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| Originally posted by EXTREMUM ...not unless you twist it tightly! Even if it does get get stuck up there, it's sterile, so there's no risk of getting toxic shock. Besides, it sounds much safer then grazing your anal cavity with a dirty fingernail...  |
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| Originally posted by EXTREMUM ...not unless you twist it tightly! Even if it does get get stuck up there, it's sterile, so there's no risk of getting toxic shock. Besides, it sounds much safer than accidently grazing your anal cavity with a dirty fingernail. |
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| Originally posted by Slylee i get weekly manicures. my fingernails and hands are generally pretty damn clean and neat looking. |
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| Originally posted by l�cid they make finger-sized condoms for stuff like that. |
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| Originally posted by Frenchie I've seen those at the condom shack here in Toronto. At first I thought they were for extremely small penis', which I have seen small enough to fit one *sigh*, but then I actually read the packages and was like, " HOLY Jesus..for your finger? C'mmooonnnn" |
Information about the sex drive and same- and other-sex attraction study in the April 2007 issue of the Archives of Sexual Behavior.
The complete reference for the article is:
Lippa, R. A. (2007). The relation between sex drive and sexual attraction to men and women: A cross-national study of heterosexual, bisexual, and homosexual men and women, Archives of Sexual Behavior, 36, 209-222.
Abstract:
Recent research suggests that, for most women, high sex drive is associated with increased sexual attraction to both women and men. For men, however, high sex drive is associated with increased attraction to one sex or the other, but not to both, depending on men's sexual orientation (Lippa, R. A., 2006, Psychological Science, 17, 46�52). These findings were replicated in a very large BBC data set and were found to hold true in different nations, world regions, and age groups. Consistent with previous research, lesbians differed from other women in showing the male-typical pattern, that high sex drive is associated with attraction to one sex but not the other. Bisexual women and men were more similar to same-sex heterosexuals than to same-sex homosexuals in their pattern of results. The correlation between same-sex and other-sex attraction was consistently negative for men, was near zero for heterosexual and bisexual women, and negative for lesbians. Thus, same-sex and other-sex attractions were, in general, more bipolar and mutually exclusive for men than for women. The current findings add to evidence that sexual orientation is organized differently in women and men and suggest a biological component to this difference.
A brief description of the study:
The higher women�s sex drive, the more they desire both sexes. However, the higher men�s sex drive, the more they desire either one sex or the other, depending on their sexual orientation. These are some of the findings presented in a new study by California State University psychology professor, Richard A. Lippa, published in the April 2007 issue of the Archives of Sexual Behavior. The findings were based on data collected from over 200,000 people who responded to an Internet survey posted on the BBC Science and Nature website.
For most men, a higher sex drive simply intensifies their existing sexual orientation, Lippa reported. The common-sense view is that heterosexual men with high sex drives are very interested in women, and gay men with high sex drives are very interested in men, and this is indeed what the BBC data showed. The unexpected result was that women seem to be more intrinsically bisexual in their sexual attractions. Whereas men tended to be either-or (heterosexual or gay), women had more shades of gray.
Lippa, a prominent gender researcher, said that the data from the BBC Internet survey suggests that the observed differences between women and men may have biological causes, because the results were very consistent across a number of countries, including the United States, the United Kingdom, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, Ireland, India, Malaysia, and Japan. Results were also consistent across a number of world regions, including Western Europe, Eastern Europe, and Latin America, and they were equally true for people over and under 30 years of age.
Lippa�s analyses of the BBC data showed that most women were considerably more attracted to men than to women, and thus it is incorrect to label most women as �bisexual.� However, many more women than men expressed some degree of attraction to their own sex. In the BBC survey data, 90 percent of women labeled themselves as heterosexual, 7 percent as bisexual, and 3 percent as lesbian. In contrast, 91 percent of men labeled themselves as heterosexual, 4 percent as bisexual, and 5 percent as gay. Thus, nearly twice as many women as men identified themselves as bisexual, but almost twice as many men as women labeled themselves as homosexual.
Lesbians were the only group of women who did not show the "high sex drive leads to increased attraction to both sexes" effect. Instead, they showed the pattern typical of heterosexual men. For lesbian women, high sex drive was associated with increased attraction to women, but not to men. Why lesbians differed from other women is not clear. Lippa speculated that the difference might result from the effects of prenatal hormones, particularly androgens, which include male hormones such as testosterone. Some social scientists argue that sexual orientation is influenced by prenatal variations in sex hormones like testosterone.
Lippa served as a research consultant to the BBC Internet survey, which was developed for use in the BBC documentary Secrets of the Sexes. He is a Professor of Psychology at California State University, Fullerton.
This article appeared in a special section of the April 2007 issue of the Archives of Sexual Behavior, guest edited by Richard Lippa, devoted to studies that analyzed data from the 2005 BBC Internet survey. Results from this survey were presented in the BBC One documentary, Secrets of the Sexes. About a quarter of a million people across the world responded to the BBC survey, which investigated psychological sex differences--how men and women differ in their cognitive abilities, personality traits, sexual attitudes and behavior, mate preferences, and attitudes. For further information about the BBC studies and their results, see the BBC Science and Nature website.
http://psych.fullerton.edu/rlippa/bbc_sexdrive.htm
Yup, you're definiely bi Jamie.
Re: Gay tendencies
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| Originally posted by Slylee Why do I seem to obsessively think about or wonder what it�s like to be with a woman, when really, the actual thought of it does absolutely nothing for me in terms of arrousal? Is it normal to just be curious about something that doesn�t seem to excite you? It�s like I�m subconsciously trying to force the issue on myself. Isn�t that weird? lol |
well my lesbian friend was telling me about the laws of attraction the other day. how we create karma around us from the energy, bla bla bla. kinda like when u wake up and right away something goes wrong (you stub your toe and then forget something on the way to work), then in your mind you're already setting yourself up for a bad day. well she was saying it's kinda like that. i could be forcing myself to be bisexual, even though it initially wasn't something i ever wanted or was arroused by. lol oh well.
i DID think of being with a chick when i masturbated the other day. lol but i was stoned.
face it sly your bi. why you always getting on my case for acting gay when your more gay than me? I'd say that's a bit of the bi calling the straight guy black. I don't confine myself to society's narrow definition of whats ok for a straight guy.
Denial.
Just try it! I think it would do you good as well as put the male TA's to rest lol.
Plus it would make for a good story which you seem to love to tell and what's a story without actual experience to go along with it.
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| Originally posted by Slylee i DID think of being with a chick when i masturbated the other day. lol but i was stoned. |
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| Originally posted by Slylee i DID think of being with a chick when i masturbated the other day. lol but i was stoned. |
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| Originally posted by igottaknow I'd say that's a bit of the bi calling the straight guy black. |
I don't want to sound gay or nothin, but Depeche Mode is a sweet band.
oh woops, i forgot to mention that it wasn't getting me off, so then i started thinking about penis, and i came in like 3 minutes.
i'm just fuckin with u guys. lol ur hilarious.
i dunno if i am or whatever, but i definitely love men way more than i love women. who knows what the fuck is going on with me. probably a little innocent curiosity, but i'll take care of it and hook up with a girl soon probably...put an end to all this bullshit i don't need going on in my already insane mind.
Update! lol This is hilarious.
So a friend of mine met this girl through me and they�ve been hanging out a lot and seem to like each other.
He told me that she keeps asking about me and now it�s all becoming clear. She�s bi and I think she�s trying to get the scoop on ME. I�m not saying she doesn�t like him, I know she does, but he just informed me this morning that they were talking about me the other day and she asked him if he knew if I had ever been with another girl, and he was like, �I don�t think so..I dunno, why?� And she told him that she gets a vibe from me that I want to be with a girl or that I have been with one already. Then she told him, �She doesn�t know what she�s missing�. 
Hahaha
The funny part is, when I first met this girl, it was at some random party in south beach and this friend I was with who knew her introduced us and we hit it off right away. She was REALLY nice and friendly and that�s extremely rare for girls in Miami to be like that. So I made a comment about how cool she was to that guy friend of mine who introduced us and he was like, �yea she digs girls I think, she probably wants you� and that freaked me out so I stopped being so friendly with her bc I didn�t want to lead her on.
So a few months passed by and we didn�t really talk and then I saw her again when I was with my buddy (not the one who introduced us, a different friend of mine) and now that they�re dating, I�m seeing more of her because I�ve hung out with them a couple of times over the past few weeks.
So now she�s dating him and asking about me at the same time.
I don't think you should bump this thread anymore, unless you're going to tell us that you participated in some lesbo action. 
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| Originally posted by jennypie I don't think you should bump this thread anymore, unless you're going to tell us that you participated in some lesbo action. |
i want to request something but i'm afraid someone will bite my head off for asking. what should i do?
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| Originally posted by Slylee lol i just think it's funny that she picked up on my "vibe". didn't realize i was giving off one. but then again, i have always been that type of girl who is really friendly with my girlfriends. |
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| Originally posted by jennypie Then you know what you have to do. |
ok sorry jenny...i should probably at least take you out to dinner before i say those things to you.
LOL
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| Originally posted by igottaknow I'd say that's a bit of the bi calling the straight guy black. |
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