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Originally posted by rabbitjoker George Thorogood and the Destroyers drink alone....

One bourbon, one scotch and one beeeeeeer. Right ?

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Originally posted by disko-kandi ok show me the right stats then, Graaaham!

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Originally posted by timmyboy http://www.ncpa.org/pub/ba/ba392/ba392.pdf

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Originally posted by rabbitjoker George Thorogood and the Destroyers drink alone....

An ex once called me "the destroyer"

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Originally posted by The Highroller

look at youuuuu!!! copy & paste! ... u lazy gino!!!!

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Originally posted by DigitalMP An ex once called me "the destroyer"

bwahahahah!

since women want equality
they shouldn't get free entrance before 12 to clubs
and men shouldn't pay for date
it should be "equal"

if women want the men to pay for there diner
then stfu about equality
and continue to please men the way the bible depicts lol

other than that..
continue to look pretty
and don't leech too much $$ off us.. damn gold diggers

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Originally posted by AAzn_ScratcH since women want equality they shouldn't get free entrance before 12 to clubs

I don't know about you, but I'd prefer this over a sausage fest.

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Originally posted by The Highroller I don't know about you, but I'd prefer this over a sausage fest.

mmmm nothing better than sausage from a diner! *drool*

More men should buy women diners and cook sausage for them in the morning.

Personaly I would feel very uncomfortable if a guy paid for the whole night... Thats me though, I am a very equal opportunity person... You know he pays for dinner you buy the movie. I mean you want to be equals with the person you with right, how can you be equal if budget is all one sided?

I go by this subject this way: 1st date. I pay. Every other date after that = dutch unless it is her b-day or there is something to celebrate.

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Originally posted by LAYLA-KEKET Personaly I would feel very uncomfortable if a guy paid for the whole night... Thats me though, I am a very equal opportunity person... You know he pays for dinner you buy the movie. I mean you want to be equals with the person you with right, how can you be equal if budget is all one sided?

I agree. I would feel uncofortable to if the girl payed for everything. Equal way is the way to go. Always go dutch. Or one pays for movies, other for dinner stuff like that & I am fortunate to always go out with girls who think so too.

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Originally posted by DJ Ski I don't spoil my gf financially, I spoil her sexually. This works amazing.

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Originally posted by Skipper hi there

*gasp* homewrecker!

This thread makes baby Jesus cry

IF the girl really means a lot to the guy then i belive that the first and maybe even the second date the guy should pay to show that he really appreciates her,
if the girl is smart enough to see it she will sudgest to pay for the next date or two... afterwords it should be as it goes, either both, or whoever asked to go on the date

IF the guy NEVER even sudgests to pay for the date, and even asks for the girl to pay for him, at every date, then obviously the guy doesnt appreciate her and is only using her for free stuff. which i see as completly on fair.

same with the girl, a girl should appreciate the guy and show she cares enough to have an even equal relationship and offer to pay for the dinner/movie/coffee whatever it may be. but not make the guy pay ALL the time.

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Originally posted by Spyder IF the guy really means a lot to the girl then i belive that the first and maybe even the second date the girl should pay to show that he really appreciates him, if the guy is smart enough to see it he will sudgest to pay for the next date or two... afterwords it should be as it goes, either both, or whoever asked to go on the date

Why not?

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Originally posted by AAzn_ScratcH since women want equality they shouldn't get free entrance before 12 to clubs and men shouldn't pay for date it should be "equal"

you obviously did not read the thread. we already talked about this. but thanks for coming out.

Most of the times a guy hould pay... but sometimes it's ok to split the bill...some ppl wanna pay some don't...my advice is learn to cook and always have some vodka close by..anything goes with vodka...

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Originally posted by Ashley WOW! This is bullshit, if guys let the girl take advantage of them, then really it's their own fault. (I'm not trying to justify anything here but...) If it's bothering the guy, then stand up and be a man and say something don't sit there and whine about being taken advantage of. I definitley DO NOT think that "there are way too many women out there taking advantage of way too many men"!!

There are because way too many men arent standing up for themselves like you said.

The problem is twofold. Wimpy guy meets manipulative woman.

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Originally posted by disko-kandi In 1998, earnings of employed women in Canada averaged $22,000, 64% of men's average earnings for the same year ($34,200). Part of the reason for women's lower earnings is that they are much more likely than men to work part time. However, even when only full-time, full-year employees are considered, the wage gap persists. In 1998, women in full-time, full-year positions earned an average of $32,600, 72% of the average of $45,100 earned by their male counterparts.[/I]

Great so they compare ALL women to ALL men. Did they compare actual job to actual job? NOPE! Apples and oranges people!!!

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Part of the reason for women's lower earnings is that they are much more likely than men to work part time.

Exactly what i mentioned earlier. MANY WOMEN STAY HOME TO TAKE CARE OF CHILDREN AND SOMETIMES WORK PART TIME JUST TO MAKE A BIT OF EXTRA CASH WHILE THE KIDS ARE AT SCHOOL. My mother did this. Does that mean she's at a disadvantage? according to this study she is!

Sorry but until i see a study that compares the exact same job profession i wont buy this at all.

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Originally posted by Jayx1 There are because way too many men arent standing up for themselves like you said. The problem is twofold. Wimpy guy meets manipulative woman.

Actually now that I think about it..

If I was going out with a girl, who NEVER offered to pay, but was doing other duties often associated with women(ie. cooking, washing dishes, washing my clothes, cleaning the house), I really wouldn't have a problem paying for her ALL the time.

Now, please don't call me sexist for making such a statement. I'm just describing a hypothetical situation here.

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Originally posted by LAYLA-KEKET Personaly I would feel very uncomfortable if a guy paid for the whole night... Thats me though, I am a very equal opportunity person... You know he pays for dinner you buy the movie. I mean you want to be equals with the person you with right, how can you be equal if budget is all one sided?

Well at least one woman here has gotten it so far.....

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Originally posted by Durafei Actually now that I think about it.. If I was going out with a girl, who NEVER offered to pay, but was doing other duties often associated with women(ie. cooking, washing dishes, washing my clothes, cleaning the house), I really wouldn't have a problem paying for her ALL the time. Now, please don't call me sexist for making such a statement. I'm just describing a hypothetical situation here.

except id feel bad for making her clean and cook all the time and offer to help out most of the time.

I guess what it really comes down to is culture.

In some cultures it is perfectly normal for a man to pay for everything, but for a woman to do all the house duties. In those cultures man are indeed supposed to pay for everything.

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Originally posted by disko-kandi quite the emphasis, no? it makes it look like you don't have a choice ... that's what i'm saying!

He always pays for everything on dates. I try to pay, and always offer, and THATS's what I said earlier and still say now. I don't have to explain myself at all. I don't have a choice whether I pay or not, he will just give me the money back if I do. We have been together for 5 years anyway, like it matters who pays at this stage.

If I were to go on a date with a different guy tommorrow I would insist that we split the bill, or work out something like that, I would even offer to pay. Unfortunatly my bf just doesn't make it that easy.

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Originally posted by The Highroller Why not?

k i know we live in the new age and its not the 1950's but still i belive a guy should take the first step. i'm tired of taking the first steps all the blooddy damn time. first one to ask him out pay for the first date, inisiate the kiss, i'm sorry but i see some of you guys that complain about doing everything first, what about the girls who actualy DO do things first?

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