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| Originally posted by StanVoid what about male-male friendships? how do i know if the other dude doesn't have alterior motives? |
Weird and awkward will occur if you are friends with someone and you vehemently deny that you want to have sex with them or be in a relationship with them for months or years, then suddenly explode with the confession that you've had the strongest feelings for them forever and you'd love nothing more than to be with them. Both men and women would be creeped out by that.
The fearing rejection thing is only true for some men. Some guys are like me: lazy when it comes to getting pussy. As long as I have access to one box, I feel fine. It's just too much mental effort (and money) to personally convince all those different women to want me. I'd rather become much more successful first, so that they will all actively seek me and I can choose. See, I'm realistic about all of this. 
Right now, I have some good female friends who have boyfriends or who aren't interested and know that I would like fuck them doggystyle with my two index fingers in their mouth stretching their face into a smile as they repeatedly moan. If I find the girl attractive, I want her to know that I find her attractive and think about her like a pervert if we're friends. It actually adds some humor to the relationship sometimes.
If she's telling me "Nah, I don't want to do that with you. I don't think of you in that way." and I remain friends with her for legitimate reasons, like her personality and intelligence, then she knows I'm not some spineless coward who's only sticking around in the hopes of getting some. I let all of them know that I'm taken but something can be arranged if they want. 
After middle school, secret crushes on people became more and more childish. You're a goddamned child if you like someone and then say "NO!!!!! I don't really like her!" with your arms crossed because you're too embarrassed to admit it.
Don't listen to everything that dog, elfreak, says. But at the same time, don't lie to yourself.
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| Originally posted by elFreak that is why i added the unwillingly part. I knew a guy who was a virgin at 27 years old. It had nothing to do with looks, some women showed interest. The guy was so socially inept that every time a woman expressed any interest in him, he would shut it down and become a total spazz. It was pretty funny, considering he was not shy in professional environments, and was pretty successful. The confidence issue only went to shit with women. It was pretty hilarious, considering that all interest sexually was always initiated by women. we like to laugh at him sometimes, and always ask if he was raped as a child. |
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| Originally posted by Yohan haha. totally sounds like me, except i'm fugly as hell (my eyes are too slanty) so very few girls are interested in me and i'm an introvert |
This thread is relevant to my interests.
I gave up on relationships/friendships with girls. If one falls into my lap then I will work it, but fuck the rest of the effort.
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| Originally posted by Yohan haha. totally sounds like me, except i'm fugly as hell (my eyes are too slanty) so very few girls are interested in me and i'm an introvert but in all honesty, i think it's selfish for me to put through a girl as a soldier's spouse. how many girls would think they have a future with a dude who might get shot every couple of years? still havent met a girl who would be mentally strong enough to take something like that (and long distance thing sucks) |
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| Originally posted by elFreak who the fuck said anything about spouses?? you should never get married until you get a few sport fucks under your belt. To put it in military terms, would you send a soldier into combat with no basic training? Go up to the drunkest girl in the bar and tell her that you are jackie chan and are actively casting for the leading lady in your next movie. Take lots of pics. |
how do you know you don't like casual flings?
that is like saying you don't like asparagus even if you have never eaten it.
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| Originally posted by Joss Weatherby This thread is relevant to my interests. I gave up on relationships/friendships with girls. If one falls into my lap then I will work it, but fuck the rest of the effort. |
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| Originally posted by winston so you prefer guys? |
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| Originally posted by Joss Weatherby No, my hand and pron with big titted bimbos. |
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| Originally posted by winston yeah man but it's not the same, you can jerk off all your life but you're missing out on stuff. sex is not just sex, i've learned that lesson. sex is an experience, a need of every human; it's more than just pleasure, think of it as a necessary practice (one which requires our attention)... |
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| Originally posted by elFreak how do you know you don't like casual flings? that is like saying you don't like asparagus even if you have never eaten it. |
I'm an optimist and therefor think it's possible, but..
Experience has taught me that you can infact have a beautiful platonic friendship with the opposite gender. But if you cross the line and spend a night between the sheets, you can never go back to the friends you were before.
This girl was my closest friend for over ten years. She was the only person that knew me even better than myself, and we shared everything about anything. After that one night everything became awkward, I honestly don't know how to describe it, and why it went so wrong from there. I lost my soulmate.
I miss you Nina 
cOr version: bamski sucked in bed and got dumped
It seems to me that if guys had their way, sex would an almost completely emotionally-free activity the majority of the time, and friends could fuck whenever they wanted and be nothing but better for it. It's you women who fuck everything up! Damn that velvet cavity, it's a dictator in the bedroom!
Sex can be a totally emotionless thing, but not with good friends.
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| Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On It seems to me that if guys had their way, sex would an almost completely emotionally-free activity the majority of the time, and friends could fuck whenever they wanted and be nothing but better for it. It's you women who fuck everything up! Damn that velvet cavity, it's a dictator in the bedroom! |
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