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Posted by ChemEnhanced on Mar-23-2010 17:21:

OMG...this almost got off the first page.


Posted by VDub on Apr-09-2010 19:12:

quote:
Originally posted by PivotTechno
List of Narcissistic personality characteristics:

* Rigid, inflexible thinking - Anyone with a different approach is seen as personally attacking the narcissist. Rules rule, and some narcissists get inappropriately angry when they see little things, like grammar errors. I knew a narcissistic computer programmer who would refuse to answer any e-mail that used non-accepted word abbreviations! - ("My way is the ONLY RIGHT way and any other way is WRONG, WRONG, WRONG").

* Cannot be wrong - The narcissist is never, ever wrong, and they like to present "proofs" that they are correct. The narcissist cannot accept responsibility for making a mistake and they are expert at diverting the blame to others - ("It's not my fault. I lost that promotion because my team let me down").

* Arrogant, boastful and pretentious - These are people with stupid/fake certificates and awards on their walls, the kind of people who exaggerate their accomplishments or use inflated job titles like "Engineer, Physicist" in their resume job histories. - (i.e. "I'm a Sanitation Engineer"). This narcissistic trait is especially prevalent in computer work where people elevate themselves to "expert" status, and then treat people in a demeaning way when they get questions ("Boy, now that's a really stupid question. Where did you go to college?)".

* Aggressive responses to criticism - ("How dare he criticize me? That lying bastard, I swear I'll get even, if it takes years"). This essay notes that it especially difficult to do anything critical with the narcissist because they see the criticism as a threat to their self, making them great fun during job performance reviews:

"Since the narcissist is incapable of asserting his or her own sense of adequacy, the narcissist seeks to be admired by others. However, the narcissist�s extremely fragile sense of self worth does not allow him or her to risk any criticism."


I just realized how much this describes my work persona...

Is that bad??


Posted by *~LiSa-LoO~* on Apr-09-2010 19:18:

Re: Bump

quote:
Originally posted by VDub


OMG WHY!? lol


Posted by VDub on Apr-09-2010 19:34:

Re: Re: Bump

quote:
Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~*
OMG WHY!? lol


Friday afternoon giggle?


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