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Posted by eye_03 on Jul-31-2003 06:40:

Seriously Asking a Girl Out..

hello ladies and gents. there is a girl whom i know who i have had my eye on for quite sometime now. we met in English class (which blew chunks) and we exchanged each others email adresses. we also signed each others yearbooks, each writing our phone numbers in them. recently, ( 1 day ago ) we went to see a movie, as friends. now, i would really like to ask her out, and i'd like to do it in a way that is cool and confident, not hoping she will date me out of pity.
i have thought of one scenario. she told me she was single about a month ago. to my knowledge i think she still is single. my plan is:

the next time we do something i shall be all like "hey are you still single" and she will be all like "yes/no". if no, i shall say "good for you". if yes, i shall be all like "how would you like to not be single anymore, and date me?"

corny maybe, but hopefully it will work. i would appreciate any advice anybody could give me. as well, all the girls on TA please respond, as your input is Key!

edit/update: for those of you who dont wanna scroll down, she has a bf

Posted by occrider on Jul-31-2003 06:49:

Girls are not so dumb ... if she says yes than you can just ask her out to dinner or to go out and she'll get the idea. No need to be captain obvious about it. Subtelty goes a long way.

Posted by Photo_bot_2k1 on Jul-31-2003 06:49:

take out the McDonalds part

Posted by bassaholix on Jul-31-2003 06:51:

Walk up to her, smile and say..

"hey wats up... would like like to go out with me [insert TIME PLACE WHATEVER]

None of this oh im so cool shit.. cause she will sense if from a mile away...

And don't ask her if she is still single.. cause by asking her out you will get the info... and if she goes "ohhh you mean like on a date..."

Say.. "sure why not..."

Thats how to play it cool...

None of this crap ok! and if she doesn't like simplicity then she's stuck up!... lol

Posted by eye_03 on Jul-31-2003 07:20:

well, we've already gone to a movie, as friends. so if i ask her, "yeah wanna do this, that, then etc." she may think that it'll be on the same terms as teh first time. therefor if i make a move then, it'll creep her out because she may still think we're on a "friends level". so i gotta make it a little obvious..know what i mean?

Posted by zummy on Jul-31-2003 07:29:

Take her to Subeez Cafe on Homer and Smith for dinner!!! sorry, i just love to go there all the time.

Posted by J.L. on Jul-31-2003 08:28:

NONONO!!!
Don't talk to her or phone her

instead, write her a letter and send it to her mailbox mentioning how she's "the shit" and treat her to an expensive restaurant such as mcdonalds or dairy queen...

she will fall in love with you... trust me... it works, already tested out and TA-approved

Posted by Resnick on Jul-31-2003 08:33:

quote:
Originally posted by kewlness
NONONO!!!
Don't talk to her or phone her

instead, write her a letter and send it to her mailbox mentioning how she's "the shit" and treat her to an expensive restaurant such as mcdonalds or dairy queen...

she will fall in love with you... trust me... it works, already tested out and TA-approved

lol something tells me this will never die...i sweaer in like 30 years ill have forgotten about ta altogether but somehow ill still remember this..(btw u forgot that to write a letter like that u must be 25+)

anyways i say just keep asking her out as friends and see if she seems interested..try doing it with just the two of you and see where it goes, if she likes you then things will work themselves out

Posted by davinox on Jul-31-2003 08:37:

man dawg, the key to pimping bitches be simple.!

1) Be like "Bitch...u fly." Keep flaunting the blinage, she'll know you're a balluh!
2) Rent a nice car, Lex, Rolls, Cadellac, Accord LX... Drive up and say "MANNN SHEEIIT. Can a playa like me get some fine pussy to hop in dis here fly ass whip?"
3) Playa, you gots to be workin that ass. She bend over for ANY reason, you best slap that ass. It's mandatory.
4) Ask for her mama's number too, she might be fly.

Posted by montie on Jul-31-2003 08:45:

stop thinking about it so much and stop listening to the losers who post here all the fucking time

just be yourself and don't tell yourself to be yourself

Posted by bettsy on Jul-31-2003 08:45:

Davinox:
Thats the way to do it !

Posted by eye_03 on Jul-31-2003 09:12:

what about my orig. idea? ill probably use that one. ladies, do you approve?

Posted by Billabong on Jul-31-2003 09:35:

Best way to ask out a girl, is get to know how for a week or so, then by spending lots of time with her, you can get to know what she is really like, then if you are getting on well, just ask her out, going to see a film of some sort usually works, as does going to a resturant a bit before the film.

Knowing what kind of person you are before they go into a relationship is a big bonus, i got to know my girlfriend for a week before i asked her out, so i got to know a lot more about her, which helped by making things more comfortable, as there is no, getting to know you, over dinner.

Worked for me, been going out with my girlfriend for nearly a year now.

Posted by eye_03 on Jul-31-2003 09:42:

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

AHHAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

SHE HAD A BF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OH GOD IM SO ANGRY

WHY CANT DECENT GUYS GET WOMEN.!!!!!!?????

THE CHICKS ALWAYS GO FOR ASSES

edit: they've been dating for 2.5 weeks.. what the hell is this shit?

Posted by astroboy on Jul-31-2003 10:15:

quote:
Originally posted by eye_03
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

AHHAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

SHE HAD A BF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OH GOD IM SO ANGRY

WHY CANT DECENT GUYS GET WOMEN.!!!!!!?????

THE CHICKS ALWAYS GO FOR ASSES

edit: they've been dating for 2.5 weeks.. what the hell is this shit?

He who hesitates is lost... next time don't think so much just act... You sound like a reasonably intelligent chap so the probability of making a fool of yourself is quite low...

My condolances

Posted by ZxZDeViLZxZ on Jul-31-2003 11:24:

whatcha do is this aks her if she is into anal then ask her if she likes to be chained up then ask her if she wants to be chained up and do anal but you have to do it slightly sarcasticly and slgihtly serious if it works well either a youll get laid and ahve a new friend or b shell laugh and just shrug it off either way ill give you 20bux if you do it

Posted by Clyde77 on Jul-31-2003 13:32:

dude PM me for some girls

Posted by butterfly on Jul-31-2003 13:51:

why dont you just hang out with her more often as friends. if something develops for both of you you will know it.

Posted by Thierry on Jul-31-2003 14:45:

quote:
Originally posted by butterfly
why dont you just hang out with her more often as friends. if something develops for both of you you will know it.

Butterfly, I don't think that's a great idea because it seems like he's trying to create something with her while she has a bf and his feelings will prolly get stronger for her while she still has a bf and there's no guarantee they'll break up quickly or anything.

Sorry to hear about your loss, bro... hesitation is a bitch. Everyone has to learn the hard way though. You know now to not wait next time the opportunity comes up. I think you should just continue to be her friend and that's it... if she becomes single again, then think about this at that time... or you can take Davinox's suggestion hahaha

Posted by Eugene on Jul-31-2003 15:14:

eye_03, I'm not at all surprised.. "cute" girls are usually not available. Keep in mind there are hundreds of guys who'd like to date them.

You shouldn't have gotten your hopes up
On the other hand you're still so young, girls your age don't know what the fuck they want. Hell, even at my age (23) they still have no fucking clue. On the other hand it's easier to bed them because they're no longer "high school virgins."

Posted by Orbax on Jul-31-2003 16:04:

Don't send the letter

Posted by eye_03 on Jul-31-2003 18:40:

ahrg! plus, she said the longest she's ever had a relashionship was 2 months.. so thats good news, yet also bad. what i could do is stick around for her, and if this guy breaks up or beats her or some shit, then i can be all like "its okay" and get her right there

but Argh! and my friend said he knew.. and didnt tell me !!...what a waste of $9 (good thing we went on tuesday)

Posted by eye_03 on Jul-31-2003 18:41:

quote:
Originally posted by Orbax
Don't send the letter

this isnt that thread. its a new, improved, helping me out thread. on the other hand, i could write a letter, definetly much better than the one that guy wrote in that other thread.

Posted by Clyde77 on Jul-31-2003 18:57:

eye_03 u seem very good at this. write a letter! i want to see

Posted by eye_03 on Jul-31-2003 19:07:

quote:
Originally posted by Clyde77
eye_03 u seem very good at this. write a letter! i want to see

..maybe sent it with some roses

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