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Posted by Joss Weatherby on May-05-2013 04:34:

quote:
Originally posted by Redd
1. it's her and you go "oh, hi, it's me from [whatever]" "cool beans, later".
2. it's not her and you go "okay sorry, have a nice day".

either way you win


Read my post above, not worth the risk.


Posted by Redd on May-05-2013 04:36:

four years ago and you still remember it and care enough to tell us about it. yeah wouldn't have been better to just ask her. my autism is tingling


Posted by Redd on May-05-2013 04:37:

never mind, misread your post.


Posted by Lira on May-05-2013 04:38:

quote:
Originally posted by Redd
all good man, I would have just asked her if I was in doubt. If I didn't it would have haunted me forever. OCD you know.

I wouldn't call it OCD. If it's someone he says he wants back in his life, it's only natural he would confirm.

Hell, if I were single and saw someone remotely interesting, I'd ask if it's someone I know (if it looked like someone I know), and if it wasn't I'd introduce myself either way


Posted by Redd on May-05-2013 04:41:

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
I wouldn't call it OCD. If it's someone he says he wants back in his life, it's only natural he would confirm.

Hell, if I were single and saw someone remotely similar, I'd ask if it was her and, if it wasn't I'd introduce myself either way


I just call it OCD because it's something that can haunt the shit out of you if you don't figure it out. At least that's how it works for me. My only real OCD is washing my hands. Not a bad one, really.

And yeah, that's why I called him a flamboyant beta.


Posted by Joss Weatherby on May-05-2013 04:44:

quote:
Originally posted by Redd
four years ago and you still remember it and care enough to tell us about it. yeah wouldn't have been better to just ask her. my autism is tingling


We were best friends and grew up together, she was like a younger sister, but in HS, maybe earlier I got a crush on her pretty hard, confessed eventually (thanks to TA lol) and was rejected. We remained friends, and it was fine for a while, but she eventually got to just be a shitty friend/person. She'd constantly pull stupid shit, and towards the end anytime I'd get mad at her about stuff she'd be doing she'd throw the "I don't love you and never will" thing in my face in an attempt to just shut me down. She did that about 3 or 4 times and we grew apart, slowly getting longer between talking to each other. The last time we saw each other we didn't even have a fight, but a few weeks later I found out that in HS she had a crush on my best friends brother in law, who was basically the biggest piece of redneck retard ever, and I was drunk and emailed her and basically called her a POS and that it was funny that a manwhore like my friends brother in law wouldn't even go out with her, and well that was that. Haven't talked since.

Sucks though, cause her family was friends with my family, and her parents were awesome and really liked my brother and I, we were like each others parent's kids growing up. My dad has actually talked to her more in the last 5 years than I have.

But yea, in the last year or two I haven't really given a fuck about her. I realized she was never worth that emotional effort, and the only thing that our friendship had going for each other was nostalgia. We weren't even "good" friends when we hung out. We'd just lay around and watch TV and not even talk or do anything, we'd act like we were 10 again. Totally pointless and more of a crutch than a friendship.


Posted by Redd on May-05-2013 04:46:

quote:
Originally posted by Joss Weatherby
Read my post above, not worth the risk.


what's the risk?

feeling stupid because you asked a stranger about something and got a "no"?

it's fun to live a little


Posted by Joss Weatherby on May-05-2013 04:49:

quote:
Originally posted by Redd
what's the risk?

feeling stupid because you asked a stranger about something and got a "no"?

it's fun to live a little


That it was her, that was the risk. I mean if it was enough for me to seriously consider it was her then I wasn't about to walk over and be like "yo, hey, its your former best friend, how you been, sorry for calling you a bitch, i still think you are a bitch though, oh, and yea, fuck you, im out again"

That'd be totally worth the shit feeling I'd have for days after that.


Posted by Redd on May-05-2013 04:49:

quote:
Originally posted by Joss Weatherby
We were best friends and grew up together, she was like a younger sister, but in HS, maybe earlier I got a crush on her pretty hard, confessed eventually (thanks to TA lol) and was rejected. We remained friends, and it was fine for a while, but she eventually got to just be a shitty friend/person. She'd constantly pull stupid shit, and towards the end anytime I'd get mad at her about stuff she'd be doing she'd throw the "I don't love you and never will" thing in my face in an attempt to just shut me down. She did that about 3 or 4 times and we grew apart, slowly getting longer between talking to each other. The last time we saw each other we didn't even have a fight, but a few weeks later I found out that in HS she had a crush on my best friends brother in law, who was basically the biggest piece of redneck retard ever, and I was drunk and emailed her and basically called her a POS and that it was funny that a manwhore like my friends brother in law wouldn't even go out with her, and well that was that. Haven't talked since.

Sucks though, cause her family was friends with my family, and her parents were awesome and really liked my brother and I, we were like each others parent's kids growing up. My dad has actually talked to her more in the last 5 years than I have.

But yea, in the last year or two I haven't really given a fuck about her. I realized she was never worth that emotional effort, and the only thing that our friendship had going for each other was nostalgia. We weren't even "good" friends when we hung out. We'd just lay around and watch TV and not even talk or do anything, we'd act like we were 10 again. Totally pointless and more of a crutch than a friendship.


holy shit. well okay, with that much history it would most likely have made a conversation with her quite awkward. you should have just said "hi [name]" and walked on.


Posted by Joss Weatherby on May-05-2013 04:52:

quote:
Originally posted by Redd
holy shit. well okay, with that much history it would most likely have made a conversation with her quite awkward. you should have just said "hi [name]" and walked on.


Haha. Nah, not even that. If it was her and she knew it was me, then she'd just feel as awkward. If she wants to contact me, she knows how. I doubt she does and thats good.


Posted by Redd on May-05-2013 04:56:

making her feel awkward would have been a little victory in itself though, wouldn't it?

hey [name], you've sure grown a pair, catch you on the flip side.

then do a barrel roll into the sunset


Posted by Spacey Orange on May-05-2013 04:57:

totally funny you mention this whole story nou. i went the same thing recently.

there was this chick i really liked , but she just wasn't in to me. long story short, the other day i'm walking to the bank and there she is looking hawt(hadn't seen in over 10 years). she was waiting for the atm when she saw me and she turned around in my direction smiling and i just walked right by her, pretended i didn't recognize her. i'm in i different place now and didn't see the point of reliving the past. c'est la vie


Posted by Redd on May-05-2013 05:00:

pretending you didn't recognize her..

BAZINGA


Posted by Joss Weatherby on May-05-2013 05:08:

Yea, if its 100% going to be awkward and you know it I just avoid it, Larry David style.

For example, if it had been a month earlier when Citric and I ran into each other last summer there woulda been no fucking way I woulda gone near her till she left.


Posted by Lira on May-05-2013 05:14:

You should've stripped down to your undies, approached her and said:

"Hey, I changed, and it's time for some brotherly love, Sweet Tits McGee!"

Depending on the look on her face, you'd either get free and easy chika-chika-bow-wow, or you'd apologise and say you thought it was someone else... even if it really was Allie

(Was it her name?)


Posted by Redd on May-05-2013 05:14:

Lira; "I was" or "I were"?


Posted by Joss Weatherby on May-05-2013 05:15:

On a totally unrelated note, I was very confused why so many girls today were wearing southernish dresses and hats... Then I remember its fucking Derby Day.

Can't complain, lots of busts exposed.


Posted by Joss Weatherby on May-05-2013 05:16:

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
(Was it her name?)


Yes.


Posted by Redd on May-05-2013 05:16:

great solution, I salute thee!


Posted by Redd on May-05-2013 05:17:

REALLY? you guys know each other that well? consider me flabbergasted


Posted by Joss Weatherby on May-05-2013 05:18:

quote:
Originally posted by Redd
REALLY? you guys know each other that well? consider me flabbergasted



You were not in the COR around 2005 apparently.


Posted by Lira on May-05-2013 05:19:

Weren't you around, Redd? She was pretty much a mythological figure after a while
quote:
Originally posted by Redd
Lira; "I was" or "I were"?

I was. "If I were" is also possible, but natives tend to say "If I was" either way.

Did I mess it up in a previous post?


Posted by Redd on May-05-2013 05:21:

hehe sorry, started using "main forum" about two years ago. c0r never got my attention till then.

and yeah Lira you did, and it confused me


Posted by Lira on May-05-2013 05:24:

Ah, spotted it! Yeah, I say "if I were" even though that's probably not nearly as common as "if I was" - I was forced to do it in school because that's correct even though no one speaks this way


Posted by Redd on May-05-2013 05:25:

so it's grammatically correct? if so, I just learned something. yay


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