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| Originally posted by gehzumteufel What is the point of being married for 20, 30, 99 years if you are living totally separate lives after 10, gf/bf in place of, and basically not having anything to do with each other baring any activity with the children if you have any? |
I'm totally confused. What do you despise? Marriage?
Relationships and marriage take work... of course you're going to grow apart if you don't work to stay together. Kids are a big risk factor because you run the risk of growing apart because of them... but making sure you still have time for one another is what makes it work. Mini vacations, date nights, etc.
our roommate is hooking up with a married chick who has been married for 9 years. she said it's just "boring" now. she loves him still but they're bored. they did the swinger thing and that is what made her stray and now she hooks up with our roommate whenever she can.
it really bugs me when she's here..she was here last night. it's like, "fuck bitch, go home to your husband and work shit out". it's bad enough marriage makes me nervous, i don't need people like her around confirming my fear lol
A never ending arsenal of meaningful and pursuits and a few handful of moments of true happiness and fulfillment in between.
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| Originally posted by Brian Scott For tax-filing purposes. Duh! |
I don't understand, nor will I ever, the swinging thing. Clearly if you're not satisfied, you're with the wrong person.
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| Originally posted by squirrelly I don't understand, nor will I ever, the swinging thing. Clearly if you're not satisfied, you're with the wrong person. |
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| Originally posted by Slylee our roommate is hooking up with a married chick who has been married for 9 years. she said it's just "boring" now. she loves him still but they're bored. they did the swinger thing and that is what made her stray and now she hooks up with our roommate whenever she can. it really bugs me when she's here..she was here last night. it's like, "fuck bitch, go home to your husband and work shit out". it's bad enough marriage makes me nervous, i don't need people like her around confirming my fear lol |
My parents have been married for close to thirty and they still smack each other on the ass and flirt and kiss and make out. I don't think that dies unless you LET it die. If you don't take time to enjoy each other... eventually you get used to live without each other. We know so many couples that have been married for over 20 years (yes we usually hang out with people older than us) who are still frisky as hell and when people ask them how they do it they always say "we never had too many things to do that we couldn't spend time together". They STILL go on dates at least once a week, and a small getaway vacation at least once every other month. Happiest couples on earth.
I want to be the last human on Earth. I want to be that man who sits alone as the controls of NASA, barely clinging to life as the virus which has wiped out all of my colleagues is killing my final brain cells, wiping the humans forever out of the universe. I'm on the floor, crawling toward the final red button, the button to launch. The room is flashing red, the robotic voice again reminds me "only 23 seconds to launch. failure to launch will exhaust all booster fuel and the rocket will fail to reach space." I pull out my pocket watch and open it. In it, I see my personal loves. My wife, my kids, my PS3, and Waffles. I yell out with pain agony and I pick myself up to my knees.
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I reach up with my left arm
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"Exterminate this."
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I hit the big red button and the ground vibrates as the rocket ignites.
I collapse on my back, blinking slowly, for this is how the last of my energy will be used. Through the vertical mounted window, i see the rocket going into space. I have no more energy to keep my eye lids open. They close.
Now all i can do is think, think myself to death.
"there goes my seed. 48 gallons and 2 years of my sperm. My genome. In that rocket. Please, someone out there. Something out there. use it."
I die.
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| Originally posted by squirrelly My parents have been married for close to thirty and they still smack each other on the ass and flirt and kiss and make out. I don't think that dies unless you LET it die. If you don't take time to enjoy each other... eventually you get used to live without each other. We know so many couples that have been married for over 20 years (yes we usually hang out with people older than us) who are still frisky as hell and when people ask them how they do it they always say "we never had too many things to do that we couldn't spend time together". They STILL go on dates at least once a week, and a small getaway vacation at least once every other month. Happiest couples on earth. |
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| Originally posted by Slylee i really hope that's what we turn out like. if i have to start wearing cheerleading uniforms and blowing him in the bathroom at parties, then so be it, but we will NOT get bored god damnit lol |
Those kinds of couples are fantastic role models to have around lol cause you wanna be those couples. He sends me pics of old people holding hands and he's like "that'll be us" (awww)
We take that stuff seriously. Date night, once a week no matter what. We both have busy lives but we made a commitment to spend quality time with one another. You get into a routine living together and you have to MAKE that time happen. We try to do a trip every other month... that's why we'll be in Captiva in two weeks!! 
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| Originally posted by SuspicionVandit I want to be the last human on Earth. I want to be that man who sits alone as the controls of NASA, barely clinging to life as the virus which has wiped out all of my colleagues is killing my final brain cells, wiping the humans forever out of the universe. I'm on the floor, crawling toward the final red button, the button to launch. The room is flashing red, the robotic voice again reminds me "only 23 seconds to launch. failure to launch will exhaust all booster fuel and the rocket will fail to reach space." I pull out my pocket watch and open it. In it, I see my personal loves. My wife, my kids, my PS3, and Waffles. I yell out with pain agony and I pick myself up to my knees. 10 9 8 7 I reach up with my left arm 6 5 4 3 "Exterminate this." 2 I hit the big red button and the ground vibrates as the rocket ignites. I collapse on my back, blinking slowly, for this is how the last of my energy will be used. Through the vertical mounted window, i see the rocket going into space. I have no more energy to keep my eye lids open. They close. Now all i can do is think, think myself to death. "there goes my seed. 48 gallons and 2 years of my sperm. My genome. In that rocket. Please, someone out there. Something out there. use it." I die. |
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| Originally posted by Slylee i really hope that's what we turn out like. if i have to start wearing cheerleading uniforms and blowing him in the bathroom at parties, then so be it, but we will NOT get bored god damnit lol |
yea but we just dont go out that much though
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| Relationships and marriage take work... of course you're going to grow apart if you don't work to stay together. Kids are a big risk factor because you run the risk of growing apart because of them... but making sure you still have time for one another is what makes it work. Mini vacations, date nights, etc. |
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| Originally posted by squirrelly I'm totally confused. What do you despise? Marriage? |
-to have a lot of money (or simply be financially stable)
-to be a succesful photographer (and buy a Hasselbald 
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-to be a proffesional succesful cyclist
- win tour de france (won't happen)
- win giro d italia (won't happen)
- win a thrialton (won't happen)
-to be a succesful dj and a producer(not a superstar whore)
-to make a couple of laps in a Formula 1 car
-to make my own wine and beer
-to be a "succesful" family man..
some are pretty unrealistic but the last two and the second one are gonna happen no matter what!
Ahh since this thread is now about marriage (sorry Renzo lol) what do you guys thinking about those couples that get engaged and married really young (18-21)? I don't know......I just think they are rushing things to bit and will eventually end up divorced or something. It's rare to see a couple that got married at 18 (in today's world) last.
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| Originally posted by Rose Ahh since this thread is now about marriage (sorry Renzo lol) what do you guys thinking about those couples that get engaged and married really young (18-21)? I don't know......I just think they are rushing things to bit and will eventually end up divorced or something. It's rare to see a couple that got married at 18 (in today's world) last. |
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| Originally posted by Rose Ahh since this thread is now about marriage (sorry Renzo lol) what do you guys thinking about those couples that get engaged and married really young (18-21)? I don't know......I just think they are rushing things to bit and will eventually end up divorced or something. It's rare to see a couple that got married at 18 (in today's world) last. |
don't get married until you're 25+!! imo
that's not a good age bracket to get married in at all. and it's because you do some major maturing between the ages of 19-24/25 and almost become a different person. you may take interests in things you didn't care about as a 20 year old and discover your partner actually hates your new passion for mountain biking and she all of a sudden turns OCD on your ass after she completes her biology or chemistry degree and has a fear of germs....
yea no it's just not a good idea to get married before 24.
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| Originally posted by yukii my dad was 19. he had me when he was 20. |
id never get married before 24.. maybe engaged.. MAYBE.. but never married 
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