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Originally posted by zookeeper It's easier to punch him in the face and grab his nuts, if he's up there! ...Lisa you're too young to be even thinking about this stuff anyway, go have fun!!

lolol

I'm only 24...definitely way too young!

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Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~* lolol I'm only 24...definitely way too young!

my Mom has me when she was 35 - I'm liking that idea I actually read somewhere that women are at the peak of their health at 35 and it's the best time to have kids

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Originally posted by FunkyCrew my Mom has me when she was 35 - I'm liking that idea I actually read somewhere that women are at the peak of their health at 35 and it's the best time to have kids

Ya my mom was around that age too I think. I don't want to get married til I'm close to 30, and IF I did the kid thing I would want to be married for at LEAST 5 years first.

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Originally posted by zookeeper Hmm, let me see..... 1. hemorrhoids 2. C-section (much like a samurai sepaku) 3. swollen feet 4. back problems 5. stretch marks and vericose veins 6. a larger nose (yes, ladies that really does happen to some) 7. ...and some stuff to horrible to talk about

are you a girl?

Anything before 40 is pretty safe.

After 40, your chances of having complications goes way up.

Actually a woman's body recovers from the stresses of being pregnant faster in their early 20s, but I personally think that is WAY too young. Nature and society, unfortunately, they don't always work well together.

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Originally posted by Xavier Moriarty are you a girl?

hmmm, lemmie check...nope still a guy

i hope this aspect of me doesn't change, which it feasibly could if i actually witnessed the child birth, but the fact that my wife's womb held my child and the whole miracle aspect of it would make me want to bang her even more...obviously won't be as tight maybe but there are surgical solutions to that lol j/k

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Originally posted by fayraree i hope this aspect of me doesn't change, which it feasibly could if i actually witnessed the child birth, but the fact that my wife's womb held my child and the whole miracle aspect of it would make me want to bang her even more...obviously won't be as tight maybe but there are surgical solutions to that lol j/k

advise: do you have to see the full gore?? you can always just stick by her side and avoid those mental images...

And the first 6 weeks, you can forget about any intimacy, for her it's like having periods for that long (plus stitches).

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Originally posted by malek advise: do you have to see the full gore?? you can always just stick by her side and avoid those mental images... And the first 6 weeks, you can forget about any intimacy, for her it's like having periods for that long (plus stitches).

I think thats the worst part of having kids... having to deal with all the post-birth stuff and pain plus having to take care of a newborn.

Plus I am sure god will punish me with a colic baby since I was one for my first year of life.

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Originally posted by zookeeper Hmm, let me see..... 7. ...and some stuff to horrible to talk about

Epesiotomy FTW!

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Originally posted by Intangible I think thats the worst part of having kids... having to deal with all the post-birth stuff and pain plus having to take care of a newborn. Plus I am sure god will punish me with a colic baby since I was one for my first year of life.

colic are unavoidable, every day at 8pm, my daughter starts having colic, its like magic because its always at the same time hehehe...

but seriously, there's a natural medecine to help with this and its seems to be working for the last days.

Malek, had no idea that you guys have kids already. Congratulations!!

I got married this September, me and my wife are planning to have kids, but we are not rushing with that. We still want to travel, enjoy our life for few years. But I think three years down the road or so we will have a kid

On the side note, this thread shows very well why Canada tries to attract more and more immigrants. Because all the selfish brats who live here just don't want to have kids This is also the story with many developed countries. Makes you think what kind of demographic situation we will have in the world 50 years from now.

Overpopulation? Give me a break : ) That is the problem in Africa, not here. There is so much unused land in Canada, we have 35 million population that is spread across the border with US.

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Originally posted by Ortemy Malek, had no idea that you guys have kids already. Congratulations!! I got married this September, me and my wife are planning to have kids, but we are not rushing with that. We still want to travel, enjoy our life for few years. But I think three years down the road or so we will have a kid On the side note, this thread shows very well why Canada tries to attract more and more immigrants. Because all the selfish brats who live here just don't want to have kids This is also the story with many developed countries. Makes you think what kind of demographic situation we will have in the world 50 years from now. Overpopulation? Give me a break : ) That is the problem in Africa, not here. There is so much unused land in Canada, we have 35 million population that is spread across the border with US.

yes just a daughter, 7 weeks old

Congrats on the wedding, dude travel as much as you can, the kid(s) will hold you down easily for a year

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Originally posted by malek yes just a daughter, 7 weeks old

Hey congratulations.

I remember 7 weeks... that's when my daughter started sleeping through the night... everything got better after that!

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Originally posted by malek yes just a daughter, 7 weeks old

...and you're still awake and able to function! very nice!

Hence what I said before, it's a good thing if you are a little younger when you have a newborn.

But seriously my friend, welcome to the "Parent Club"!

A daughter! Just you wait till the boys start knocking at your door, have the shotgun ready.

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Originally posted by spitty me too. but more looking forward to having four

i'd LOVE to have 4

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Originally posted by Abercrombie Yup! It's me

Thx for that pic dood

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Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~* IF I had my own kids, I would definitely want my husband to stay at the top half of the birth!

absolutely. although if I ever had kids I'd request a c-section so it wouldn't matter anyways.

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Originally posted by 1dawoman absolutely. although if I ever had kids I'd request a c-section so it wouldn't matter anyways.

that's what I'm thinking too
the C section scars are much lower and smaller these days (so I hear)
so why go through all the stretching and tearing (ouch!)?

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Originally posted by FunkyCrew that's what I'm thinking too the C section scars are much lower and smaller these days (so I hear) so why go through all the stretching and tearing (ouch!)?

my cousin did that..she said she was so happy she did it that way...the scar is tiny...im sold.

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Originally posted by zookeeper ...and you're still awake and able to function! very nice! Hence what I said before, it's a good thing if you are a little younger when you have a newborn. But seriously my friend, welcome to the "Parent Club"! A daughter! Just you wait till the boys start knocking at your door, have the shotgun ready.

I'm a night owl... so i can keep up with her for a while if it wasn't for the job the next morning...

yeah the guys, i'll start building a dungeon beneath the basement to hide the corpses

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Originally posted by malek i'll start building a dungeon beneath the basement to hide the corpses

NAH! gotta use the woodchipper!

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Originally posted by FunkyCrew that's what I'm thinking too the C section scars are much lower and smaller these days (so I hear) so why go through all the stretching and tearing (ouch!)?

Seriously... you'd rather have a major surgery that requires the temporary repositioning of muscles and organs followed by a week recovery in hospital rather then a little stretching with possibly a couple of stitches? Something tells me the pain of labour (if you don't get an epidural) is better then being bed ridden for a week and the pain of recovering from major surgery.

Vasectomies FTW

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard Seriously... you'd rather have a major surgery that requires the temporary repositioning of muscles and organs followed by a week recovery in hospital rather then a little stretching with possibly a couple of stitches? Something tells me the pain of labour (if you don't get an epidural) is better then being bed ridden for a week and the pain of recovering from major surgery.

he is right, a C-Section creates way more chances of infections to the mom than the natural way. Some infections may brings complications and things can get worse :/

the wife did it au naturel without epidureal because it was too late for her to have it... anyways, she was in pain, but everything happened so fast that it wasn't that bad after all.

I'm not sure she would do it again without an epidural, but considering some people going thru 12h+++ of labour because of it, it might not be a bad idea after all.

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