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Posted by Endlesswave on Oct-01-2007 17:34:

quote:
Originally posted by lopi
It takes a long time to get to New York from England in a row boat.



So the consenus among women in here is that it IS important? Just wonder why some women say it does and some don't.


Posted by Spin Laden on Oct-01-2007 17:39:

disregard my posts.. thought the threadstarter was comtemplating sleeping with the ex. And he was asking for advice from women


Posted by loca on Oct-01-2007 17:48:

quote:
Originally posted by Spin Laden
can I have my watch back?


You should be so lucky.


Posted by drgoodvibe on Oct-01-2007 17:49:

I've found ex-sex to be generally a terrible idea. It digs up old feelings on either party and by the end of it when your ready to move on it's as if you have to breakup all over again.

Unless she's totally cool with keeping it strictly physical, and you are too -- It's not worth the trouble really.

-B


Posted by Spin Laden on Oct-01-2007 17:53:

quote:
Originally posted by drgoodvibe
I've found ex-sex to be generally a terrible idea. It digs up old feelings on either party and by the end of it when your ready to move on it's as if you have to breakup all over again.

Unless she's totally cool with keeping it strictly physical, and you are too -- It's not worth the trouble really.

-B


he just chose that title to draw us all in.. though I have a feeling he'll be biting on some of those towels before it's all over. So what kind of watch will she be missing?


Posted by yankeeBaby on Oct-01-2007 17:58:

quote:
Originally posted by Endlesswave
So the consenus among women in here is that it IS important? Just wonder why some women say it does and some don't.


because, thats just it....some women truly dont need a huge penis, and some women do.

The general consensus amoungst the women that I have spoken to is that they would prefer an average sized..... because too small is not fun and too large (ie: porn star penis) just plain hurts.

However, I know most women love a little girth lol This is just what I know from women having conversations about it.

You also have to remember that most of the women's nerves are centered right around the opening of the vagina, and hence most of the sensitivity will be felt in the first 2 inches. There are very few nerves wayyy up inside where the tip of the penis would be.


Posted by Spin Laden on Oct-01-2007 18:01:

quote:
Originally posted by yankeeBaby
because, thats just it....some women truly dont need a huge penis, and some women do.

The general consensus amoungst the women that I have spoken to is that they would prefer an average sized..... because too small is not fun and too large (ie: porn star penis) just plain hurts.

However, I know most women love a little girth lol This is just what I know from women having conversations about it.

You also have to remember that most of the women's nerves are centered right around the opening of the vagina, and hence most of the sensitivity will be felt in the first 2 inches. There are very few nerves wayyy up inside where the tip of the penis would be.


heh heh, I bet it matters if you change lanes .. smallness win there


Posted by Spin Laden on Oct-01-2007 18:06:

quote:
Originally posted by yankeeBaby


You also have to remember that most of the women's nerves are centered right around the opening of the vagina, and hence most of the sensitivity will be felt in the first 2 inches. There are very few nerves wayyy up inside where the tip of the penis would be.


- who told you this? Skillton?


Posted by yankeeBaby on Oct-01-2007 18:09:

haha nope my professors sex therapy ftw


Posted by Ania_xox on Oct-01-2007 18:25:

quote:
Originally posted by infinity HiGH
Keep up the good work mate. You're giving lots of retards all over the world hope that they too can pass off as normal human beings.


i just laughed out loud at that in the library and now everyone is staring lol


Posted by Spin Laden on Oct-01-2007 18:25:

quote:
Originally posted by yankeeBaby
haha nope my professors sex therapy ftw


jk.. I've heard this before but pinkydicks like him probably theorized it


Posted by Porky on Oct-01-2007 18:35:

quote:
Originally posted by drgoodvibe
I've found ex-sex to be generally a terrible idea. It digs up old feelings on either party and by the end of it when your ready to move on it's as if you have to breakup all over again.




+1

If things ended badly I usually don't double dip, it's not worth the headaches.


Posted by MissK on Oct-01-2007 19:42:

If we are speaking purely sexual:

yes, I think it is entirely fine to rekindle an ex as a sexual partner with no strings attached. It's comfortable.

If we are speaking back into a relationship:

this is probably a bad idea, as spitty said, you probably broke up for a reason.


Posted by Yohan on Oct-01-2007 19:46:

quote:
Originally posted by MissK
If we are speaking purely sexual:

yes, I think it is entirely fine to rekindle an ex as a sexual partner with no strings attached. It's comfortable.

If we are speaking back into a relationship:

this is probably a bad idea, as spitty said, you probably broke up for a reason.

Even a purely 'fuckbuddy' relationship, wouldn't it be rather awkward doing it with a ex, considering it's someone you used to care a lot about?

I dunno many people who'd be that emotionally detached to hook up with an ex for sex, and not have any sort of emotional feeling


Posted by Cosmic Fur on Oct-01-2007 19:47:

quote:
Originally posted by EvilTree
I dunno many people who'd be that emotionally detached to hook up with an ex for sex, and not have any sort of emotional feeling


Maybe they didn't have emotional feelings about the other in the first place.


Posted by Yohan on Oct-01-2007 20:03:

quote:
Originally posted by Cosmic Fur
Maybe they didn't have emotional feelings about the other in the first place.

or it was all about the fight sex in the first place?


Posted by MissK on Oct-01-2007 20:12:

quote:
Originally posted by EvilTree
Even a purely 'fuckbuddy' relationship, wouldn't it be rather awkward doing it with a ex, considering it's someone you used to care a lot about?

I dunno many people who'd be that emotionally detached to hook up with an ex for sex, and not have any sort of emotional feeling


Well, I think it depends on the situation....

From personal experience, the years apart took away the attached emotions and left me with a friendship love, and it was pure comfortable...as long as the 'rules' are laid out prior and all parties are a go... it's a dandy thing

some people differ


Posted by The Wiz on Oct-01-2007 20:15:

Re: Re: Sex with ur ex?

quote:
Originally posted by rabbitjoker
Dude - get over her and move on.


Best advice.


Posted by DigDeep on Oct-01-2007 20:15:

Plenty experience in this field. LOL

Let me just say (from my personal experience) it's never been a good idea, period. But it's tempting as hell. Towards the end of any relationship, the sexual part of it (along with everything else) tends to fizzle out. When you break up, but continue to fuck with 'no strings' - theres a certain excitement factor there... because you know you're not supposed to be doing it. Sure, you can both sit there afterwards all hot and sweaty thinking you're in freaking sex heaven... but guess what? You're about to enter sex with ex hell.

Soon enough, one or both of you will start to see the other qualities that you valued in one another - which will lead to feelings that were once there. This will continue to grow with each thrust you take, and before you know it - you're right back in the relationship you didn't want to be in in the first place.

Chances are - if it didn't work the first time, the second time will prove the same results. You'll just be wasting your time on somebody who will eventually let you down again (or vice versa), when you could be spending it looking for somebody who is actually good for you. It's easy to go back to someone you're comfortable with, simply because it's better than being single. But seriously re-consider that before making that move, you'll more than likely be thanking yourself in the long run.


Posted by Spin Laden on Oct-01-2007 20:16:

quote:
Originally posted by MissK
Well, I think it depends on the situation....

From personal experience, the years apart took away the attached emotions and left me with a friendship love, and it was pure comfortable...as long as the 'rules' are laid out prior and all parties are a go... it's a dandy thing

some people differ


good point, Oprah. I think the boy's been away for a year or so, never met him but thats what I gather from the threads. I could hit up an ex from years past but not any recent ones. But of course, you always run the risk of rekindling something.. you never know.


Posted by MissK on Oct-01-2007 20:16:

Oprah??? LOL. loves her!


Posted by vINCe_Inc on Oct-01-2007 20:38:

Confused ???

umm.
where did skillton go ?


Posted by jchung52 on Oct-01-2007 22:32:

quote:
Originally posted by Spin Laden
heh heh, I bet it matters if you change lanes .. smallness win there

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i just LOL'd


Posted by skillton on Oct-01-2007 22:33:

Re: ???

quote:
Originally posted by vINCe_Inc
umm.
where did skillton go ?

How bout we tell our female members to start posting tittie pics, either covered or uncovered.


Posted by Skipper on Oct-01-2007 22:55:

quote:
Originally posted by skillton
May I define a wormhole?
Your Vagina.
Thanks for coming out, I will hook you up with some grimy ******s who will run a CN rail train on your white ass.


HAHAHAHA
This explains everything


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