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Posted by tubularbills on Aug-12-2008 00:35:

quote:
Originally posted by Dervish
I can read this all the way. You've already got an internal list of "things you admire about her" or "yeah but I like her because she's different to the rest and *this thing* makes me think she would make me happy all my life"?

If you're leaving these are bad things to think mate.


well i mean sure there are things that i'm attracted to. which i think helps w/ the sex portion.

but the more and more i think about this whole thing, the more that i feel like iv'e been really casual about myself this whole time. and i've never felt like, "maybe if i do this, i'll get *this* response back" or shittiness like that. no pick up lines, no laughing at lame jokes, nothing like that. just plain old regular casualness.


Posted by Dervish on Aug-12-2008 00:38:

Ok who is getting involved you or her? I'm confused. If she said tomorrow "I'm gonna go fuck this guy with a bigger dick once you're gone" would you care?


Posted by tubularbills on Aug-12-2008 00:40:

quote:
Originally posted by Dervish
Ok who is getting involved you or her? I'm confused. If she said tomorrow "I'm gonna go fuck this guy with a bigger dick once you're gone" would you care?


nope.

what i think i would care more about would be "i'm gonna go fuck this guy with a bigger dick and he's going to become my boyfriend". and i would care because the sex would stop. (the sex would stop, and i'd still be around....i'm cool w/ the sex stopping when i leave town).


Posted by Dervish on Aug-12-2008 00:45:

I call lies. But then again I gotta get up soon for work and really should be asleep hence my judgment is already wrong lol.

Either way make a decision, quickly. I do think you're kidding yourself though. If you really fancy this girl (as in she isn't just 'convenient'* = ugly but easy) you'd want her as a gf because you can easily hang around her. Unless she has some major character defects?

EDIT:*


Posted by tubularbills on Aug-12-2008 00:52:

quote:
Originally posted by Dervish
I call lies. But then again I gotta get up soon for work and really should be asleep hence my judgment is already wrong lol.

Either way make a decision, quickly. I do think you're kidding yourself though. If you really fancy this girl (as in she isn't just 'convenient'* = ugly but easy) you'd want her as a gf because you can easily hang around her. Unless she has some major character defects?

EDIT:*


nah man, no major "defects"...lol. things have just been cool. i'm sure if i was sticking around, that it would be cool to have something longer. but then again, who knows.

at any rate, its neat to here other people's opinions. except mikeymike, i don't even bother with that dishpit anymore


Posted by elFreak on Aug-12-2008 00:54:

sweet merciful christ you need a psychiatrist.


Posted by bas on Aug-12-2008 00:57:

quote:
Originally posted by Dervish
But Bill if she is a FB why do you care?

Thank you. Fuck.


Posted by tubularbills on Aug-12-2008 00:57:

quote:
Originally posted by elFreak
sweet merciful christ you need a psychiatrist.



Posted by Lira on Aug-12-2008 01:03:

quote:
Originally posted by tubularbills
Lira...that was something i did not get. that was "i can't really explain it...but i'm getting a feeling that you want more than you originally said" answer towards me.

now i'm kind of wondering, "WTF did i do?", but at the time of said discussion i was literally taken back.

In that case, William, I really think she may be testing you. Either because she wants something more, or because she's insecure.

Lesson #1: Whenever your behaviour bothers someone else, you should also check whether it's not their problem, rather than yours.


Posted by tubularbills on Aug-12-2008 01:07:

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
In that case, William, I really think she may be testing you. Either because she wants something more, or because she's insecure.

Lesson #1: Whenever your behaviour bothers someone else, you should also check whether it's not their problem, rather than yours.


hmm..truth.

well, i'm going to stop letting this bother me now. if things go great the rest of the time i'm here, then great. if they go away, well then that's all right too.

its not worth the stress/drama.

and with that, i close.


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