TranceAddict Forums (www.tranceaddict.com/forums)
- Chill Out Room
-- Asking a girl you know out
Pages (3): [1] 2 3 »

Asking a girl you know out

I Need some advice from all you "Dr. Love"s out there. There's a girl i've known for a while. I like her a lot and I'm pretty sure that she wants me too, but we're both shy. So I'm going to call her in an hour or so. The question is what to say. I like original stuff Thanks

I've known you for a while. How'd you like it if I started screwing you?

quote:

Originally posted by Mr Kirk I've known you for a while. How'd you like it if I started screwing you?

I forgot to mention that she is *extremely shy*.

Also I just want to ask her out, i don't know her well enough yet.

hey you hungry???
how does lunch/etc. sound.... great i'll pick you up at 3

STAY SINGLE!

you will have more money!

ok...on a serious note

i find asking someone out for coffee (does not qualify as a date in tta's book) is nothing harmful. The worst thing can happen is she can realize what you are up to and say she is not interested but you can gain a good friend out of it. Personally i find that people ask others out when they know so little about the person and the relationship crashes and burns. I also know some serial daters who just date person after person after person. If all else fails...pop the question..worst thing she can say is no. I find that over coffee (north american thing i guess) that you can talk with the person and they can trust you and you can really see if there is something in common. I know it's just tugging at you because you think i want to date this girl but i dunno and the uncertainty bothers you.

quote:

Originally posted by torontotrance i find asking someone out for coffee (does not qualify as a date in tta's book) is nothing harmful. The worst thing can happen is she can realize what you are up to and say she is not interested but you can gain a good friend out of it.

That was pretty much what i had in mind

quote:

Originally posted by torontotrance If all else fails...pop the question..worst thing she can say is no.

Will you marry me? Tried that once with a girl. didn't work

quote:

Originally posted by partyprincess Whatever you do don't say "Would you please go out with me?" lol...

lol

quote:

Will you marry me? Tried that once with a girl. didn't work

i never said pop "THE QUESTION"

i said pop the question of do you want to date me or do you want to go out but partyprincess has said it don't work.

ASK HER IF SHE WANTS TO COME ROUND TO WATCH A VIDEO

quote:

Originally posted by Technaut ASK HER IF SHE WANTS TO COME ROUND TO WATCH A VIDEO

You think I should shout at her?

Better yet I should ask her if she wants to come up and see my stamp collection

quote:

Originally posted by Technaut ASK HER IF SHE WANTS TO COME ROUND TO WATCH A VIDEO

yes tell her about your p0rn-video collection iam sure she will come

ok here is my input...as a girl first dont ask her to watch a video...thats goin to make her think this guy is goin to sleep with me...

i dont know what you are into, but with me the ideal date is not a fancy dancy dinner, been there done that not goin to a club but go to a nice park on a nice summer day have some ice cream, make fun of people and share some great laughs, that way she will think that you are sincere ...hopefully she is not a gold digger and in that case take her to a very fancy dinner

good luck and keep us up to date

indy

You: Hi! I just downloaded my 50th GB of pr0n. You wanna come over and watch/borrow some?
She: WTF!?
You: Oh fuck. Shit. It's you. Eerr.. Hi. Wanna go out or something?



Or you could just borrow a line from www.linesthataregood.com I've used some on my friends, with positive results (hugs)

"If I told you you have a great body, would you hold it against mine?"

Thanks y'all. I just called her but i think her cell phone is off (phew).
Oh and Nicke, I'm not looking for a line but that site is hillarious

You might use it if you're approaching an unknown chick

quote:

Originally posted by Nicke You might use it if you're approaching an unknown chick

those lines are soo CORNY...i dont even know why guys even bother

Ok, some seriousness here:

Just call her, say something like "Hey it's ______, I was wondering if you were interested in (going to a movie/going out to dinner/etc.) with me tonight."

You kinda remind me of me and my very first girlfriend. Both of us were shy as hell back then and neither one of us would 'dare' to make the first move even though we kinda had a feeling that we both liked each other.

This was what we did. We were friends at school and gotten a bit closer and stuff but I knew she was really really shy. I know that she liked me as a good friend and could trust me but beyond that I wasn't too sure. We never went out alone before, so one day we decided to go to the movies. She brought her girlfriend and I brought my best bud (I found out later that he liked her too). This wasn't like a double date or anything, just a get together.

Anyways, during the movie I don't really know what possessed me (since I was really shy) but I asked her to lean over because there was something I wanted to tell her. As she leaned over, and her face was next to mine, I held her face and planted one on her lips.

She just stood there expressionless and was like hmmmmm... We continued to watch the movie and acted like nothing happened. Anyways, after our buddies went home, she called me that night..

Re: Asking a girl you know out

quote:

Originally posted by hangover I Need some advice from all you "Dr. Love"s out there. There's a girl i've known for a while. I like her a lot and I'm pretty sure that she wants me too, but we're both shy. So I'm going to call her in an hour or so. The question is what to say. I like original stuff Thanks

if you like her, depending on how long you have known her, you probably better not ask her out, unless you know you both share mutual feelings. beside, if you have known her for a while, you asking her to go eat lunch or some shit like that, she might think of you still as a friend. but do that anyways, but dont be asking her out every other day or something, you gotta slowly work your way into it. so start talking to her more, but listen to her, dont have all the topics of conversation about you, and then take her out sometimes, and keep doing that, until you think its a good time to ask her out, hope that helps

Just go up to her and tell her the truth, chicks dig that, trust me. It worked for me. Good Luck.

quote:

Originally posted by Trancewave You kinda remind me of me and my very first girlfriend. Both of us were shy as hell back then and neither one of us would 'dare' to make the first move even though we kinda had a feeling that we both liked each other. This was what we did. We were friends at school and gotten a bit closer and stuff but I knew she was really really shy. I know that she liked me as a good friend and could trust me but beyond that I wasn't too sure. We never went out alone before, so one day we decided to go to the movies. She brought her girlfriend and I brought my best bud (I found out later that he liked her too). This wasn't like a double date or anything, just a get together. Anyways, during the movie I don't really know what possessed me (since I was really shy) but I asked her to lean over because there was something I wanted to tell her. As she leaned over, and her face was next to mine, I held her face and planted one on her lips. She just stood there expressionless and was like hmmmmm... We continued to watch the movie and acted like nothing happened. Anyways, after our buddies went home, she called me that night..

aww how cute, sooooo what happened did you two end up going out????????? how can you just end it like that WE WANT TO KNOW

quote:

Originally posted by torontotrance STAY SINGLE! you will have more money!

ive been saying that shit for years

Personally I think that telling a girl that you WANNA GO OUT WITH HER/LIKE HER is one of the worst things you can do. If you want a girl to know that you like her, you should just LET HER FIGURE IT OUT by the fact that you two are getting PHYSICALLY INVOLVED. TELLING HER that you like her is bad cuz it takes the Magic, the Ssuspense, the Mystery and the Sexual Tension out of the situation. it pops the balloon/kills the chemistry. know what i mean

quote:

Originally posted by politcs_of_danc aww how cute, sooooo what happened did you two end up going out????????? how can you just end it like that WE WANT TO KNOW

Part II:

She called me that night and when I picked up the phone I was nervous as hell.
I never had a gf before so I was crapping my pants at this point (god, I wish I wasn't so shy back then )

(WARNING: EXTREMELY CORNY STUFF BELOW!! )

She was like: "Why'd you kiss me in the theatre?"

I didn't know what to say so I acted all sly and shit and was like, "oh I always kiss my friends like that "

She's like "oh really?" and then she rants off about how that kiss may not mean anything to me but to her it was a big deal. So I asked her why it was such a big deal. She didn't want to tell me and tried to avoid the subject, so I told her to cut the cheese and tell me how she felt about me.

And that was when I found out that she liked me too. I was soooo happy, and my heart couldn't stop beating. I really felt like the happiest person on earth. The sun was shining, the birds were singing. I never felt so happy to be alive,yeehaw!! THE END.












We started going out after that and it lasted a whole freakin' month. Thinking back, that was the worst month of my life. Whoever said your first is always your best, well....he/she lied!

hahah...reminds me of good ol' days when i was young.

here's some advice, 1) be cool 2) dont act or be needy 3) play everything off cool 4) even if you really dig the girl, don't show it too soon

as far as "dating"... just ask her to go "hang" out with you. takes away the pressure off a date, which can be oh so awkward and non-social.

>JM<

quote:

Originally posted by Mr Kirk I've known you for a while. How'd you like it if I started screwing you?

trust me it works
but you have to replace screwing with fucking

Powered by: vBulletin
Copyright © 2000-2021, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.