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| Originally posted by elFreak too many virgins are claiming that they have had sex in this thread. pics of the whales or it didn't happen. |
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| Originally posted by tubularbills FINALLY |
so after you have sex with him do you chat or do you kick him out? communication is a no-no with fuckbuddies imho
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| Originally posted by Dervish But Bill if she is a FB why do you care? |
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| Originally posted by tubularbills FINALLY also, Lira...that was something i did not get. that was "i can't really explain it...but i'm getting a feeling that you want more than you originally said" answer towards me. now i'm kind of wondering, "WTF did i do?", but at the time of said discussion i was literally taken back. ben, to me its been more than just a fuck buddy...i mean, we've hung out and done stuff together. on last sunday, we went out of margaritas...and that was it...no sex, i just drove home afterwards. i mean, is it possible to have a good friend, and some casual sex on the side? without it being "dating" or a "relationship"? two things: 1) i quoted vanilla sky, because at first that's who i was afraid i was being looked at like (cameron' diaz' crazy stalker character who thought that having sex 4 times meant something). and i couldn't find another comparison. 2) i only mentioned the whole horoscope to begin with, because i have a feeling that (like Slylee noted) what i consider to be normal for me (i.e. being passionate and shit, which i have been all my life....like, i'm not doing anything different now than i did some years ago) was coming off as "wanting more". |
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| Originally posted by Omega_Blue so after you have sex with him do you chat or do you kick him out? communication is a no-no with fuckbuddies imho |
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| Originally posted by tubularbills honestly, i think everytime there has been sex, i've gone home....but we've done stuff before the sex (i.e. made dinner, watched TV, went out for a drink). lol, come to think of it, every time we've fucked there's been some sort of wine and/or drinks involved. hm...lol so it wasn't like i showed up, rang the doorbell, fucked, and then went home. there was like normal shit that friends do together in there too. |
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| Originally posted by elFreak have you ever had a girlfriend? i'm not taking a shot for once, but being serious...because unless you fix your head you will be lonely for life. Women already have vaginas, they do not need another one. |
Nah well this is well in the fuzzy part. Honestly if you get on well with a girl can chat for ages and have a good time not shagging and are attracted to her and have an even better (loose meaning) time shagging her. Then that my bud is pure gf material.
Seriously if I don't internally sigh when a girl goes to open her mouth it's a bonus.
(not saying they are stupid but in general they act so much!!!)
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| Originally posted by tubularbills i've had two "long-term" relationships. nothing more than a month, really. |
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| Originally posted by Dervish Nah well this is well in the fuzzy part. Honestly if you get on well with a girl can chat for ages and have a good time not shagging and are attracted to her and have an even better (loose meaning) time shagging her. Then that my bud is pure gf material. Seriously if I don't internally sigh when a girl goes to open her mouth it's a bonus. (not saying they are stupid but in general they act so much!!!) |
that's amazing
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| Originally posted by elFreak only chicks that need special chair lifts to pee would put up with this crap. unless you only want to date chicks with schizophrenia/down syndrome treat a fuck buddy like she wants to be treated...like a dirty little whore that just wants sex. Save the passion stuff for someone you wanna keep around. |
then you make a shit fuck buddy.
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| Originally posted by elFreak then you make a shit fuck buddy. |
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| Originally posted by tubularbills (although i don't really get into the whole "durty whore sex") |
Then you are not FB material!
Don't get me wrong never really done the FB thing myself (apart from like a series of one night stands) but it always get confusing.
I once over heard a girl dissecting a text of mine saying "he sent two kisses what does this mean it's not one like friends or three like bf/gf"
EGRESS EGRESS EGRESS!!!! All i sent back was meant to be the same number as hers to keep it simple.
FB = Fucking Bother if you ask me. One night stands and steady gfs that'll do me.
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Originally posted by Dervish Then you are not FB material! |
See it avoids all this doubt (largely). And doubt is shit. Best feeling in the world is when a one night stand knows she is a one night stand. It's like an understanding. But if it's all cloudy... blahhhh.
To be honest I have no doubt if you were staying in the same place as this person you'd go out with her eh?
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| Originally posted by Dervish Don't get me wrong never really done the FB thing myself (apart from like a series of one night stands) but it always get confusing. I once over heard a girl dissecting a text of mine saying "he sent two kisses what does this mean it's not one like friends or three like bf/gf" EGRESS EGRESS EGRESS!!!! All i sent back was meant to be the same number as hers to keep it simple.FB = Fucking Bother if you ask me. One night stands and steady gfs that'll do me. |
This thread should be printed and bound into the the Son "just" Do - The Art of Fuck Buddies.
Translated from the Korean by Master elFreak.
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| Originally posted by Dervish To be honest I have no doubt if you were staying in the same place as this person you'd go out with her eh? |
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| Originally posted by Dervish This thread should be printed and bound into the the Son "just" Do - The Art of Fuck Buddies. Translated from the Korean by Master elFreak. |
I can read this all the way. You've already got an internal list of "things you admire about her" or "yeah but I like her because she's different to the rest and *this thing* makes me think she would make me happy all my life"?
If you're leaving these are bad things to think mate.
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| Originally posted by tubularbills i'm still wondering this, myself, to be honest. but i AM leaving...so i can't even give myself this false hope of "well....maybe things will work if i try"...because i'm outta here no matter what. which, this whole time, i've felt very comfortable/casual about my actions. i'm just being myself, you know? i don't feel like i'm "trying" at all - things have just had a nice flow to them. (at least, that was my perception) |
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| Originally posted by elFreak i much prefer. Fruck Bluddies : How To Fruck Rike Labbit But Give No Carrot by Ee Tche Ho |
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