with someone I need to have reverence for him...something that I currently have.

I wrote this once to someone and it is worth repeating because I truly feel this way...

I don't want someone to just add color to my life...I have friends that do that everyday. I want someone that will come into my life who's presence will have such an affect on me that it leaves me breathless to the point that I am brought to my knees from overwhelming feelings and emotions. Someone that when I look at him I feel profound love, respect, amazement, and adoration. In one word...reverence.

Posted by Vivid Boy on Aug-04-2004 21:50:

thats how i am ive planned my life without some chick on my side...and ill keep working on my plan, if i never get a girl on my right arm and a bottle of chrystail on the other ill subsitute the chick for a beer

Posted by Vivid Boy on Aug-04-2004 21:53:

plus why the fuck are u people searching fpor love? love isnt wonderful love is shit..love will fuck u up make u have no direction...if i ever saw cupid id kick his motherfuckin ass and stab him in the head with an arrow

Posted by Floorfiller on Aug-04-2004 21:53:

quote:
Originally posted by trancebrat

I don't want someone to just add color to my life...I have friends that do that everyday. I want someone that will come into my life who's presence will have such an affect on me that it leaves me breathless to the point that I am brought to my knees from overwhelming feelings and emotions. Someone that when I look at him I feel profound love, respect, amazement, and adoration. In one word...reverence.

that's a good quote...i like that. that's the way i wanna make a woman feel. just gotta wait for it to happen hehehe

Posted by trancebrat on Aug-04-2004 21:57:

quote:
Originally posted by Floorfiller
that's a good quote...i like that. that's the way i wanna make a woman feel. just gotta wait for it to happen hehehe

Anything less than that is settling.

Posted by trancebrat on Aug-04-2004 21:58:

quote:
Originally posted by Vivid Boy
plus why the fuck are u people searching fpor love? love isnt wonderful love is shit..love will fuck u up make u have no direction...if i ever saw cupid id kick his motherfuckin ass and stab him in the head with an arrow

Ahem...my doesn't someone sound bitter.

Posted by Vivid Boy on Aug-04-2004 22:01:

quote:
Originally posted by trancebrat
Ahem...my doesn't someone sound bitter.

not really..id kick anyones ass if they wore diapers and ran around with a bow and arrow

Posted by trancebrat on Aug-04-2004 22:10:

quote:
Originally posted by Vivid Boy
not really..id kick anyones ass if they wore diapers and ran around with a bow and arrow

Bully!

Posted by UWM on Aug-04-2004 22:21:

sometimes I run around in my diapers, are you gonna stab me?

Posted by [N]�k|��[Z] on Aug-04-2004 22:22:

quote:
Originally posted by anuneventrade

I get all flustered doing things like that. If I catch a guy looking at me I'll smile and look back a few time, giving the hint "hey, I'm interested! Come talk to me!" but I'm too shy to do it on my own.

Funny thing is, I don't even remember the last time a guy came up and tried to get to know me.

in all honesty sara, if i saw you in a club or whereever.. i wouldnt dream of approaching you, but maybe thats where im going wrong.. if i see a pretty girl i immediately think they are too good for me and way out of my league. i wouldnt say im not confident.. as i dont think im ugly or anything.. but as ive sed before ive had too many disappointments and let downs in my life, so i dont plan on anything working out for me.. hence.. i wouldnt be able to approach a girl as pretty as you in a club

Posted by torontotrance on Aug-04-2004 22:23:

well keep me updated on the thread.....see sig if you have questions.

Posted by tranceaholic on Aug-04-2004 22:26:

quote:
Originally posted by [N]�k|��[Z]
in all honesty sara, if i saw you in a club or whereever.. i wouldnt dream of approaching you, but maybe thats where im going wrong.. if i see a pretty girl i immediately think they are too good for me and way out of my league. i wouldnt say im not confident.. as i dont think im ugly or anything.. but as ive sed before ive had too many disappointments and let downs in my life, so i dont plan on anything working out for me.. hence.. i wouldnt be able to approach a girl as pretty as you in a club

see go approach a girl expecting nothing and so if u get nothing then you get what u expected and not feel bad..if u got the girl then thats a bonus.

Posted by squirrelly on Aug-04-2004 22:26:

quote:
Originally posted by [N]�k|��[Z]
in all honesty sara, if i saw you in a club or whereever.. i wouldnt dream of approaching you, but maybe thats where im going wrong.. if i see a pretty girl i immediately think they are too good for me and way out of my league. i wouldnt say im not confident.. as i dont think im ugly or anything.. but as ive sed before ive had too many disappointments and let downs in my life, so i dont plan on anything working out for me.. hence.. i wouldnt be able to approach a girl as pretty as you in a club

Aww Jay! You're such a sweetheart. When I come to the UK though in the spring you better come up to me and give me a hug!

You're amazingly hot though Jay, I'm sure any girl would love to have a chance with you.

Posted by DJ Rat 187 on Aug-04-2004 22:36:

Re: what do girls go for .....

quote:
Originally posted by [N]�k|��[Z]
... in a guy?

like the funny guy?.. or the hard man hoo fancies themselves and is likely to treat them like shit..

just curious as id like to know where im going wrong.. been a year and a half since my last girlfriend

that would be the second one - "the hard man hoo fancies themselves and is likely to treat them like shit" been proven, a few people on TA showed me the ladder theory web site, you should check it out, because it's the truth, it's a possibility to find someone who isn't a gold digger looking for an arrogant prick but very difficult.

Posted by kr00t0n on Aug-04-2004 22:39:

I feel ages play a big part.

Younger girls dont seem to know what they want, but they sure seem to know what they dont want.

I had a few gfs break up with me "because they werent good enough for me".

I thought this was total BS at the time, thinking it was just their way of letting me down easy like, but in retrospect I guess they were right.

Funny, chivalrous, considerate, etc, everything I figured that women wanted over the years, but have only recently learnt that more mature women seem to want.

these gf were aged 15-17 when i was 17-18, then there was this huge gap when i was 'in love' with someone and spent all my energy trying to make it happen with them.

this was of course nothing more than an infatuation with a female I happend to get along really well with

I gave up on the whole relationship thing when i got over to the uk, then last year it all came together

met a girl, 3 years my senior.

she likes trance, even has records and decks
shes attractive
funny
sweet
caring
weird
internet savvy
cute
reads over my shoulder
plays with my hair
and she loves me, and i her, and thank fuck that i am a tolerant man (her words)

soon to be celebrating our 1 year and I couldnt be happier.

mebbe i am just lucky, but it seems that 2 decent ppl got what they deserve... eachother

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