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Posted by tubularbills on Mar-19-2008 03:28:

quote:
Originally posted by MeLLyMeL
i like the way u think.

guys are the assholes

THEN WHY THE FUCK DOES IT TURN YOU ON SO MUCH FUCK

lol i never understood that.

Posted by kadomony on Mar-19-2008 03:29:

quote:
Originally posted by Ania_xox
That is such BULL SHIT! LOL
WTF??? Where do you get these ideas? You make dating sound like a monolithic male burden!
Damn son... you sound like you've been dating prissy snots.

It's not "up to" anyone to do anything. You're going out b/c there's something connecting you and you want to explore that. Why should this situation be clouded over with conventions and rules and traditional roles?

First date of my longest relationship... it was a day date and at one point I bought us both frozen yogurt. We were talking so much that neither of us noticed who paid and we laughed about it later.

A burden? I don't see how it's a burden when it's what works to attract women. You want something, you have to work for it.
"Something" connecting you? Don't kid yourself, guys lie all the time to make girls feel a connection "zomg he likes such-and-such too, we have a GREAT connection!"
However, note I'm not saying all guys do this. Real men are interested in women for more than just their looks. Although, looks are a primary determinant in attraction.
Men are attracted by looks, women are attracted by social prowess.
That's the way it works. Don't argue with me about it.

About your longest relationship date, that's good. That's the way it should be. There should be no preconcieved notions about who should pay for shit. Note though, that a guy should NEVER buy something for a girl upon 1st meeting unless she buys something for as well. I'll explain why if you have any issues with it.

Posted by tubularbills on Mar-19-2008 03:29:

quote:
Originally posted by MeLLyMeL
i am 5'0 brother!

the front tire of that tri was flat and i didn't know. i was trying to pedal while the pic was being taken and i got no where

/fail!

thats what makes it so funny!

btw, i new a mexican chick growing up who was short and sassy like you, lol

(oops, meant "pratta-reekan")

Posted by Lira on Mar-19-2008 03:30:

Wait, I've just realised this became a serious thread. Bleh.

Posted by MeLLyMeL on Mar-19-2008 03:31:

quote:
Originally posted by tubularbills
THEN WHY THE FUCK DOES IT TURN YOU ON SO MUCH FUCK

lol i never understood that.
because its the bad ones that fuk it up for the good ones.

I'm not the ugliest duckling in the world and if it wasn't that I had a twin brother growing up and dating.. then more guys would want [think] they can just bang me and go..

So yes when a guy takes me out I like to see how interested HE is in. I accepted the date. That's my part.

But no nani ... YET rawR

Posted by kadomony on Mar-19-2008 03:31:

quote:
Originally posted by Alex
Good to know some ladies out there are still cool and don't force us poor dudes into awkward situations over and over just to see how we handle it!

how else are they going to know if you're really confident and have your shit together or just faking it?

Posted by tubularbills on Mar-19-2008 03:32:

quote:
Originally posted by kadomony
Men are attracted by looks, women are attracted by social prowess.
That's the way it works. Don't argue with me about it.

to me, a conncetion isn't "wow, hot bod", it's wayyy more than that. i don't even think you can describe it...i guess the best way, at least for me, is that when i look into her eyes and she looks back, she does that little smirk or whatever.

gah, so complicated, yet not really. lol

Posted by wizniz on Mar-19-2008 03:33:

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
Wait, I've just realised this became a serious thread. Bleh.

i saw it cumming

Posted by tubularbills on Mar-19-2008 03:34:

quote:
Originally posted by wizniz
i saw it cumming

THAT'S WHAT SHE SAID!

wooooooooo

Posted by Yohan on Mar-19-2008 03:34:

My life would be so much easier if women tell me what they want.

I'm so oblivious when it comes to reading women

Posted by tubularbills on Mar-19-2008 03:36:

quote:
Originally posted by Yohan
My life would be so much easier if women tell me what they want.

I'm so oblivious when it comes to reading women

i say don't try to read them, just do your thang man.

Posted by MeLLyMeL on Mar-19-2008 03:37:

quote:
Originally posted by Yohan
My life would be so much easier if women tell me what they want.

I'm so oblivious when it comes to reading women

I speak for myself but....... I don't even know what I want!

Maybe it was my partying/fuked up phase but my boyfriend now, worked his ass to get me and would even joke around like "watch ur gonna fall in love with me" and i was like pssssssssssssh yeah fuk right!

2 years later ....

Posted by Frenchie on Mar-19-2008 03:37:

Woman are stupid and the reason why we don't tell you what we want is because WE normally don't even know what WE want and we're probably waiting for you to discover it in return for us to go "Yes he knows what I want, he's so awesome, he knows me"

Posted by tubularbills on Mar-19-2008 03:38:

Posted by kadomony on Mar-19-2008 03:38:

quote:
Originally posted by tubularbills
to me, a conncetion isn't "wow, hot bod", it's wayyy more than that. i don't even think you can describe it...i guess the best way, at least for me, is that when i look into her eyes and she looks back, she does that little smirk or whatever.

gah, so complicated, yet not really. lol

of course. if you have sex with a girl just cause she looks good, it's usually going to be a one night stand. but if you have sex with her because she looks good AND you took the time to get to know her, and shown her some of what youre about, THAT my friend is where you're in the golden zone.

Posted by tubularbills on Mar-19-2008 03:40:

quote:
Originally posted by kadomony
of course. if you have sex with a girl just cause she looks good, it's usually going to be a one night stand. but if you have sex with her because she looks good AND you took the time to get to know her, and shown her some of what youre about, THAT my friend is where you're in the golden zone.

+1

Posted by Palladium on Mar-19-2008 03:41:

Posted by MeLLyMeL on Mar-19-2008 03:42:

i'm going to sleep.

In the end. Dating on the internet or in real life is never going to be easy because dating isn't easy.

I think the good thing about the internet is that it'll bring ppl together who normally wouldn't ever meet.

g'night!!!
xxxxxxxx

Posted by Fibonacci on Mar-19-2008 03:42:

quote:
Originally posted by MeLLyMeL
I speak for myself but....... I don't even know what I want!

Maybe it was my partying/fuked up phase but my boyfriend now, worked his ass to get me and would even joke around like "watch ur gonna fall in love with me" and i was like pssssssssssssh yeah fuk right!

2 years later ....

yeah but im sure you were attracted to his confidence, most guys arent willing to stick it out to pursue a difficult girl or deal with rejection. It takes alot to laugh it off and be like yeah ok do you want to get ice cream or not because todays wednesday and carvel has 2fers

Posted by Frenchie on Mar-19-2008 03:43:

quote:
Originally posted by Palladium
nobody can't resist to djs

can't?

Posted by iammesol on Mar-19-2008 03:43:

quote:
Originally posted by Frenchie
Woman are stupid and the reason why we don't tell you what we want is because WE normally don't even know what WE want and we're probably waiting for you to discover it in return for us to go "Yes he knows what I want, he's so awesome, he knows me"

unfortunate tr00f

Posted by MeLLyMeL on Mar-19-2008 03:43:

quote:
Originally posted by Palladium
nobody can't resist to djs
haha....

that has nothing to do with ittttttttttt! i resisted him for a bit.. TRUST ME.

It's that ppl can't resist the... THE.. MellyMel

rawRRRRRRRR =]~

Posted by tubularbills on Mar-19-2008 03:43:

quote:
Originally posted by MeLLyMeL

I think the good thing about the internet is that it'll bring ppl together who normally wouldn't ever meet.

i think thats why i like TA so much

Posted by kadomony on Mar-19-2008 03:43:

quote:
Originally posted by MeLLyMeL
I speak for myself but....... I don't even know what I want!

Maybe it was my partying/fuked up phase but my boyfriend now, worked his ass to get me and would even joke around like "watch ur gonna fall in love with me" and i was like pssssssssssssh yeah fuk right!

2 years later ....

i'd never peg tom like that but i think he's really good at flying under the radar

quote:
Originally posted by Frenchie
Woman are stupid and the reason why we don't tell you what we want is because WE normally don't even know what WE want and we're probably waiting for you to discover it in return for us to go "Yes he knows what I want, he's so awesome, he knows me"

Everyone knows what they want. Just not always consciously. Millions of years of evolution, gone in just a few hundred

Posted by MeLLyMeL on Mar-19-2008 03:45:

quote:
Originally posted by Fibonacci
yeah but im sure you were attracted to his confidence, most guys arent willing to stick it out to pursue a difficult girl or deal with rejection. It takes alot to laugh it off and be like yeah ok do you want to get ice cream or not because todays wednesday and carvel has 2fers
lmfao

Carvel ice cream is indeed the way to a girls heart!

Did u hear that boys?

But yes. maybe it was the bit of confidence he had. even though he was talking out of his ass.

IT WORKED!

edit- Sam... he really isn't like that haha! I guess the long distance situation made him like that..

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