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Posted by Jayx1 on Mar-12-2005 00:57:

quote:
Originally posted by yankeeBaby
Girls like a nice guy when they are alone, but when they are out, they wanna tough guy....so everyone doens't think the girl is dating a wuss who can't protect her. Be and asshole when the two of you are alone, and you will be gone in two seconds....well any girl who has a self esteem will get rid of ya!
Women want a lil bit of both: Sensitive, caring, romantic, etc...but also protective, and take charge in the bed You just have to know when to be which

So what you are saying is "act a certain way ie) negatively to the general public, even if its not who u really are so that you can project an acceptable image otherwise you may be an embarrassment"

i rest my case.

Posted by The Highroller on Mar-12-2005 00:57:

quote:
Originally posted by StereoPrincess
hee hee, cuteness!

i wanna go to this "meat market" just to see this going on. please take me graham.

The only TA I'd allow to see me in my "thursday night" mode is Andy. The reason being, if I embarassed myself (which I most definately would), he could probably match it with something equally if not more embarassing.

If you came, you would probably loose all respect for me.

Remember: I am still a 19 year old boy. I just turn off certain character traits when I'm around you guys.

Posted by StereoPrincess on Mar-12-2005 01:45:

quote:
Originally posted by The Highroller
The only TA I'd allow to see me in my "thursday night" mode is Andy. The reason being, if I embarassed myself (which I most definately would), he could probably match it with something equally if not more embarassing.

If you came, you would probably loose all respect for me.

Remember: I am still a 19 year old boy. I just turn off certain character traits when I'm around you guys.

boo, way to ruin my fun!

all i have to do is find out the thursday hang out and go there to spy on you tho.

Posted by DigiNut on Mar-12-2005 02:47:

I'm an asshole, but can I join your club anyway?

Posted by TheVrk on Mar-12-2005 16:32:

Posted by sexy_jennifer13 on Mar-12-2005 16:40:

I prefer nice guys then bad guys that's for sure. I want out with a bad guy before and I would never, ever, fucken do that again.

Posted by TheVrk on Mar-12-2005 17:06:

quote:
Originally posted by sexy_jennifer13
I prefer nice guys then bad guys that's for sure. I want out with a bad guy before and I would never, ever, fucken do that again.

So you say....
Girls that get stuck in that trap always say the same....
For your sake, i hope u mean it

Posted by Jayx1 on Mar-12-2005 18:52:

quote:
Originally posted by TheVrk
So you say....
Girls that get stuck in that trap always say the same....
For your sake, i hope u mean it

Exactly... women always say they dont want an asshole...then they wonder why they keep ending up with them.

I dont get it!

Posted by AwakenedAddict on Mar-12-2005 18:57:

quote:
Originally posted by The Highroller
put me in a university meat market and things change quite a bit though.

And said meat market is where on campus?

*Or everywhere on campus?

Posted by Sexyboy79 on Mar-12-2005 19:16:

Posted by Cal on Mar-12-2005 19:44:

Re: The official nice guys thread

quote:
Originally posted by Jayx1
Nice guys unite!!!

Why is it that our society labels nice people as being weak? Why is it that our society labels nice people as having "alterior motives"?

It's time to let our guard down and stop pretending to be assholes and nonchalant just because that's what the opposite sex wants. Oh they say they want "nice guys" but then they end up with mustang guido!

Women in other cultures appreciate a nice guy. It's time to take back Canada!

ahahahahahah

Cant be arsed to read all those pages to see if youre actually serious.

If you are, get ready for a lifetime of trying to bribe women with dinners and flowers to have them drop you after a few dates for a outlaw biker who isnt willing to take their shit.

Posted by TheVrk on Mar-12-2005 20:03:

I dont bribe anybody - especially women

Posted by Cal on Mar-12-2005 20:09:

Well shit, that's not what shes thinking. She's thinking - "Oh heres another guy with no imagination that doesn't think hes interesting enough for me and must compensate by trying to buy my time"

Its a HUUUGE step in losing control and making the girl lose interest.

EDIT - I remember last week at work this girl I work with asked this other guy to do something for her, bambi eyes and everything. He caved and did it. I could almost FEEL her brain clicking: "oh, another sissy...how sad, thats it, now he doesnt have a chance"

Posted by TheVrk on Mar-12-2005 20:42:

quote:
Originally posted by Cal
EDIT - I remember last week at work this girl I work with asked this other guy to do something for her, bambi eyes and everything. He caved and did it. I could almost FEEL her brain clicking: "oh, another sissy...how sad, thats it, now he doesnt have a chance"

Thats DEF NOT me

Posted by DigiNut on Mar-12-2005 20:45:

Re: Re: The official nice guys thread

quote:
Originally posted by Cal
If you are, get ready for a lifetime of trying to bribe women with dinners and flowers to have them drop you after a few dates for a outlaw biker who isnt willing to take their shit.

Hahaha, just the fact that you used the term "outlaw biker" makes it obvious that you're basing this all on the Ladder Theory page.

Posted by Sly_Guy on Mar-12-2005 20:46:

quote:
Originally posted by The Highroller
The only TA I'd allow to see me in my "thursday night" mode is Andy. The reason being, if I embarassed myself (which I most definately would), he could probably match it with something equally if not more embarassing.

If you came, you would probably loose all respect for me.

Remember: I am still a 19 year old boy. I just turn off certain character traits when I'm around you guys.

Ouch man, I'm hurt. But I only do stupid things after consuming enough alcohol to kill a waterbuffalo.

Posted by Cal on Mar-12-2005 20:51:

quote:
Originally posted by TheVrk
Thats DEF NOT me

Well good.

As for the rest of this topic, you just have to realize that women go through life having their ass kissed by "nice guys." So when you don't call them on their shit, act needy, laugh at her lame jokes, cave in on one of their tests, etc, you're acting just like every other guy shes ever met.

So if youre acting like every other "nice guy" shes ever met, why the hell would she stick around to fuck you in the first place?

Oh and I guarantee you theres female TAs reading this and just shaking their heads at you guys.

And The Ladder Theory is just scratching the surface. The outlaw biker really is a cool image though isnt it?

Posted by TheVrk on Mar-12-2005 21:00:

quote:
Originally posted by Cal
So if youre acting like every other "nice guy" shes ever met, why the hell would she stick around to fuck you in the first place?

Dood, this is my point: i dont "ACT" like any other "nice guy".....
Its simple, they take me or leave me for who/what i am

I'd rather NOT get laid if i gotta put on an act

Posted by jrmacca on Mar-12-2005 21:09:

i'd rather see a nice guy finish last and end up with someone amazing as opposed to settling down and end up with a bitch!
besides, who cares where you finish....just finish!!

AND of course a girl is going to say she doesn't want to be with an a-hole. who would ever want to be with one?! can't help it if someone happens to change during the relationship or shows their true colours.

go nice guys go!!

Posted by trancechaos on Mar-12-2005 21:12:

quote:
Originally posted by jrmacca
i'd rather see a nice guy finish last and end up with someone amazing as opposed to settling down and end up with a bitch!
besides, who cares where you finish....just finish!!

i like the way tou think.

Posted by TheVrk on Mar-12-2005 21:20:

Posted by jrmacca on Mar-12-2005 21:55:

i think sometimes, too, we get so caught up in what everyone else is doing, we forget about ourselves. then we're left standing there thinking, 'wtf. how did he/she get that guy/girl'

they just happened to prowl a lil quicker

so...stop lurking and go!

Posted by Cal on Mar-13-2005 04:45:

quote:
Originally posted by jrmacca
i think sometimes, too, we get so caught up in what everyone else is doing, we forget about ourselves. then we're left standing there thinking, 'wtf. how did he/she get that guy/girl'

they just happened to prowl a lil quicker

No, they don't prowl a little quicker, they know what girls like.

And it's not about "i want to be liked for myself." That's fine, but nobody is going to want to get with anyone who perpetually picks their nose or is naturally boring. So don't look at it as something negative, think of it as self-improvement.

Posted by yankeeBaby on Mar-13-2005 06:17:

quote:
Originally posted by Jayx1
So what you are saying is "act a certain way ie) negatively to the general public, even if its not who u really are so that you can project an acceptable image otherwise you may be an embarrassment"

i rest my case.

Let me put it a little more simple because my point came out wrong (My fault).....Girls want a nice guy who is not a wuss. Period.

Jayx: Never be who you aren't...there is someone for everyone, and its like being on a continuum: some women prefer a man who is more on the sensitive side, and others want an ultra tough guy, but we all want a little bit of both!.....just be you and you will find the one who clicks.

Posted by LittlePoonzgirl on Mar-13-2005 17:53:

I like nice guys, just not doormats. People really should be who they are and that includes not acting like an ass just to get the girl, or letting girls walk all over you for the hopes of getting noticed. Be who you are and someone out there will love you

I love my snuggle bunny

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