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Posted by Slylee on Jan-07-2005 15:22:

Well that�s your problem right there...thinking someone is out of your league. Even if you are �average� looking (by society�s standards), if you have confidence and aren�t afraid to approach even the hottest of super models, THAT is attractive. I think most people would agree.

I think you should give it another shot Jason. The first rule of dating for females is to never accept a date 2 days or sooner than the date you�re being asked to hang out on. You have to look important and say, �Oh I�d love to, but I already have plans, sorry!� You probably caught her off guard too. So I would just put the ball in her court and casually mention again that if she�s ever up for happy hour after work, that she should let you know. Say something like, �you know where to find me�, but not in an arrogant way. Then just let it go.

Posted by igottaknow on Jan-07-2005 15:27:

Jamie has anyone at work asked the hot secretary out and what did she say?

quote:
Originally posted by Floorfiller
true...but sometimes you can get kicked in the balls for free

+1

Posted by NiteMer on Jan-07-2005 16:17:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
Well that�s your problem right there...thinking someone is out of your league. Even if you are �average� looking (by society�s standards), if you have confidence and aren�t afraid to approach even the hottest of super models, THAT is attractive. I think most people would agree.

I think you should give it another shot Jason. The first rule of dating for females is to never accept a date 2 days or sooner than the date you�re being asked to hang out on. You have to look important and say, �Oh I�d love to, but I already have plans, sorry!� You probably caught her off guard too. So I would just put the ball in her court and casually mention again that if she�s ever up for happy hour after work, that she should let you know. Say something like, �you know where to find me�, but not in an arrogant way. Then just let it go.

I have to agree with that synopsis. I find that if you are confident/cocky enough without going over the border, women like that. You have to be a little bit asshole, but they have to tell that you are also a nice guy as well. It's kind of annoying, but it's part of the game you have to play.

Posted by Slylee on Jan-07-2005 16:35:

no, it's a small office. only 2 attorneys and 2 other secretaries. we are like family...apparently my boss thinks so because he says stuff that is out of line on a daily basis...but he's harmless. he just tries to be funny all the time. i give him complimentary laughs. then i tell him, that it was a complimentary laugh.

Posted by igottaknow on Jan-07-2005 16:41:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
no, it's a small office. only 2 attorneys and 2 other secretaries. we are like family...apparently my boss thinks so because he says stuff that is out of line on a daily basis...but he's harmless. he just tries to be funny all the time. i give him complimentary laughs. then i tell him, that it was a complimentary laugh.

dam i was hoping for an out landish office sex story, where you did a line of coke off the xerox machine and then had mad sex with a co-worker on it while faxing it to a client by accident

Posted by Floorfiller on Jan-07-2005 16:47:

i was just joking...i don't think she's out of her league...well...atleast for normal me...i have gotten a little fat

but i agree with everything you said jamie and that's usually how i am hehehe. man...i just hadn't asked anyone out in a long time...so i thought i'd give it a go hahaha...i'll probably try again sometime don't worry hehehe...

Posted by Mebot on Jan-07-2005 16:48:

quote:
Originally posted by Emil
The guy who's 12 y/o cousin got the phone number for him? He did call her, but nothing else was updated.

i think we kept bumping the thread and the guy came back a week later and updated us on what happened

i think he said he went out on a date and he found out that the girl smokes pot, and we all asked why that would be a question you ask on the first date:

Guy: Hi my name is Tom. How are you?
Girl: I'm fine thank you my name is-
(Interruption)Guy: Do you smoke pot?

haha

Posted by Floorfiller on Jan-07-2005 16:48:

quote:
Originally posted by igottaknow
dam i was hoping for an out landish office sex story, where you did a line of coke off the xerox machine and then had mad sex with a co-worker on it while faxing it to a client by accident

that's hot

Posted by jonze on Jan-07-2005 16:55:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
no, it's a small office. only 2 attorneys and 2 other secretaries. we are like family

incest?

Posted by Slylee on Jan-07-2005 17:03:

nope, sorry...the office sex only happens when i go to my boyfriend's office for lunch

Posted by igottaknow on Jan-07-2005 17:05:

quote:
Originally posted by Floorfiller
i was just joking...i don't think she's out of her league...well...atleast for normal me...i have gotten a little fat

we'll be judge of that, pics or stfu

Posted by Floorfiller on Jan-07-2005 17:07:

quote:
Originally posted by igottaknow
we'll be judge of that, pics or stfu

hehehe i know i know...i don't want to go lurking now and have her see me trying to snap pictures of her...that's just wierd

Posted by igottaknow on Jan-07-2005 17:08:

quote:
Originally posted by Floorfiller
hehehe i know i know...i don't want to go lurking now and have her see me trying to snap pictures of her...that's just wierd

true but sometimes you just got to take one for the team

Posted by Floorfiller on Jan-07-2005 17:10:

quote:
Originally posted by igottaknow
true but sometimes you just got to take one for the team

well...maybe i'll try again sometime hahaha

but seriously...i don't see how i can get a nice shot without her seeing a camera phone in her face HAAHAHAH

Posted by jonze on Jan-07-2005 17:14:

when you walk by her act like you are trying to dial someones # and then snap the shot

Posted by igottaknow on Jan-07-2005 17:14:

have you thought about working the "bi" angle?

Posted by Echo of Silence on Jan-07-2005 17:15:

walk by her desk playing with your phone, mumbling, take a pic of something across from her, if she says something or looks at you, tell her "hmmm, something's wrong, it's not working...all of the pics are coming out too dark"...take one of her, look at it, shake your head, cuss, keep walking...take one of someone else, mumble under your breath, walk back to your own office still playing with the phone, sit down, put the pic on your computer, upload, post....

Posted by Floorfiller on Jan-07-2005 17:17:

quote:
Originally posted by igottaknow
have you thought about working the "bi" angle?

Posted by Floorfiller on Jan-07-2005 17:20:

quote:
Originally posted by Echo of Silence
walk by her desk playing with your phone, mumbling, take a pic of something across from her, if she says something or looks at you, tell her "hmmm, something's wrong, it's not working...all of the pics are coming out too dark"...take one of her, look at it, shake your head, cuss, keep walking...take one of someone else, mumble under your breath, walk back to your own office still playing with the phone, sit down, put the pic on your computer, upload, post....

i think i was a little too obvious about it the other day ...

i just busted out and said... HEY CHRISTINE! but i didn't get it

it'd be too wierd to try again

maybe i'll try in a day or two...i'll try and get her to pose with the girl that's leaving or something and see if i can get that one hahaah

Posted by NiteMer on Jan-07-2005 17:23:

quote:
Originally posted by Floorfiller
but i agree with everything you said jamie and that's usually how i am hehehe. man...i just hadn't asked anyone out in a long time...so i thought i'd give it a go hahaha...i'll probably try again sometime don't worry hehehe...

I can relate with that. It's weird asking girls on normal dates for me too. I have been meeting girls in clubs for so long and asking them out to more clubs that it's not natural for me to ask a girl to dinner or a movie. I still do at times, but it doesn't feel comfortable and natural.

Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Jan-07-2005 17:23:

quote:
Originally posted by igottaknow
have you thought about working the "bi" angle?

Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Jan-07-2005 17:24:

Posted by jonze on Jan-07-2005 17:25:

im guessing, since the paper wasnt ripped apart, that she took her up on the offer.

Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Jan-07-2005 17:26:

quote:
Originally posted by jonze234
im guessing, since the paper wasnt ripped apart, that she took her up on the offer.

Or, since it's on the internet, she disregarded the instructions and scanned it for all to see and ridicule.

Posted by igottaknow on Jan-07-2005 17:34:

quote:
Originally posted by Floorfiller
i think i was a little too obvious about it the other day ...

i just busted out and said... HEY CHRISTINE! but i didn't get it

it'd be too wierd to try again

maybe i'll try in a day or two...i'll try and get her to pose with the girl that's leaving or something and see if i can get that one hahaah

can't stand how girls make us feel weird for just doing our job and asking them out. its a fine line but make sure you dont cross it and become a stalker. otherwise you'll be sitting in the hr office watching the sexual harrassment video

btw the bi letter is quite hot

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