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Originally posted by Domesticated Are you serious? 99% of us don't know what non-verbal communication is, let alone understand the nuances of it. That's why it makes me laugh when you say you've made your intentions around your male friends "perfectly clear". What's perfectly clear in the mind of a female is...well, pretty fucking ambiguous to us stone-age primates looking for sex.

Sadly, this is quite true. We just don't fucking get it. Women are too subtle in most cases and then they wonder why the guy loses interest.

All of the girls I'm attracted to I tell. If not then why? There is nothing to lose. If they don't like you they will just let you know and if they're mature enough to have as a friend in the first place it won't really be a big deal. If not... kill the bitch!

I think you guys are missing the point of what I mean by non-verbal communication. I'm talking about things like..the way I dress, how I sit, even the kind of eye contact I make. You're telling me you wouldn't notice the difference if I, say, came over to your place in jeans and a t-shirt and then lazed around like a sloth on your couch while we watched tv; as opposed to me coming over in a little skirt and sitting across from you with my legs parted just enough for you to catch a glimpse of my panties while we watched tv?

If you can't tell the difference, then you, my friends, are the idiots.



edit: However, I do agree that women tend to not be verbal or straightforward enough about..well, a lot of things, lol. And that's one more reason why I hang out with dudes!

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Originally posted by Fledz Sadly, this is quite true. We just don't fucking get it. Women are too subtle in most cases and then they wonder why the guy loses interest.

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Originally posted by jennypie I think you guys are missing the point of what I mean by non-verbal communication. I'm talking about things like..the way I dress, how I sit, even the kind of eye contact I make. You're telling me you wouldn't notice the difference if I, say, came over to your place in jeans and a t-shirt and then lazed around like a sloth on your couch while we watched tv; as opposed to me coming over in a little skirt and sitting across from you with my legs parted just enough for you to catch a glimpse of my panties while we watched tv? If you can't tell the difference, then you, my friends, are the idiots.

Actually, I became quite good at that in my early twenties

A funny thing about it, Jenny, is that no matter how you dress/sit, it's really the eye contact that gets me. By the way a girl looks at me, I can be almost sure whether or not she's into me. Although, (un)fortunately, it doesn't really make that much of a difference for me now, does it?

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Originally posted by jennypie edit: However, I do agree that women tend to not be verbal or straightforward enough about..well, a lot of things, lol. And that's one more reason why I hang out with dudes!

See, even women hate hanging out with other women.

Pretty much, man. Don't mistake any of my posts as defending women at all. Just defending myself, lol.

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Originally posted by jennypie BABY...RUTH!

You're killing me Smalls!

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Originally posted by Frenchie slolth

You're happy and tired?

Lol, wrong movie fuckface!



edit: But that works too!

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Originally posted by jennypie I have never put out ANY kind of sexual vibe around my guy friends and I don't flirt with them (ew). Rather, I'm pretty conscious of the vibe I give off, because I know that despite what I think they may read into things differently.

WIN. you see thats what girls dont understand. well most of them. they fucking act all flirty and give off those sexual vibes and expect us guys to tuck our dicks inside and tape them shut.

for example, me and my friends went out to a bar to play beer pong. it was 3 guys and 1 girl. so we get on with the game and she happens to be on opposing team. every time it was my time to take a shot, she would start rubbing on her tits and kind of pull down her shirt to throw me off my shot. she was doing some stripper shit, eknow when they want to get your attention for a lapdance. she was kind of buzzed up until that point but she knew what she was doing. also, she wasnt doing it for anyone else but me.

she was not my best friend but we hanged out for about a year, we also worked together and we were good buddies so i was confused why was she acting this way. therefore i tried to investigate further and kind of made a move on her after the game, but she shot me down, told me that we were good friends and nothing more. WTFFFFFF

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Originally posted by jennypie Usually that's enough. When my friends have crossed the line I told them I didn't like it or it was inappropriate, etc...even if it was just "harmless" flirting.

so you agree that guys have to flirt with you initially for you to tell them to stop. i thought you just strait up told them off, without them doing anything wrong. which i thought was awkward

i'm with jenny on this one have a lot of male friends but very clear in a non-verbal way that it will not happen...i prefer the company of a bunch of guys than a bunch of girls because women for too long of a time drive me fucking insane. tonight i was at a hockey game with three guys, infinitely more awesome than hanging out with three chicks.

Get the rope here. Slothy, Slothy, jumprope Slothy

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Originally posted by Agent0 so you agree that guys have to flirt with you initially for you to tell them to stop. i thought you just strait up told them off, without them doing anything wrong. which i thought was awkward

Oh...yeah no. Like I said...my actions and the way I carry myself usually do all the talking.


And where women fail in friendships with men is that they want it all. They want to be the buddy, but they also want the sexual attention...and yeah it has to be one or the other. Women are too egocentric (yup) to give up being sexually desirable to men.

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Originally posted by jennypie Lol, wrong movie fuckface! edit: But that works too!

This thread is now about the greatest baseball movie ever.

YOU PLAY BALL LIKE A GIRL!

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Originally posted by jennypie I think you guys are missing the point of what I mean by non-verbal communication. I'm talking about things like..the way I dress, how I sit, even the kind of eye contact I make. You're telling me you wouldn't notice the difference if I, say, came over to your place in jeans and a t-shirt and then lazed around like a sloth on your couch while we watched tv; as opposed to me coming over in a little skirt and sitting across from you with my legs parted just enough for you to catch a glimpse of my panties while we watched tv? If you can't tell the difference, then you, my friends, are the idiots. edit: However, I do agree that women tend to not be verbal or straightforward enough about..well, a lot of things, lol. And that's one more reason why I hang out with dudes!

Na I get that and I think most of us do, but there's usually much more to it than that and plenty of variables. I think you sort of understand but you will never 100% understand it because you're on the other side and you are after all the enemy

But yea....I wish more chicks were as direct as you are which is why I miss Euro women. None of this westernised bullshit sort of behaviour that I get in this fucktown called Sydney.

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Originally posted by Fledz I think you sort of understand but you will never 100% understand it because you're on the other side and you are after all the enemy

I UNDERSTAND ALL. NEVER QUESTION ME.

The women in this thread puzzle me. Girls are annoying (or whatever), but female TA's are all different.

How come? Either we've got a very special group here (which is true to some extent ), or there's something wrong with the way women are being portrayed here.

Definitely the former. Of course ALL women aren't ALL bad. But in my personal experience, I've met more shitty women than cool women.

Whats wrong with being sexy?

lol @ this "thrad"

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Originally posted by Fledz But yea....I wish more chicks were as direct as you are which is why I miss Euro women. None of this westernised bullshit sort of behaviour that I get in this fucktown called Sydney.

Not that I have met a lot of European women, all the ones I do know, I love this about them. So direct, and up front.

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