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Originally posted by Mr. Pink ^^^ meh... throwing down isn't always necessary. I mean, the only person that's going to think you're a pussy is the other guy, maybe. If you're girl really loves you, she'll respect you for not being a brute and wanting to fight. Personally, I don't fight. I think it's stupid and solves nothing cept some blood splattered on the floor. plus id get my ass beat everytime lol!

I just think it's good exercise.

If you have not been to the gym in a few days, nothing loosens up the muscles like administering a well deserved pummeling.

Unless there are twenty other guys jumping you.

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Originally posted by Slylee The key word is moderation. I�m not a fan of playing games, but certainly a little �hard to get� in the beginning is always necessary. Or even throughout the relationship to spice things up too, but nothing too extreme. I am a lot like sara and how she described herself as a girlfriend, and to the guy who said that being too perfect is boring, you seriously need to grow up. I�m sure sara knows how to play her cards right, as do I. Just because we don't mind cleaning and taking care of our men, or cooking for them, doesn't mean we are boring. It usually just means we have something special planned for "dessert" That's called game...now go look it up in the dictionary or take notes.... Mature, confident people (females in particular) do not go for the asshole, game playing high school mentality. That is getting old. People who do that have no idea what they want in life or where they�re going, except maybe the sack to get try and get laid, which I would imagine gets old. I could go on and on, but like I said, it�s about doing everything in moderation and not being immature about it.

True and untrue.

At the beginning, I agree, the "playful" hard to get is fun. But not the complete absence of any indicator that "yes, i think i like you".

Some girls. i've found, that if you give in and actually love love them, is about the time they don't want anymore, where others, will give all of themselves when you do.

The last relationship was great until i stopped holding back what i was feeling, though i would let what i felt show through everynow and then throughout the relationship. Either that, or her white christian family did not like the fact that i was Arab.

When it works, it's great, and you never have to worry about "should I say this?" or "should I do that?" You'll say what comes naturally and it will be all good, and you'll do what you feel like doing, and it will be all good.

But it may not just "come to you". Be a little proactive.

you girls are all talk. you like to tell yourselves that you don't go after the immature asshole type, but then you say that your men are breaking up with you because you're too perfect? whatever...don't try and pretend to be above all that shit...you know you're not.

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Originally posted by Floorfiller you girls are all talk. you like to tell yourselves that you don't go after the immature asshole type, but then you say that your men are breaking up with you because you're too perfect? whatever...don't try and pretend to be above all that shit...you know you're not.

I never said Im perfect. Far from it, in fact. Sometimes I really suck at life!!!

well my relationship ended for a lot more complex reasons than that....i really don't put up with too much shit, i believe in second chances, but not being taken advantage of.

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Originally posted by ShadoWolf I might have trouble with that one... hey, a boy's gotta look goood!

^ Metro.

Don't worry Shad, all I-ties are like that.

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Originally posted by Floorfiller you girls are all talk. you like to tell yourselves that you don't go after the immature asshole type, but then you say that your men are breaking up with you because you're too perfect? whatever...don't try and pretend to be above all that shit...you know you're not.

I'm working on being an asshole. I think it's completely true that girls go for the asshole types.

Oh, the irony.

FF how did it go with your girl this weekend? The dream one.

metros are OK, but what i meant by saying that earlier, is that i love a guy who can just roll out of bed, messy hair and all, throw on some jeans and t-shirt and look like something out of an A&F ad...


that's hot

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Originally posted by Orbax Ive found out that I keep getting with girls 26+. That has been the age where most women have gotten their F*** on with all the badboys and want a real life now with a guy they can live with and be happy. They get the self-confidence to realize that they arent pieces of ass, and they stop looking for guys who fulfill that identity for them. Women all want the same thing. It just takes some longer to realize it. Some never do and stay with an asshole till the day they die. Your average joe is a pretty good guy. He just doesnt hit on you all day in an attempt to get with you. Typically theyd rather just hang out and eventually you guysll get drunk and mess around then itll start going from there. Thats how it happens hehe, relationships based on friendships rule. MmmmMmm yes they do. Any whoo...

Well said, Orb. I can't pull many 26+ cause I look like I'm 18. Oh well, maybe in a few years.

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Originally posted by Seventil I'm working on being an asshole. I think it's completely true that girls go for the asshole types. Oh, the irony. FF how did it go with your girl this weekend? The dream one.

its completely true that assholes get women. i mean, not that i'm an asshole, but when i'm around friends and i'm having a good time and not really looking for anything i always end up getting hit on or i hear the next day that some girl wants me.

but when i like someone and then i'm nervous and not that outgoing crazy person...it doesn't work as well hehehe.

oh and thanks for asking. we're still good . it went great.

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Originally posted by Slylee metros are OK, but what i meant by saying that earlier, is that i love a guy who can just roll out of bed, messy hair and all, throw on some jeans and t-shirt and look like something out of an A&F ad... that's hot

Yep. I'm working on toning my metro qualities down. Living in Italy has a "metro" like effect on you.

Still reading back through old posts... interesting thread here.

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Originally posted by Seventil Well said, Orb. I can't pull many 26+ cause I look like I'm 18. Oh well, maybe in a few years.

that could be good. i'm 22 and i have it bad for this kid that goes to my gym, i swear he's still in high school, but he's really hot. i would never go for him though, that's just too weird. but it's fun to fantasize

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Originally posted by Slylee metros are OK, but what i meant by saying that earlier, is that i love a guy who can just roll out of bed, messy hair and all, throw on some jeans and t-shirt and look like something out of an A&F ad... that's hot

i can do that...in fact i do that a lot. i think that guys that can do that are still metros because i think a lot of it has to do with style not just being clean cut all the time....

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Originally posted by Floorfiller its completely true that assholes get women. i mean, not that i'm an asshole, but when i'm around friends and i'm having a good time and not really looking for anything i always end up getting hit on or i hear the next day that some girl wants me. but when i like someone and then i'm nervous and not that outgoing crazy person...it doesn't work as well hehehe. oh and thanks for asking. we're still good . it went great.

Sweet! Nice to hear.

Check this shit out. I'm in the desert currently. The ratio of men/women here is like 15/1. Anyway, there is a really hot girl I keep seeing at the pool here. We've made prolonged eye contact a few times. Yesterday, after the pool, she came by the beer place and saw me sitting with a friend. Once again, we exchanged looks. I just kept talking to my buddy and looking at her every now and then. I never approach girls here because of the fucked up ratio. Anyway, she and her girl start playing darts. The next game they start, she comes over and asks me and my buddy to play darts with them, because it only allowes 4 people.

So, things go well, I make them laugh and we get to know each other a little. She says she'll see me tomorrow at the pool.

Thoughts? Her just being nice, or, did I just get hit on by a girl here?

Discuss.

Btw, I'm writing an article for Maxim entiled "Women at War - Dodging mortars and getting laid at the same time."

yeah man I can roll out of bed and throw shit on and look great, it's just that I like to take extra care of myself when I am awake so I can achieve that

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Originally posted by Seventil Sweet! Nice to hear. Check this shit out. I'm in the desert currently. The ratio of men/women here is like 15/1. Anyway, there is a really hot girl I keep seeing at the pool here. We've made prolonged eye contact a few times. Yesterday, after the pool, she came by the beer place and saw me sitting with a friend. Once again, we exchanged looks. I just kept talking to my buddy and looking at her every now and then. I never approach girls here because of the fucked up ratio. Anyway, she and her girl start playing darts. The next game they start, she comes over and asks me and my buddy to play darts with them, because it only allowes 4 people. So, things go well, I make them laugh and we get to know each other a little. She says she'll see me tomorrow at the pool. Thoughts? Her just being nice, or, did I just get hit on by a girl here? Discuss. Btw, I'm writing an article for Maxim entiled "Women at War - Dodging mortars and getting laid at the same time."

she totally wanted you man. you should let her know your interested next time you see her. keep it smooth...don't be a complete ass about it, but let her know that you're interested

oh and lol at the maxim article

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Originally posted by UWM yeah man I can roll out of bed and throw shit on and look great, it's just that I like to take extra care of myself when I am awake so I can achieve that

exactly

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Originally posted by Slylee The key word is moderation. I�m not a fan of playing games, but certainly a little �hard to get� in the beginning is always necessary. Or even throughout the relationship to spice things up too, but nothing too extreme. I am a lot like sara and how she described herself as a girlfriend, and to the guy who said that being too perfect is boring, you seriously need to grow up. I�m sure sara knows how to play her cards right, as do I. Just because we don't mind cleaning and taking care of our men, or cooking for them, doesn't mean we are boring. It usually just means we have something special planned for "dessert" That's called game...now go look it up in the dictionary or take notes.... Mature, confident people (females in particular) do not go for the asshole, game playing high school mentality. That is getting old. People who do that have no idea what they want in life or where they�re going, except maybe the sack to get try and get laid, which I would imagine gets old. I could go on and on, but like I said, it�s about doing everything in moderation and not being immature about it.

well i didnt mean boring as *yawn* boring..i meant i like the challenging girls more...the chase is more seductive than the catch

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Originally posted by Floorfiller she totally wanted you man. you should let her know your interested next time you see her. keep it smooth...don't be a complete ass about it, but let her know that you're interested oh and lol at the maxim article

Any women here to give me advice about this?

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Originally posted by Seventil Any women here to give me advice about this?

think about it. why would she even bother talking to you if she wasn't interested? most of these girls just said that they don't approach guys. if this girl approached you and your friend to have a beer with them or play darts with them...then that's a good sign for me. i would've found out what she was doing later...

BTW I can vouch for being an asshole NOT working. hehe. Actually it kind of does. People think im an asshole cuz i treat everyone the same, a friend of 12 years or a newly met person. Ill make fun of them for whatever they do and expect them to do the same. However, they rarely do for fear of offending someone

Anywho. There is/was a girl i was super interested in. Very active, had that farm girl/tom boy thing going on that I love. She totally loved my mototcycle and demanded that I take her riding. BTW its awesome to have a chick all smooshed up behind you on a bike. Its very cool. Them thighs too lol. I love giving girls rides...digressing.

So things are going well, shes showing some interest, then I realize she has an F-buddy. Not boyfriend, someone she likes to have sex with. I havent talked to her since. Shes asked why and is apparently confused as to why her incredibly low morals and standards (I know the guy shes Fing, total bitch) could do such a thing. Ill admit it wasnt exactly a clear thing to do, but I really dont think I need to sit her down and tell her shes a whore.

And thats my problem. Every girl with the exception of two havent been virgins and lost it to someone totally undeserving. I dont know about you guys, but every time I look at her I seen the ghost penis pounding her. ITs like...I dont want that. I dont need that. Ive waited when I didnt want to, I think I deserve the same.

Yes yes, we are allllll veryyy open minded these days, especially when it comes to things that we want to do. Personally, Im a classically raised Englishman (dont sit until all women are sitting, stand when they leave or enter, hold doors, take and put on coats, push in chairs, etc... a lot of people wonder what Im doing waiting by a door until a girl goes in, and half the time girls think im hitting on them...but whatever) with a revitalized Christian Outlook (which may not seem true on these boards ). Im all for having fun, but I do believe that there are some boundaries that should be harder to cross.

And again, this is why I end up going for older girls. #1 they arent having their college fuck fest, and #2 they know what and what not to divulge about their sexual history.

Im still pissed that I am going to have to go to the clinic with my GF before we have sex. I now know 3 people who have gotten permanent STDs from even protected sex.

bah.

orbax

i know what you mean about the ghost penis hehehe. i don't expect my girlfriends to be virgins, but at the same time i don't wanna hear about every dude she's been with hehehe.

i also know what you mean about chicks on bikes hehehe. my roomate had a bike (not a sport one like you, but more like a harley) and he always had the ladies wanting a ride hehehe. anyway, think about it. they are all close to you that's already breaking the first step in getting to be with someone...breaking the first touches hehehe...

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Originally posted by Floorfiller think about it. why would she even bother talking to you if she wasn't interested? most of these girls just said that they don't approach guys. if this girl approached you and your friend to have a beer with them or play darts with them...then that's a good sign for me. i would've found out what she was doing later...

What if she just needed 2 guys to play darts with her and a friend? Being nice?

I will have to say that she doesn't normally have a bunch of a guys hanging around her, like 90% of the women here do. So that's one up for her.

Oh, and I did ask her what she was doing later. -- We both work night shift (7Pm - 7AM) - and it was about 10 AM. It was time for sleep, my friend. I'll see her in the morning after work - I'm just not sure if I should take it slow and feel her out - or - really throw some game out there.

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Originally posted by Seventil What if she just needed 2 guys to play darts with her and a friend? Being nice? I will have to say that she doesn't normally have a bunch of a guys hanging around her, like 90% of the women here do. So that's one up for her. Oh, and I did ask her what she was doing later. -- We both work night shift (7Pm - 7AM) - and it was about 10 AM. It was time for sleep, my friend. I'll see her in the morning after work - I'm just not sure if I should take it slow and feel her out - or - really throw some game out there.

i don't think she just asked you and your friends to play darts for no reason. i mean if you looked like a creepy guy or they weren't thinking "hey lets ask those guys...they're here a lot" they wouldn't have asked you. you don't have to get all crazy with the game, but don't be afraid to keep things going with her next time you see her. try to grab some lunch or something i don't know. i'm just saying that girls don't ask men they don't know to play darts with them unless they are somewhat interested in getting to know that person.

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Originally posted by Orbax So things are going well, shes showing some interest, then I realize she has an F-buddy. Not boyfriend, someone she likes to have sex with. I havent talked to her since. Shes asked why and is apparently confused as to why her incredibly low morals and standards (I know the guy shes Fing, total bitch) could do such a thing. Ill admit it wasnt exactly a clear thing to do, but I really dont think I need to sit her down and tell her shes a whore. And thats my problem. Every girl with the exception of two havent been virgins and lost it to someone totally undeserving. I dont know about you guys, but every time I look at her I seen the ghost penis pounding her. ITs like...I dont want that. I dont need that. Ive waited when I didnt want to, I think I deserve the same.

That's a tough situation. I'll admit I've been with girls that I didn't really care about - some longer than others - *sigh* - but I don't think I've ever found a girl that I liked had someone on the side...

I know what you mean about the "ghost penis" - I actually miss a society where sanctity of marriage and the virtue of a woman were important. I guess that's somewhat hypocritical to say, judging from my past experiences.

Keep your head up man - you'll meet the perfect girl someday - and she won't be banging an asshole on the side.

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