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YOU can explode. I'll pass.

What I also find fucking stupid is teenagers getting pregnant. There are those who are to dumb to use protection, but I'm even more annoyed by 15 year old girls who WANT to be a mother. The have no damned clue about life and can't even care for their kid alone, yet intend to take one of the biggest possible responsibilities.
IMO it's just not possible to know what you want from life at such an age, and one seriously can't value "knowing what you don't know" high enough.

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Originally posted by Meat187 What I also find fucking stupid is teenagers getting pregnant. There are those who are to dumb to use protection, but I'm even more annoyed by 15 year old girls who WANT to be a mother. The have no damned clue about life and can't even care for their kid alone, yet intend to take one of the biggest possible responsibilities. IMO it's just not possible to know what you want from life at such an age, and one seriously can't value "knowing what you don't know" high enough.

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Originally posted by Meat187 What I also find fucking stupid is teenagers getting pregnant. There are those who are to dumb to use protection, but I'm even more annoyed by 15 year old girls who WANT to be a mother. The have no damned clue about life and can't even care for their kid alone, yet intend to take one of the biggest possible responsibilities. IMO it's just not possible to know what you want from life at such an age, and one seriously can't value "knowing what you don't know" high enough.

I know exactly what you mean. If you're going to fuck at that age, be fucking smart about it and use condoms and get on the pill. Is it that hard really? "oh but I don't want my mom to know I'm having sex" then don't tell her? Go to the doctor and tell him/her you want to get on the pill and they can't tell your mother shit. If your mom keeps asking why you're on it tell her the doctor put you on it to regulate your period (which is a perfectly valid excuse). I hate these stupid excuses they come up with. Oh and the best one "he pulls out, I won't get pregnant" and then you tell them about precum and they are like "wait, what's that?" people that stupid should not be having sex.

And the ones that want to have a kid at that age, WTF? Seriously? 15? 16 years old and having a kid? I know why they want one, because mommy and daddy will be there to raise the kid and pay for everything. So fucking stupid.

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Originally posted by Rose I know exactly what you mean. If you're going to fuck at that age, be fucking smart about it and use condoms and get on the pill. Is it that hard really? "oh but I don't want my mom to know I'm having sex" then don't tell her? Go to the doctor and tell him/her you want to get on the pill and they can't tell your mother shit. If your mom keeps asking why you're on it tell her the doctor put you on it to regulate your period (that's the excuse I told her lolol but she later found out the truth but wasn't upset). I hate these stupid excuses they come up with. Oh and the best one "he pulls out, I won't get pregnant" and then you tell them about precum and they are like "wait, what's that?" people that stupid should not be having sex. And the ones that want to have a kid at that age, WTF? Seriously? 15? 16 years old and having a kid? I know why they want one, because mommy and daddy will be there to raise the kid and pay for everything. So fucking stupid.

LOL, yep.

i had a teacher once who was really badass- rlly down to earth, we were in our hschool health class & the topic was 'sex' & he walks in & stays there for the 'chat' & someone was talking about precum.. he's like.. Yeah, i got a joke for you guys.. you know what you call the people who use the 'pull-out method'? --- parents. he was sharing his story & how he later got a vasectomy..

but anyway, i think 15-16 is too young to be having sex.. i mean i know girls that started right at the age of 12-13.. are you serious? you still don't even know how to wipe your ass properly w/o leaving skid marks on your barnie undies

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Originally posted by yukii LOL, yep. i had a teacher once who was really badass- rlly down to earth, we were in our hschool health class & the topic was 'sex' & he walks in & stays there for the 'chat' & someone was talking about precum.. he's like.. Yeah, i got a joke for you guys.. you know what you call the people who use the 'pull-out method'? --- parents. he was sharing his story & how he later got a vasectomy.. but anyway, i think 15-16 is too young to be having sex.. i mean i know girls that started right at the age of 12-13.. are you serious? you still don't even know how to wipe your ass properly w/o leaving skid marks on your barnie undies

It is young. I waited until I was 18 and was with someone I cared about so I have no regrets. But seriously, when I was 12-13 sex was the last thing on my mind. Maybe I'm just weird? I don't know. However those girls are stupid as fuck.

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Originally posted by Rose I waited until I was 18 and was with someone I cared about so I have no regrets. But seriously, when I was 12-13 sex was the last thing on my mind. Maybe I'm just weird? I don't know. However those girls are stupid as fuck.

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Originally posted by Rose It is young. I waited until I was 18 and was with someone I cared about so I have no regrets.

Me too. 15 days after my 18th lol my boyfriend was 24

No but you hit that on the head - I cared about him, but I wasn't foolish enough to think I was in love with him so I have no regrets either.

At 15 I was too busy with the swim team and I still thought boys had cooties. I didn't date at all until the 2nd half of my senior year, and when I did start dating it was that older guy. (and now my honey is 10.5 years older... see a trend anyone? )

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Originally posted by squirrelly (and now my honey is 10.5 years older... see a trend anyone? )

My most recent ex is 8yrs older...

by in I assume you mean was

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Originally posted by squirrelly by in I assume you mean was

alright hooker, fixed!

ps: Why would it be was? Was would be past tense. No matter what, she will always be 8yrs older. So, it should always be present tense.

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Originally posted by squirrelly Me too. 15 days after my 18th lol my boyfriend was 24 No but you hit that on the head - I cared about him, but I wasn't foolish enough to think I was in love with him so I have no regrets either. At 15 I was too busy with the swim team and I still thought boys had cooties. I didn't date at all until the 2nd half of my senior year, and when I did start dating it was that older guy. (and now my honey is 10.5 years older... see a trend anyone? )

hahaha for me it was like a month before my 19th birthday but whatever still. I didn't want to be like these stupid girls and lose it to whoever. Relationships were never my thing either. I dated this asshole when I was 15 for 2 months and then was single until I was 18 and then that relationship lasted a year. Not so bad I guess. Now I'm just chillin' and trying to party more not really looking for someone. I'm young, there's no rush. Why is it that women usually try to find an older guy? Like if you ask around most women will say they want someone older.

I suppose so... it really could be either tense. My ex was or my ex is. *shruggage*

Makes no difference!

I only dated someone *close* to my age once... BIG MISTAKE (that was the last el-doucho)

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Originally posted by squirrelly I suppose so... it really could be either tense. My ex was or my ex is. *shruggage* Makes no difference! I only dated someone *close* to my age once... BIG MISTAKE (that was the last el-doucho)

How come it was a big mistake?

I wasn't actually looking for an older guy when I met him (the current). Actually, I was living with a boyfriend at the time

We didn't ask each others ages when we started seeing each other. Like two months in he said something about his sisters birthday and mine was the day after. Then he said how old his sister was turning and I go "me too!" and he looked at me like He's like "wait, how old are you?!" and then when he asked how old I thought he was I said 25/26 (he looks really young... all the men in his family do) and he's like "nooooo more like 33" but at that point we were a few months in and it didn't really matter so we ignored it and have been together ever since.

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Originally posted by squirrelly I wasn't actually looking for an older guy when I met him (the current). Actually, I was living with a boyfriend at the time We didn't ask each others ages when we started seeing each other. Like two months in he said something about his sisters birthday and mine was the day after. Then he said how old his sister was turning and I go "me too!" and he looked at me like He's like "wait, how old are you?!" and then when he asked how old I thought he was I said 25/26 (he looks really young... all the men in his family do) and he's like "nooooo more like 33" but at that point we were a few months in and it didn't really matter so we ignored it and have been together ever since.

awwww, how long were you guys together before he popped the question?

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Originally posted by Rose How come it was a big mistake?

You can pick from a couple of reasons. He liked to hit women (found out about that 1/2 way into 5 years together), loved cheating (since he got in a band 2 years after we started dating and well girls our age were sluts), was in a party-party-party don't give a fuck mode... and was just not ready for a long term commitment?

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Originally posted by Rose awwww, how long were you guys together before he popped the question?

We're not married yet but we've been talking about the beginning of next year (backyard wedding!! haha) I just always call him my hubby cause he might as well be. The only thing that's missing is that my last name changes We had a list of reasonable expectations to have prior to getting married (living together for x amount of time, putting finances together, meeting families, discussing future, etc) and so far, so good! We never argue (and people who say it's boring to never argue clearly don't have a good sex life )

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Our guest list is about 27 people

Oh, and to answer your question (lol) the serious marriage talk (like are we going to do this or what) came around in March-ish - like a little over 1.5 years together?

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Originally posted by squirrelly We're not married yet but we've been talking about the beginning of next year (backyard wedding!! haha) I just always call him my hubby cause he might as well be. The only thing that's missing is that my last name changes We had a list of reasonable expectations to have prior to getting married (living together for x amount of time, putting finances together, meeting families, discussing future, etc) and so far, so good! We never argue (and people who say it's boring to never argue clearly don't have a good sex life )

oh...lmao I thought you guys were already married. well that's great! you guys sound made for each other

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Originally posted by Rose oh...lmao I thought you guys were already married. well that's great! you guys sound made for each other

Everyone does. Doesn't help that we refer to each other as "hubby" or "wifey" or "the old ball and chain" or "the boss" or "mama"

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Originally posted by squirrelly Everyone does. Doesn't help that we refer to each other as "hubby" or "wifey" or "the old ball and chain" or "the boss" or "mama"

ahaha cute. for the keys are you looking for a house IN islamorada or just any key?

what do i wish from life?:
-plenty money to do what id like when i like [without being too rich]
-great sex life
-be able to make music and be able to play it out to people and see them enjoy it.

realistically what do i want from life?:
-just to be happy [one thing ive not been for a few years [/emo]

aren't you happy now? isn't that why you're engaged?

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Originally posted by squirrelly aren't you happy now? isn't that why you're engaged?

ah ofcourse.. im getting married in 15 weeks.. but the general feeling of 'you know what, im completely happy with how my life is panning out' .. ive not felt like that in years

Really? What do you think is missing? Are you not on track for something or do you not know what you want...?

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