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WHy ammm i not suprized that sothis is posting in this thread.. LOL

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Originally posted by RenderedDream believe me it won't get routine *gets kamasutra* =P

I have my own book. I call it the 'cammie sutra' and I don't let sex ever get boring!!!

First time was planned tho. His parents were away for the weekend so we had lots of time for getting it right. No pain for me, just plenty of exhausting pleasure.

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Originally posted by Spyder WHy ammm i not suprized that sothis is posting in this thread.. LOL

kim, you go get them, girl!

oh god my first time sucked...his mom walked in his room saw me there and was like GET THE HELL OUT!! I saw her the next weekend at the restaurant where I worked and she gave me the evilest eye, I freaked and ran to the bathroom and puked. bad experience

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kim, you go get them, girl!

who is kim lol

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Originally posted by sothis yea, i really dont want kids. at all. i dont plan on ever wanting them. not only do i not like children, or babies, or being pregnant, but i just dont want that responsibility. i want to live my life, with my sig other, and do fun things. i want to travel everywhere.. work in other countries, do exciting and amazing things. kids would tie me down, suck up my money, and in general, take over my life. thats not the life i want. some people think thats strange or "wrong", but i dont see why. millions and billions of people out there are raising children, so i dont see why theres anything wrong with not wanting to be one of those people. as far as adopting, you are right, its super expensive! but i guess my point just was that IF i ever change my mind, its not like if i get a tubal ligation, that i wont have any more options.

I totaly understand what you're saying, kids tie you down, you have to either care for them or find care for them (baby-sitter, day care, ect.) which takes a lot of time and money out of your life. I like you want to travel, have fun in my life with my partner and live in differnt countires, hell i'm going to become an archeologist (what i am currently studying for at the university) and that takes a lot of time and travling. With all that said aside though, still I haven't 100% sure decided on either if I do want a kid now or not, I'm still young and having fun in my last few 'party' years and I will look at the situation more seriously in a few years.

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Originally posted by Spyder WHy ammm i not suprized that sothis is posting in this thread.. LOL

So you're a chic????????

~confused~

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Originally posted by TranceDiablo Wrong Hard to believe.but good for you! Wrong yet AGAIN. True.She does know her stuff.But im gonna have to strongly dissagree with the respectful part. I dont say 2 you that ur kid is gonna polute society.(its kinda rasist dont you think)i dont rememper if it was you who said it or her..whatever. Hehe good memory! that was my seccond post to be persist. You said that you did some things that you regret...and u telling me u never had sex without a condom? OKIE and now you screaming at me...okay HEY I know you trying to help...and I understand you. I would give advice to people not to use protection. I think you misunderstood me or something down the line..cus it seems that u think i NEVER use condoms.WE do, but my point is that sometimes you just dont have one andwe still do it.IS IT A CRIME! and if something happens WE are ready to take the responsibility for it cus I know myself I know ppl around me I know that im mature enough to handle it.(sorry to disappoint you.

just a few notes :

apparently you're 20, and ill admit i was surprised...

sothis and i have both implied that raising a kid at a young and most likely not ready age would be a bad idea, and that in a sense this would be harmful (pollute, whatever) for society. there's no mention of race there, so im not sure where you got the racist idea.

i said ive done things i regret. and yes ive had sex without a condom. at times (long ago, when i was less mature and let hormones get the better of me) i even almost had completely unprotected sex, as in no condom or other birth control or std prevention. but luckily nothing bad happened and i learned from those experiences and will never have unsafe sex again. i dont think i was being hypocritical, there were just times when i didn't know better, and admittedly it was too early to be having sex in the first place.

so the point wasn't whether one had had unsafe sex at some point in the past, its about the current, supposedly informed attitude we have. by that i mean that since you know unsafe sex may lead to bad things, why would you still do it.

point is just that there is really no reason to have unsafe sex unless you want a kid - right now. it's not a crime, its just plain unintelligent. you have to be able to overcome that 'in the moment' irrationality of "its not a big deal"

im more worried about ahlamalek than you at this point.

cheers


--dannyB--

don't worry about me.

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by that i mean that since you know unsafe sex may lead to bad things, why would you still do it.

what bad things? both got tested for everything that can be tested.

as adults, we decided this lifestyle with all consequences. Can't you understand? Maybe you didn't read all my posts.


masters of our own destiny.

this is one funny thread...some nice stories in here.

I lost my virginity when I was 15...about 6 weeks away from turning 16. It was with this girl I had known (and had those grade 5 type 2 week relationships!) since I was 7 and I kinda broke her and her current boyfriend up that summer. Anyway, it was pretty emotional because we thought we loved each other and I guess we did for a year or so. It was her third time and my first...it was over in like 6 minutes in the missionary position with little eye contact under the covers with the lights very dim. I guess a pretty typical experience.

But everyone is right....it sure gets way more exciting as you do it more and experience it with other people. I've done the act probably hundreds of times now with 7 different girls (and I don't count oral sex partners in that category) over the last 5 years.

A few of my friends are still V's, but that's ok. I was just lucky to get a lot of action in high school before my buddies. It will happen when it happens.

Oh, and university/college CAN be a major score zone if you want slutty people (both guys and girls). Most of the time, I don't want any of that, but if I'm wasted at a bar.....look out!

Well when i was younger and with my 1rst GF for 2 weeks(I ended up dating her for almost 2 year, thats what i get for having sex with her ).....anywayi was with her for 2 weeks and she wanted to have sex with me she said she wanted me to be the first.......So i was like hell thats cool with me.......So after a hockey game i had my mom drop me and her off at her house, my mom thinking her mom was home......well we went straight to the sex soon as we got in the house.....No condoms no nothing being it was our first time......and she just got over her period, we didnt think she could get pregnant...soooo we go at it for like 45min and i fucking give up.....i cant't.....well i couldnt finish it fucking sucked...i guess i was too nervous to finish and she was too sore......anyway it ends up she was realy good in bed and ill remember my first GF for being the best sex i ever had or prolly ever will have....allthought the first time sucked.....

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apparently you're 20, and ill admit i was surprised...

What do you mean by that???huh?...lol

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by that i mean that since you know unsafe sex may lead to bad things, why would you still do it.

Yeah why would you do it.Good question.For me is just when you really have the urge for sex, and theres no condom around , Ill still do it.Im too weak.I cant stop myself.ITS HARD!!!

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point is just that there is really no reason to have unsafe sex unless you want a kid - right now. it's not a crime, its just plain unintelligent. you have to be able to overcome that 'in the moment' irrationality of "its not a big deal" im more worried about ahlamalek than you at this point. cheers --dannyB--

I cant overcome it , its too BIG.My hormones are racing like a damn VIPER.I wouldnt call it unintelligent behavior,cus I think its just a choice that me and my gf made.In our case tho.Some people, yes I agree with you are very stupid!(know some people like that), but not in my case man.

good luck with malek...piece

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Originally posted by ahlamalek don't worry about me. what bad things? both got tested for everything that can be tested. as adults, we decided this lifestyle with all consequences. Can't you understand? Maybe you didn't read all my posts. masters of our own destiny.

Hey ahlamalek if your gf doesn't wanna use birth control cuz of hormones (understandable) and you don't want to use condoms (very understandable) why don't you use foam or gel? It's very easy, Is 95% effective, deosn't have any terrible side effects, and lasts for an hour or two. It's definetely made my life a lot easier

I mean unless you have 95% confidence in your rythm system it couldn't hurt right?

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Originally posted by occrider Hey ahlamalek if your gf doesn't wanna use birth control cuz of hormones (understandable) and you don't want to use condoms (very understandable) why don't you use foam or gel? It's very easy, Is 95% effective, deosn't have any terrible side effects, and lasts for an hour or two. It's definetely made my life a lot easier I mean unless you have 95% confidence in your rythm system it couldn't hurt right?

That technically means though that every 100 times you have sex (which may seem like a lot but if you go out for awhile) it won't work 5 times. Seems like a big risk when what you're risking is having a kid.

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Originally posted by occrider Hey ahlamalek if your gf doesn't wanna use birth control cuz of hormones (understandable) and you don't want to use condoms (very understandable) why don't you use foam or gel? It's very easy, Is 95% effective, deosn't have any terrible side effects, and lasts for an hour or two. It's definetely made my life a lot easier I mean unless you have 95% confidence in your rythm system it couldn't hurt right?

im not that confident in gel personally. condoms really are the way to go, and its not like they're hard to come by. just keep a stash handy and if used properly the effectiveness of condoms is like 99.9%. if it breaks then you weren't using it properly. don't be a fool, wrap your tool.

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Originally posted by decibel08 im not that confident in gel personally. condoms really are the way to go, and its not like they're hard to come by. just keep a stash handy and if used properly the effectiveness of condoms is like 99.9%. if it breaks then you weren't using it properly. don't be a fool, wrap your tool.

Well I was talking to Ahmahalek who is practicing no birth control at all. Personally I practice the rythm/time of the month method plus the gel which would stand to give me very excellent odds over nothing at all. And if all else fails ... well lets just say I have more than enough resources to deal with a worst case scenario.

i like sex too much to do the rhythm method anyways. theres no way i could give up sex for a week (let alone like 2 days), or however long that is! (note: i dont have my "time of the month" because of my birth control. theres an advantage for ya.)

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Originally posted by sothis i like sex too much to do the rhythm method anyways. theres no way i could give up sex for a week (let alone like 2 days), or however long that is! (note: i dont have my "time of the month" because of my birth control. theres an advantage for ya.)

can't go 2 days ?

boy do we have some fiends on these boards !!


--danny

yea, 2 days is too long. i guess im unusual (for a girl) on that aspect. heh

2 days!! hehe I can't for a full 7 days every cycle plus extreme caution on 1-2 days.

thats why i think yer crazy

its too bad your woman isnt the same way (re: not being able to wait that long) or im guessing she'd rethink using birth control or at least using gel/foam like decibel mentioned

the doctors forced me to stop using my birth control this week cuz its been 5-6 months since my last "death painful awful week of HELL" (as i like to call it)... 3 days now, and im about ready to go INSANE >_< >_< .. damn hormones.

we don't live together, so its not the end of the world (yet).

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So you're a chic???????? ~confused~

lol...I was confused once too!

Regarding this whole Birth Control..ahem..too long..didn't bother to read it. I stick with the condom. The first time was...ahem...lame..no condom..didn't cum. For about a month, I was walking around and Praying to all different gods for that "PERIOD" of hers to come. Shut up and use the rubber! ...there is always the head! ...just to be on the safe side!

What is this "Univercity" no getting laid you speak off? I'm working my ass of now to get into Univ and not worrying about chicks for the only reason "Getting laid in Univ is like going shopping for Chips." All you better be wrong about Univ! NExt year I better get laid every day! Btw, how's MacMaster(Ontario) looking for some? UGGH!!! Screw this, WESTERN it iS! That's a Laid guaranteed!

-Sexually frustrated young man.

^^^^^ So you think you'll get laid at Western eh? I go there (to the Huron University College campus) and yeah....I've banged a few girls from there but most of the fun girls come from Fanshawe College (FUNshawe as Londoners call it).

No matter how hard it is to get laid for anyone (guys or girls), just be yourself. At least that way, if you get rejected, you're still being honest.

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Originally posted by decibel08 don't be a fool, wrap your tool.

I'm with you decibel08 on this one !! WRAP IT UP GUYS !

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