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You welcome.

the PDD board will miss me.

hehe

Im done posting for a long time there...

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Originally posted by speedracer_mec the PDD board will miss me. hehe Im done posting for a long time there...

Is it the constant nonsense of other posters like me? Be honest man.

OK I MUST REPLY!!

As much as I don't want to, I feel I need to get a female opinion in here.

I have been in a relationship similar to this. What happens is, the guy gets too serious too quickly, the girl freaks out because of whatever, then she tries to dump him any way she can, then uses any excuse that will work, because she feels bad that he cares about her that much, and saying "you care about me too much and it weirds me out" doesn't fly over too well.

You liked her too much too quickly. It freaked her out. So she ran away!

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Originally posted by ierxium Is it the constant nonsense of other posters like me? Be honest man.

nah its more like the stress overall...

I cant handle it.

Im checking into counseling soon.
2breaksup in 6months is sickening.
no job
I didnt get any internships after all my interviews...
My GPR has slipped from a 3.9 to a 3.6
I dropped my first class this semester

girly man.

Dude, you will always come across people in life who (for whatever reason) do/say/act in ways that result in you feeling like shit - this will never change. All you can do is learn from whatever major mistakes you may have made (if any), accept what happened, and move on. That's it. You can't dwell on how someone feels or doesn't feel - what you do or say, no matter how poetic, will have little effect on the big picture.

Ok, think about the person you were prior to that first relationship that fucked you up, now ask yourself - is that who you are today? Is that who you were when you met this last girl? Likely not - you were still recovering from that first one. So, the next while is gonna be a living hell, but, once your state of mind is back to the way it was BEFORE that first girl you'll know you're ready for the next one.. It may take 6 months, it may take longer.. who knows.. but:

Don't go making stupid moves now or turning into an asshole towards girls who have nothing to do with your current drama solely so you can feel better because you feel you got 'back' at a girl. Maintain your dignity and self-respect, don't go sobbing to this girl on AIM, maintain minimal contact (if any).

A few pages back u said you were gonna be lonely throughout the holidays.. dude.. you can't look at it like that. It is better to be alone than to be 'together' in an unhealthy relationship - that shit is toxic. Get away and clear your head.

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Originally posted by Swamper Dude, you will always come across people in life who (for whatever reason) do/say/act in ways that result in you feeling like shit - this will never change. All you can do is learn from whatever major mistakes you may have made (if any), accept what happened, and move on. That's it. You can't dwell on how someone feels or doesn't feel - what you do or say, no matter how poetic, will have little effect on the big picture. Ok, think about the person you were prior to that first relationship that fucked you up, now ask yourself - is that who you are today? Is that who you were when you met this last girl? Likely not - you were still recovering from that one. So, the next while is gonna be a living hell, but, once your state of mind is back to the way it was BEFORE that first girl you'll know you're ready for the next one.. It may take 6 months, it may take longer.. who knows.. but: Don't go making stupid moves now or turning into an asshole towards girls who have nothing to do with your current drama solely so you can feel better because you feel got 'back' at a girl. Maintain your dignity and self-respect, don't go sobbing to this girl on AIM, maintain minimal contact (if any). A few pages back u said you were gonna be lonely throughout the holidays.. dude.. you can't look at it like that. It is better to be alone than to be 'together' in an unhealthy relationship - that shit is toxic. Get away and clear your head.

applaudible reply.

thanks man.

Appreciate it...I remember you posted last year in my other drama thread. Kind words I take to my heart.


Sorry folks for annoying you all once again with my droopiness

Its karma.

Suck it up, cry like a baby, do something to get it out of your system and move on, never looking back. It happens to EVERYONE and people get through it.

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Originally posted by {b.s.e.} applaudible reply.

agreed

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Originally posted by Swamper

words of wisdom from the master himself
can this thread die now its like im watching an episode of dawsons creek, i cant look away!





the creek sucks ass

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Originally posted by speedracer_mec nah its more like the stress overall... I cant handle it. Im checking into counseling soon. 2breaksup in 6months is sickening. no job I didnt get any internships after all my interviews... My GPR has slipped from a 3.9 to a 3.6 I dropped my first class this semester

Good luck with that man. I know sometimes it just seems like everything is happening the way it shouldn't. Try to break it all down or maybe try to balance it with the good things you have done this semester/year. We do good and bad. There's always a balance. Don't pay so much attention to the negative stuff. If you do, try and looking at the negative stuff so you can learn from it and maybe use it as inspiration.

As for what other people do to you, don't let it get to you. We men are lucky because there are tons of women out there. Each one is different, well, except for those with a ton of surgeries and implants. Anyway, there are women out there that do like a guy who takes the time to write down a poem to express a feeling. But then you have those who are afraid of having a man by their side that actually cares for them and puts all the possible effort to make the relationship work. All you need to do, for the good of your being, turn around and look somewhere else.

You can always try for internships man. Just gotta keep trying. Your GPA isn't that bad. The majojority of the people can't even keep a GPA above 3.0.

Dropping a class isn't bad at all. It should be looked at as a good move. You didn't fail it and you weren't ready for it. It's jsut that. You'll take it next semester. You won't stay behind. You're going forward.

Extra note: Swamper > Dr. Phil

thanks...

tomorrow im listening to a 2hr mix By SHILOH on my trip back to houston.

1. Formal - Twilight - Late Night Intro Mix [CDR]
2. Jacob Todd - The Metaphysics of Paper [3Beat Breaks]
3. Ozgur Can & Rouzbeh Delavari - Eternity [3Beat Breaks]
4. Micah - Epidemic [Unsigned]
5. Powerplant Feat. Trout - Turn It Into Gold (Nick K's Athens Remix) [Deep]
6. DJ Fox - I Believe [Tribo]
7. Spin 33 - Believe [CDR]
8. Steve Lawler - Out At Night (Nathan Fake's Night Lu Remix) [Subversive]
9. Mr. Acid - Mr. Acid [CDR]
10. Micali, Ajami, Wasley - Set You Free (Brancaccio & Aisher Suicide Sports Dub) [CDR]
11. Plastique Vision - Toyz In Panic [CDR]
12. C-Jay - Sundayzer [CDR]
13. Ozgur Can & Rouzbeh Delavari - I Know You [CDR]
14. Kasey Taylor & Chris Meehan - Biotics (Mix 1 [Vapour]
15. Shmuel Flash - For A Long Time (Fretwell Remix) [Nascent]
16. Starkid - Crayons (Habersham & Numinous Remix) [Release]
17. ??? -
18. Steve Lawler - Out At Night [Subversive]
19. Furry Nipples - Surroundings [CDR]
20. ??? -
21. Andy Moor vs Mic Burns - Control Me [Pangea]
22. Baunder - Replica [CDR]
23. Infish vs Martin H - Eye Am (David West Remix) [CDR]
24. Shy Row - ???
25. DCD - ???
26. Blue Room Project - Tuned Exposure [CDR]

the healing shall begin

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Originally posted by speedracer_mec the healing shall begin

healings dont begin with a sad smiley though..cheer up

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Originally posted by speedracer_mec she msged me on aim.. MY AFK msg was: Al Pacino My style- So say goodnight to the nice guy, last time you're gonna see a nice guy like this again." She said: PLs dont hate me. I still want to talk to you, then later on when we talked a bit she was saying : I care about you....

judging by this comment, saying how she cares about you, blah blah, she is just stringing you along to make herself feel better. girls do things like this.

or maybe she is just trying the 'installment' plan of breaking up. another common thing girls do. they think that if they ease it off, that is will be better and let them down easier, then say a clean and sudden break.

either way, she doesnt care about you like the way you do about her.

Never make anyone a priority when to them you are merely an option.

get over her and move on. sounds easy, but hard to do.

Ahh, getting dumped.

One of the great joys of life that we all experience if we want to date quality people.

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Originally posted by jennypie Roses are red Violets are blue Suck my dick, Bitch.

roses are red
violets are blue
i luv spaghetti
lets go fuck

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Originally posted by {b.s.e.} if only mistakes were nails, you'd have a pretty solid house.

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Originally posted by Swamper It is better to be alone than to be 'together' in an unhealthy relationship - that shit is toxic. Get away and clear your head.

agree

Speedracer Mac, you put 'way' too much emphasis on being with someone to make you worthy or complete. The sooner you realise that, the sooner you will move in the right direction.

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Originally posted by SID133 msg her back and tell her your going to fuck her mom to piss her off

do it...

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Originally posted by UWM If you actually do show up, which you shouldn't, the only thing that will make it worthwhile is if you can get off a solid cock-slap to her face.

Talk about telling it how it is.

Pics or stfu.

Roses are red,
Violets are blue,
Get a blumpkin.

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Originally posted by UWM Roses are red, Violets are blue, Get a blumpkin.

Republicans are red,
Democrats are blue,
I fuckin hate Dubya
And so should You!

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