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Posted by Desiderata on Aug-09-2013 19:29:

quote:
Originally posted by citric_acid
really nothing exciting, the same bullshit that had been going on for years.

we would be friends, id fill him in on details of my life, probably tell him too much info about my relationships. Id say enough for him to think i was into him (not really meaning too, im just an open person, ill tell anyone anything they want to know) and then he would get a reality check that i wasnt and id make it clear to him again hes just a friend and we should never hang out in person (hes very socially awkard, maybe its just around me but he would just stand there and stare and freak me out), so i guess that makes me a tease. also he imagines a lot of his own problems, creates them in his head and suddenly they become real to him.

next part of the cycle he gets all paranoid, freaks out, over thinks every detail claims hes done talking to me, it really doesnt bother me so he gets more upset blocks me etc, then a couple months later texts me or something. this went on since 2006 really, every 6 months or so. I really didnt care, his life is a fucking shit show and it was somewhat entertaining, my friends would have bets on when/why he would block me next or send the next text.

finally i got sick of the same pattern and when he had his last freakout i blocked him from everything so he actually had to stick to what he said, if he cant stop it i was doing no good allowing it to happen.


there it is one side of the story, it was no relationship but we all know his buttons are easy to push and sometimes you cant help but push them, its like a really bad reality show. im not avoiding him i just got sick of the same drama cycle and obviously i was playing a part in it so i decided to change it.

im sure ive missed a few details but its really just high school drama, nothing really exciting, no we never fucked, kissed or had any intimate relationship, no i hadnt talked to him in the last 2 weeks so there was no real big thing that caused this, just him stirring in his own emotions getting upset everytime he saw me post on here


I believe this although I thought a kiss had happened that which was really flipping his wig into talking about you so much.


Posted by on Aug-09-2013 19:32:

quote:
Originally posted by Desiderata
I believe this although I thought a kiss had happened that which was really flipping his wig into talking about you so much.


I doubt it. Both of these people sound like sociopaths. Citric sounds like a tease and Nou a rube. From what I have heard she got around with a lot of TA guys and Nou tries to talk up a lot of TA girls. Both pathetic losers who can't do real life.

The fact that Citric would actually spend time to go and meet with him though is pretty fucking strange.


Posted by srussell0018 on Aug-09-2013 19:33:

He clearly demonstrated an overly-obsessive mentality towards any female friend in his life. I think coming from such a sheltered life where he got everything he wanted, it was probably hard to accept the fact that not all (or most) women wanted nothing to do with him. Not leaving the house and spending all your time making video game mods = no social skills when interacting with girls.


Posted by SaulTek on Aug-09-2013 19:35:

quote:
Originally posted by citric_acid
...


Oh man. Maybe he really has mental issues. I mean he clearly has some, but maybe more than anyone thought.

What I think he should do is tone down that "my dad supreme court bla bla haha :P I'm actually of nordic heritage and intelligent" -shit.


Posted by Desiderata on Aug-09-2013 19:37:

quote:
Originally posted by Nordicist796
I doubt it. Both of these people sound like sociopaths. Citric sounds like a tease and Nou a rube. From what I have heard she got around with a lot of TA guys and Nou tries to talk up a lot of TA girls. Both pathetic losers who can't do real life.

The fact that Citric would actually spend time to go and meet with him though is pretty fucking strange.


Not amongst people that have well off families and some of the visits were NOT just with Nou, some were with Jake and other Seattle TA's.


Posted by Desiderata on Aug-09-2013 19:38:

quote:
Originally posted by srussell0018
He clearly demonstrated an overly-obsessive mentality towards any female friend in his life. I think coming from such a sheltered life where he got everything he wanted, it was probably hard to accept the fact that not all (or most) women wanted nothing to do with him. Not leaving the house and spending all your time making video game mods = no social skills when interacting with girls.



exactly why he needs a female peer to semi-peer age level to work with him one on one. He can then project anything he wants and she will do her job on rational feedback.


Posted by srussell0018 on Aug-09-2013 19:39:

Nou had a lot of schizophrenic traits. I remember him posting before about hearing voices that prevented him from sleeping. It seemed like he had an attitude that everybody was out to get him, and tried to rationalize it or cope with it by turning that somehow into everybody loved him.

Super weird guy.


Posted by idoru on Aug-09-2013 19:41:

quote:
Originally posted by SaulTek
Oh man. Maybe he really has mental issues. I mean he clearly has some, but maybe more than anyone thought.

What I think he should do is tone down that "my dad supreme court bla bla haha :P I'm actually of nordic heritage and intelligent" -shit.


This alt sure knows a hell of a lot about Nou...


Posted by on Aug-09-2013 19:42:

quote:
Originally posted by Desiderata
Not amongst people that have well off families and some of the visits were NOT just with Nou, some were with Jake and other Seattle TA's.


She said she came out to see him in January of last year. I think he even posted about it here. Pretty sure it was just the two of them.

quote:
Originally posted by Joss Weatherby
She was out last week for a few days with me.


quote:
Originally posted by Joss Weatherby
We actually didn't end up taking that many pictures, and the only ones I have of her are not very flattering (slumped down in her seat in the room on the train fiddling with her camera). She'd probably not be pleased if I posted those.


That was in February, maybe its different. I am not sure.

Maybe he made it up. The dates don't even match with Citric.


Posted by Desiderata on Aug-09-2013 19:43:

quote:
Originally posted by srussell0018
Nou had a lot of schizophrenic traits. I remember him posting before about hearing voices that prevented him from sleeping. It seemed like he had an attitude that everybody was out to get him, and tried to rationalize it or cope with it by turning that somehow into everybody loved him.

Super weird guy.



Needs professional help badly but someone like him is to proud to seek it. Glad I wasn't. It took me almost 3 years of professional help with my Schizoaffective. Wish I had sought help sooner but I was too busy partying and lame shit when I look back.


Posted by SaulTek on Aug-09-2013 19:47:

quote:
Originally posted by idoru
This alt sure knows a hell of a lot about Nou...


Well, I've been here for about three years now, and about 70% of all COR posts being by Nou it's hard NOT to know a hell of a lot about him, which makes him even more annoying.


Posted by citric_acid on Aug-09-2013 19:48:

quote:
Originally posted by Nordicist796
I doubt it. Both of these people sound like sociopaths. Citric sounds like a tease and Nou a rube. From what I have heard she got around with a lot of TA guys and Nou tries to talk up a lot of TA girls. Both pathetic losers who can't do real life.

The fact that Citric would actually spend time to go and meet with him though is pretty fucking strange.


correct me if i am wrong, but as my memory recalls ive slept with 1 ta and it was NOT nou. when i was 14-18 yes i flirted with a lot of ta guys and as everyone knows (and many have seen) showed too much to a few, tease probably, attention whore also yup, im not saying im a saint we all have our mistakes we made when we were young.

getting rid of nou was kind of the last of my immature behavior. shit im 25 now, in a healthy relationship, work 1 fulltime job while running a photo studio on the side. Ive grown up but i also dont care that there are people on here who wont ever believe or see that.


also yes ONCE i went out to see just him, it was jan/feb of 2012 i dont remember the actual date thats why i put a ? after it, it was just after i graduated college and needed a break from job searching/dealing with life back in montana


Posted by on Aug-09-2013 19:48:

Oh god, he goes on in that thread...

quote:
Originally posted by Joss Weatherby
Its not even interesting. We both were in bad/awkward moods and had a shitty time for the most part. There was some fun times, but most of the time it was just whatever. I feel bad that it went poorly, but shit happens. Maybe we'll have a better time in the future.


Both Citric and Nou sound like total losers. Fuck this, I need to actually get some work done today and this is just too sad to bare anymore.


Posted by on Aug-09-2013 19:52:

quote:
Originally posted by citric_acid
correct me if i am wrong, but as my memory recalls ive slept with 1 ta and it was NOT nou. when i was 14-18 yes i flirted with a lot of ta guys and as everyone knows (and many have seen) showed too much to a few, tease probably, attention whore also yup, im not saying im a saint we all have our mistakes we made when we were young.


Did you flirt with DA? I heard there was a lot of TA girls that led that poor SOB on, did you?

I heard they found messages from some girl on his computer when he killed himself that seemed pretty fucked up. I wonder who that was.


Posted by srussell0018 on Aug-09-2013 19:52:

Oh Nou's smiley faces.


Posted by Desiderata on Aug-09-2013 19:57:

quote:
Originally posted by Nordicist796
Oh god, he goes on in that thread...



Both Citric and Nou sound like total losers. Fuck this, I need to actually get some work done today and this is just too sad to bare anymore.



I don't think Citric was the cause of the awkwardness between them. I've traveled to meet someone from online before and it sucked socially. Everything she said was going to happen didn't. I mean like a day before I was to fly to see her, she called saying she got back with her x boyfriend but not to worry so when I got there I just let them fight the whole time and I enjoyed Kitchener, Toronto, and the Falls.


Posted by on Aug-09-2013 20:01:

quote:
Originally posted by Desiderata
I don't think Citric was the cause of the awkwardness between them. I've traveled to meet someone from online before and it sucked socially. Everything she said was going to happen didn't. I mean like a day before I was to fly to see her, she called saying she got back with her x boyfriend but not to worry so when I got there I just let them fight the whole time and I enjoyed Kitchener, Toronto, and the Falls.


Yea, I am sure nothing remotely similar happened between those two.

Both these people sound like they are incapable of being socially acceptable in the long run. Who the fuck teases someone for that long, and who the fuck keeps coming back for it? They both sound pathetic.

The fact that she'd go out to visit him, spending her own money probably just to "tease" him? Either she is lying or she is really off the deep end there.


Posted by Desiderata on Aug-09-2013 20:07:

quote:
Originally posted by Nordicist796
Yea, I am sure nothing remotely similar happened between those two.

Both these people sound like they are incapable of being socially acceptable in the long run. Who the fuck teases someone for that long, and who the fuck keeps coming back for it? They both sound pathetic.

The fact that she'd go out to visit him, spending her own money probably just to "tease" him? Either she is lying or she is really off the deep end there.



She went only once to see him on her own, one on one. She hardly posts on TA anymore especially compared to a regular like Nou. And if you were looking for an escape who better than a person like Nou that has no responsibility nor does he try to have some so in the end his online facade probably doesn't match up with who he is when it's one on one (also especially when it's a female with one on one).


Posted by on Aug-09-2013 20:10:

quote:
Originally posted by Desiderata
She went only once to see him on her own, one on one. She hardly posts on TA anymore especially compared to a regular like Nou. And if you were looking for an escape who better than a person like Nou that has no responsibility nor does he try to have some so in the end his online facade probably doesn't match up with who he is when it's one on one (also especially when it's a female with one on one).


Are you saying Nou is different in real life?


Posted by srussell0018 on Aug-09-2013 20:29:

Idk about all this being said, but I've had no interaction with Citric whatsoever, and despite me thinking she's an irresponsible pet owner, I don't see her as being super socially awkward or anything. She seems pretty normal in every other regard.

Nou on the other hand...


Posted by Desiderata on Aug-09-2013 20:33:

quote:
Originally posted by Nordicist796
Are you saying Nou is different in real life?



Yes, I believe he is way different. Probably doesn't take things in stride as much as he does on TA. She even said he was different when they were alone.

He has real issues, that's all I think we all can agree on where as Citric doesn't seem to have much of anything.

I hope he does read this and seeks professional help, it could change his life.


Posted by on Aug-09-2013 20:33:

quote:
Originally posted by srussell0018
Idk about all this being said, but I've had no interaction with Citric whatsoever, and despite me thinking she's an irresponsible pet owner, I don't see her as being super socially awkward or anything. She seems pretty normal in every other regard.

Nou on the other hand...


I doubt she is socially awkward too. She sounds more like a crazy person. I've seen her picture. She has the crazy eyes for sure.

No normal person teases someone for six years like she claims just for fun. That is getting to the level of sickness.


Posted by srussell0018 on Aug-09-2013 20:35:

Some girls think it's fun and harmless to flirt with dudes over the internet. It doesn't really mean anything unless the guy becomes obsessed with her.




Or if she's married with 2 kids.


Posted by citric_acid on Aug-09-2013 20:37:

i never said we werent friends, for the most part we got along quite well online, we just knew how to piss each other off which would start the whole cycle again.


Posted by Desiderata on Aug-09-2013 20:37:

quote:
Originally posted by Nordicist796
I doubt she is socially awkward too. She sounds more like a crazy person. I've seen her picture. She has the crazy eyes for sure.

No normal person teases someone for six years like she claims just for fun. That is getting to the level of sickness.


Did she really admit to teasing him ever? I don't think she teased or flirted with him as much as you think.

No hope, no harm, just another false alarm.


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