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I'm starting to think some people here might be right. I might be shafted to the friend zone. But the way i see it, if we cuddle/spoon, since that is somewhat physical, then she shouldn't be too surprised if I try something else. Even if she doesn't want it, she can't say she didn't see it coming. I if she really does just want a cuddle bitch, then that is pretty weird...... but I would take it. sigh.
That's it, next night out I'm making a move. But I think the next night out involves pills. That's a much different situation than both being drunk. That could be a lot more weird, no?
Anyways I just bought us 2 tickets to see MSTRKRFT at the end of December.But the true test I think, will be if I can really party with her. I've had nothing but bad experiences with girls who like me and are intrigued in my "be high and go nuts to good music" strategy (who obviously aren't into edm).
Hahaha this is gonna be sweet.
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| Originally posted by daphunky1 But the way i see it, if we cuddle/spoon, since that is somewhat physical, then she shouldn't be too surprised if I try something else. Even if she doesn't want it, she can't say she didn't see it coming. I if she really does just want a cuddle bitch, then that is pretty weird...... but I would take it. sigh. |
Re: messed-up situation
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| Originally posted by daphunky1 I just moved to a resort town where the housing situation is extremely tight, so everyone I mean what if she actually doesn't even like me at all, she's just all chill and happy all the time. Then I gotta share a room with a girl I'm crazy about? |
Hmmm, ok might try that.
But here's the new big question. Is it better to break the ice with something physical (ie: kiss) or vocal confession "I think about you all the time, blah blah blah.'???
maybe it's just me, but all this strategizing and these complicated "what if's" are rediculous. Any guy knows for certain if and when a girl is into him. There's just no mistaking it when the tension is real.
Girls should expect guys to not "just be cool being friends" and be fucking surprised when that actually happens, not the other way around. This chick must be naive, or playing dumb.
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| Originally posted by The17sss maybe it's just me, but all this strategizing and these complicated "what if's" are rediculous. Any guy knows for certain if and when a girl is into him. There's just no mistaking it when the tension is real. |
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| Originally posted by The17sss Girls should expect guys to not "just be cool being friends" and be fucking surprised when that actually happens, not the other way around. This chick must be naive, or playing dumb. |
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| Originally posted by daphunky1 But here's the new big question. Is it better to break the ice with something physical (ie: kiss) or vocal confession "I think about you all the time, blah blah blah.'??? |
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| Originally posted by Arbiter Well, if one of your male friends was a homosexual who wanted to fvck you, how would you prefer that he break the ice? |
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| Originally posted by Sushipunk It's him who's playing dumb remember? And now he's in the friend zone. Lol. |
Just copy Jack's moves in the movie Titanic. Rose wasn't really feeling Jack off until she experienced first-hand the sense of rebellion (running away from that body guard). I think without that scene, they would've just ended up being really good friends.
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| Originally posted by SuspicionVandit Rose wasn't really feeling Jack off until she experienced first-hand the sense of rebellion |
Alrite, I finally realize these next few days are important. I'll see what I can do.
And to the person who said a guy should know when a girl likes him because the tension is there....well I guess maybe I took our lack of tension, as a good thing, because its a very comfortable/easy thing.
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| Originally posted by daphunky1 And to the person who said a guy should know when a girl likes him because the tension is there....well I guess maybe I took our lack of tension, as a good thing, because its a very comfortable/easy thing. |
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| Originally posted by daphunky1 vocal confession "I think about you all the time, blah blah blah.'??? |
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| Originally posted by daphunky1 I'm starting to think some people here might be right. I might be shafted to the friend zone. But the way i see it, if we cuddle/spoon, since that is somewhat physical, then she shouldn't be too surprised if I try something else. |
Hmmm, maybe I'll post one pic.
Also, you're totally right about the "formal agreement" shit, whoever said that. If I tell her I like her, then there will be this awkward pause where she has to reply right then and say what she thinks. I think it would be easier to just get pushed away physically. But timing is also much more particular to wait for the "first kiss" shit. Hmmm, maybe tomorrow.
the very first night you went out with her was the time to make a move, this has passed and you failed, move on. i dont think you can do anything about it without making her feel really weird
only way you can ever know if she is in to you is if you bring a girl for a night. see how she reacts. but that could ruin everything also, shit...
you just have to play your card right, which is fucking hard at this point
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| Originally posted by Agent0 only way you can ever know if she is in to you is if you bring a girl for a night. see how she reacts. but that could ruin everything also, shit... |
if she wanted to fuck you, she would have by now.
also 4 pages and no pics...come on now.
bottom line men see what they want to see 
need pics of this girl!!
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| Originally posted by we_R_DNA Wait so you spooned this chick and did not get a boner to stick in between those legs? If you have not tried that one; DO IT! |
Damn! Reading this thread is like watching all the seasons of 24 or something in one sitting, till you get to the episode that was aired yesterday and you have to wait a week for the next one!
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