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Originally posted by Slylee he made a comment like �oh it�s like when I met your ex�. I didn�t argue but I really wanted to be like, �umm actually it�s totally different�. Because it was!

been there

btw thanks to everyone who gave their 2 cents. it's much appreciated whether you agreed with me or not. that was kind of the whole point of sharing this with u guys. i'm all about objectiveness.

werd!

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Originally posted by spanglo Her relationship mirrors one I was in recently, where the girl I was seeing couldn�t deal with the fact that I�m still close to my ex. Unfortunately the relationship ended badly because of it, which is a shame because I really cared her and was thinking long term. There was never anything for her to worry about, but no amount of convincing could change her mind. It came down to a choice, but there�s no way I�m going throw away an important person in my life for a girl I�ve only known a few months � no matter how great she seems. But how great is she really, if she wants me cut off contact with my friends for reasons not rooted in reality?

+1

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Originally posted by spanglo Her relationship mirrors one I was in recently, where the girl I was seeing couldn�t deal with the fact that I�m still close to my ex. Unfortunately the relationship ended badly because of it, which is a shame because I really cared her and was thinking long term. There was never anything for her to worry about, but no amount of convincing could change her mind. It came down to a choice, but there�s no way I�m going throw away an important person in my life for a girl I�ve only known a few months � no matter how great she seems. But how great is she really, if she wants me cut off contact with my friends for reasons not rooted in reality?

ya thats like my ex and me. cept she decided to give me / the ex/ good friend the boot.

I know she did it just out of spite so personally it bugs me but in the long run fuck her

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Originally posted by david.michael Imagine my situation: I'm currently married (legally), and I live with my now-girlfriend (I am in the process of dissolution). Her and I have been together for a year. She has a 15-month-old daughter, whom I have been around since she was 3 months old. They split up before the daughter was born (maybe even before she knew she was pregnant...not sure.) Her father is a decent guy and is still in the picture for the daughter's sake. So, I HAVE to deal with my ex and she HAS to deal with hers... there's no real way around it. We are forced to go with number one, and so far it has worked out very well. There's still an occasional (very minor) hiccup, but, we are both very open and honest with each other. You should be too (and it sounds like you have been.)

Ugh, I need to vent about this somewhere, so I might as well do it here. I just need to bitch about stupid people.

I'm (kind of) currently dealing with something like you're going through right now. Fortunately, from both my perspective and my girlfriend's, I'm not having to put up with anything from any ex, and her ex has the IQ of a jart so ... not too worried about him either.

My girlfriend has a daughter who'll be turning 3 in a few weeks, and over the period that the relationship has been developing we've gotten pretty close pretty quickly. Sometimes she calls me "dad" (although usually "her Bobby") and I've done everything I can to play a strong parental role in her life, and I almost care for her like she is my own daughter now. (Go figure, before we were together I was out for weekends at a time and laughing at the thought of even being in a relationship, let alone one where a child was involved. Funny how these things work out) Aaanyways ... we've talked here and there about the two of them moving into the city to live with me, and real dad didn't take to the idea of having his daughter living in a big city so well. We've now been in-and-out of court for a few weeks, with more dates forthcoming, because essentially he's miffed that he's going to lose his custody rights and have to pay some sort of child support. He's lied to a judge under oath about stuff, he's accused me and my girlfriend of patently false things in order to try and keep some sort of leverage in the situation ... it really fucks me off that he's putting his own personal interests above his daughter. (Keep in mind he now apparently has another child with his girlfriend, whom he lives with).

I guess what this boils down to is: thank fuck I don't have to worry about any influence from my gf's ex. That, and I hate him. Oh, and it's actually pretty cool to be a dad.

Be careful when kids are involved, because the party van is never far.

You should've seen the look on my girlfriend's face when she discovered the Pedobear mask in my closet.

you should have seen the look on freak's ex's face when she saw the look on her face with a cock in it on the internet

see i keep the pedo bear mask in the house and the girlfriend in the closet

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy you should have seen the look on freak's ex's face when she saw the look on her face with a cock in it on the internet

Ha. Well played.

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy you should have seen the look on freak's ex's face when she saw the look on her face with a cock in it on the internet

props to you bobby. i don't know if i could deal w/ a guy who had a kid and baby mama drama. i'd most likely peace out or just never get involved to begin with. i mean look how i'm struggling with just being friends with an ex. lol

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy you should have seen the look on freak's ex's face when she saw the look on her face with a cock in it on the internet

it was the gift that kept on giving.

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