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Originally posted by starsearcher Well yeah I dunno...in any case I think she was WAAAAAAAAAAAAY out of my league

she was out of your league with that attitude! lol.

If you see her again then just continue on the train for as long as she stays on... who cares if you are late. at least that way you can give yourself more time to strike up a better conversation. plus it will look like you might have more in common going to closer stops.
just ask her how far she is going, and if this is her regular shedule route/timing.

and remember, it's only stalking if you get caught and do it in a creepy way

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Originally posted by DigitalMP Lucky people aren't lucky, they simply take advantage of opportunity that "unlucky" people don't see because they're not paying attetion, and stick with the same routine. there are two types of people in this world - people that let things happen, and people that make things happen.

Wow, so you met her twice, and the second time you didn't do anything. I'm gonna have to go with Diabolic and say just let it go. you've allready pumped her up too much. So you say the train was crowded. Ok. You should have looked up once or twice to see that she'll meet your eyes again, get it together, and walk off with her. So you'll be 15 minutes late for work. If you should be so lucky to see her a third time, do not let the opportunity pass up.

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It seems to me that you are basing your idea of the perfect woman on the wrong characteristics.... If you can tell that a woman is perfect for you solely by looking at her, you have some astounding powers of deduction. By looking at a woman, you might only be able to discern her "hotness" while only scraping the surface of her personality. My point is, if you are basing your idea of a perfect woman only on looks, then it's no wonder you are intimidated. Once you realize that people are more than just their appearance, then you will become more comfortable talking to them (and more interesting b/c you will have things to talk about other than her appearance) -+Aron

I'm glad someone said it. John, its kinda funny to hear you talking like this. Not something I would have expected. But that just goes to show, you cannot really know people by what they look, and you should most definitely not be bethroning them because of said reasons. Some of the advice here is good, and some is just ridiculous. My 0.02 cents. Be calm. Ridiculousness, or outrageous behaiviour will only work with the truly freakish out there, and I don't think you really want that. Be a gentleman, and when you talk, smile, be confident, no umms and ahs, and stare (not literally STARE, but look intensely) at her eyes. If there's any chemistry there, it'll come through in that, for both of you. When it happens, you'll know what I mean. I've been in this situation before, and nothing has really ever come of it. However, when you should take the chance to go for it, its always a good experience. Either things will take off, or at least you would have tried.

^^^^umm this thread is no more about starsearcher but about shadowolf... look at the initial post date

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Originally posted by DigitalMP there are two types of people in this world - people that let things happen, and people that make things happen.

I always let things happen... making things happen takes too much effort.

The only reason im seriously on this planet is to deplete all your human resources a little faster.

Destroying the earth on day at a time! wOOt!

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Originally posted by ShadoWolf What should I do?

Grow a conscience.

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Originally posted by ShadoWolf I just had the same experience. Man it hurts. The difference in my case is that I see her everyday. What should I do?

As stated before, stop being a pussy. Since girls already have one.. they dont need another one.

Instead they want a dick.. so start acting like one!!

But, if you are too shy or whatever to approach her, then the only solution or recommendation I can give is to start using drugs or alcohol to gain that confidence which you need to capture the womens heart (though some people on here will probably disagree).

Enjoy.

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Originally posted by cyper Instead they want a dick.. so start acting like one!!

riiiight....

To risk is to live.

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Originally posted by El Kay Dee ^^^^umm this thread is no more about starsearcher but about shadowolf... look at the initial post date

The point still applies.

Guys, you really have to just suck it up. And it's not so much that you can't think of what to say. If it was a dude that was sitting next to you that you just casually said something to, say the same thing to a girl.

The problem is that you get all nervous, and press the virtual reset button on your brain. Keep it calm, keep it cool, and keep something in your mind to say that does not resemble a compliment in the least.

She'll be impressed that you were so down to earth, casual, and didn't treat her like a piece of meat.

That...is game. Not "the what", but rather, "the how".

This is one of those.. "putting the pussy on a pedestal" types of situations.

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Originally posted by VERTiG0 To risk is to live.

To risk is to feel alive.

JEM

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Originally posted by Jem_hadar To risk is to feel alive. JEM

Well said

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Originally posted by DigitalMP Guys, you really have to just suck it up. And it's not so much that you can't think of what to say. If it was a dude that was sitting next to you that you just casually said something to, say the same thing to a girl. The problem is that you get all nervous, and press the virtual reset button on your brain. Keep it calm, keep it cool, and keep something in your mind to say that does not resemble a compliment in the least. She'll be impressed that you were so down to earth, casual, and didn't treat her like a piece of meat. That...is game. Not "the what", but rather, "the how".

Very well said.

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Originally posted by cyper This is one of those.. "putting the pussy on a pedestal" types of situations.

And whats wrong with that? Shouldn't you look up to the one that tickles your fancy, rather then looking down on them?

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Originally posted by Hantu Very well said. And whats wrong with that? Shouldn't you look up to the one that tickles your fancy, rather then looking down on them?

I personally like to keep them *just* above eye level.

There's nothing wrong with letting someone know you fancy them - But keeping a sense of Reality never hurts either.

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Originally posted by Jer. I personally like to keep them *just* above eye level. There's nothing wrong with letting someone know you fancy them - But keeping a sense of Reality never hurts either.

I'm all for keeping a sense of reality, but I still fell that when in a relationship (or even when not) you should look up to your significant other. I'm not saying that you roll out the red carpet and kiss the ground they stand on, but you should look up to them. It also helps that they enjoy it.

heheh.

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Originally posted by ShadoWolf I just had the same experience. Man it hurts. The difference in my case is that I see her everyday. What should I do?

You uh... say hi and get her number?

p.s. jesus christ, i can't believe we're doing this all over again... two years later and with a different guy... my god, i can't believe it's been TWO YEARS.

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Originally posted by DigitalMP there are two types of people in this world - people that let things happen, and people that make things happen.

i'm stealing that

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Originally posted by VERTiG0 heheh.

Quit your laughing. Contribute.

haha

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Originally posted by Jer. Quit your laughing. Contribute. haha

*puts on Forum Nazi armband*

No laffing alloud! Yah!

This one's still going on huh nice...

Just for the record I haven't seen the girl since

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Originally posted by d!abolic i'm stealing that

It's a pretty common phrase I'm sure no one would mind.

as starsearcher has now just noted by saying he hasn't seen her since.... sometimes you only get that one chance, use it wisely. I've blown one shot and ever since then I learned my lesson.

The next time I saw a girl like that I got smacked once for just going for it and kissing the girl but the next one that I tried it I ended up with her for almost 5 years now. Gotta let them know how you feel, one way or another.



*(ps don't just walk up and kiss them with out trying to get a feel [no pun intended] if they like you back, hence getting smacked the frist time and winning on the next attempt)
If you get sued (or beaten to a pulp by her BF) I had nothing to do with this suggestion.

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Originally posted by d!abolic *puts on Forum Nazi armband* No laffing alloud! Yah!

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