To grind or not to grind, that is the question!

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Posted by ++ EGO ++ on Jul-31-2003 17:10:

To grind or not to grind, that is the question!

What do you guys think about grinding (however it may be) to trance?
Guy - Girl contact in general.
In clubs or wherever trance flows. This would be an interesting topic if we all state how we feel about it and such... As long as we don't start destroying eachother, and so, I leave it up to you guys to tell your opinions!

PS> I'll state my opinion later on... but it won't change depending on the outcome of this!

Posted by Pyromancer224 on Jul-31-2003 17:13:

with random people - no
with your bf/gf - sure why not

would i do it? mm i dunno depends i suppose
trance doesnt really go with grinding though

Posted by beatjunkie on Jul-31-2003 17:15:

I think it looks so out of place. When everyone is facing the DJ and dancing to the music and you see some sleezy couple grinding in the middle of the floor you just want to tell them to take it to Plastique or some other pick up bar.... my opinon.

Posted by E2EK1EL on Jul-31-2003 17:19:

Grinding look stupid with any music!

Itika will show them NO MERCY!

Posted by AmbiguousBliss on Jul-31-2003 17:23:

I know that for some females, trance parties and such appeal to them more because of the absence of random guys coming up to them and trying to release pent-up energy against their ass or their crotch.

When it comes to this subject, I fall under the category of "some females".

Grinding + Trance =

Posted by Durafei on Jul-31-2003 17:29:

Well, grinding would certainly be out of place at Trance parties.. I can't imagine grinding to the fast beat. Seems weird.

Doing massages(while high, or otherwise) to a girl or receiving one seems more appropriate at a trance party.

Posted by ~*AngelsEyes*~ on Jul-31-2003 17:42:

Grinding + Trance = NO WAY iN HELL
Just cant picture it

Posted by ++ EGO ++ on Jul-31-2003 18:02:

My opinion...

I believe it is something that is possible and should not be approached in an appalling manner.
First of all, to see that a certain individual is interested in dancing with you should not be treated as a negative remark.
Then there is this problem with grinding to �trance�, well, I believe that there is no problem there at all. The only reason you can not picture it is because you have not seen it being done nor have you done it yourself. Personally, I have tried this before and it works just great�if not better. Both individuals are into the music and dancing passionately, this is something to work for.
I�m not talking about simplistic minded people trying to grind for the simple pleasures; I�m discussing this on a higher level. It�s truly a great experience which you would be surprised to take part of.
Should it matter that a couple of people are grinding on the side or between the crowds? I thought that once you go to a trance club, it wouldn�t have to matter how you�re dancing and people would just accept you for whoever you are and/or whatever you do. I�m not saying that I would want to take privilege of this in any way�Just that grinding could perhaps influence something more �lively� and perhaps an easier way of meeting people...

By the way, I don't know about most guys these days but I always act upon the girl's desires, and so I would ask if she wants to dance first...If she does, great...If she doesn't, I thank her anyway and move on (which doesn't happen often )

Posted by TranceKitten on Jul-31-2003 18:06:

No..I don't think it's appropriate nor does it go with the beats. LOL

Posted by The Highroller on Jul-31-2003 18:09:

Do I care if other people do it? No.
Would I do it? No.
If my girlfriend wanted me to, would I still refuse? Yes.

Posted by loca on Jul-31-2003 18:11:

With the boyfriend: yes
Anyone else: hell no!

Same goes for him... if he started griding with some random girl i'd probably be pissed.

**edit**
make that: i would be pissed

Posted by nismodreams on Jul-31-2003 18:11:

negative

Posted by Rocco on Jul-31-2003 18:12:

provitex.. since when gay ppl dance with chicks?

dewd.. are u sure it was a chick?
ur an abomination on ur gay nation.. u should burn in gay hell.

Posted by charmscars on Jul-31-2003 18:21:

quote:
Originally posted by ShAwZy
I think it looks so out of place. When everyone is facing the DJ and dancing to the music and you see some sleezy couple grinding in the middle of the floor you just want to tell them to take it to Plastique or some other pick up bar.... my opinon.

word to that

Posted by StereoPrincess on Jul-31-2003 18:24:

quote:
Originally posted by LoCa
Same goes for him... if he started griding with some random girl i'd probably be pissed.

**edit**
make that: i would be pissed

Really?? I would have never guessed.

As for grinding, the word itself has a pretty bad conatation for me. Like when I picture grinding, I picture this nasty filthy rubbing all over, pretty much having sex with clothes on. And this I find disgusting to see anywhere. I have seen my share of this in the old days of partying in Montreal. But dancing with a guy is much different. I think that if the girl and guy know each other and can both dance well it actually can look very good.

I hate when these cracked out couples are falling all over the place and knocking everyone around them cuz their eyes are closed and they are majorly fucked up.

Posted by Horatio on Jul-31-2003 18:33:

going up and grinding w/ random people - no. this is tasteless regardless of the musical selection. i hate having to pretend to be the bf after some sleazebag decides to hump a friend's leg.

couples grinding - hey, whatever floats your boat...as long as you keep those pants on.

i personally don't do it. but then i'm not exactly big on the PDAs to begin with.

cheers

h

Posted by ~*AngelsEyes*~ on Jul-31-2003 18:34:

Posted by Endlesswave on Jul-31-2003 18:41:

Noooooo. I've seen it (at system soundbar) but it wasn't on the dancefloor, was up against some pole and I doubt it was a g/f and b/f kind of thing. Just didn't look like it. Besides grinding at a tranceclub is crap. Even when not at a club like that I won't do it. Tried with a friend for fun and was so drunk I ended up falling on my ass (good thing it was away from the dancefloor!) lol

Posted by ryanm on Jul-31-2003 18:47:

I can see why people would want to do it.

If you're both connected at a certain level (i.e bf/gf) and you both enjoy the music, then you can feed off each others energy. Trance music is full of energy as is love and I believe that if you merge both of these energies together, you would have a completely euphoric experience.

But I believe that most people who 'grind' are not doing it for the reasons I stated above.

Posted by dEsidEL on Jul-31-2003 18:48:

i've made out at parties before .. never grinded tho ..

Posted by ++ EGO ++ on Jul-31-2003 18:51:

quote:
Originally posted by Rocco
provitex.. since when gay ppl dance with chicks?

dewd.. are u sure it was a chick?
ur an abomination on ur gay nation.. u should burn in gay hell.

I'm not sure if I should say something to this or ignore your remark Rocco...

But anyways, I said that I didn't want this to become some sorta mud-slinging thread... You've always been on my case with me being gay get over yourself!

To draw you a better picture...
<-----------------I AM NOT GAY!

Posted by Resnick on Jul-31-2003 18:54:

id have to say no as well, the two just dont mix.

Posted by The Highroller on Jul-31-2003 18:54:

quote:
Originally posted by Rocco
provitex.. since when gay ppl dance with chicks?

Whenever the fuck they want to.

Posted by dEsidEL on Jul-31-2003 18:55:

quote:
Originally posted by The Highroller
Whenever the fuck they want to.

juss had to insert the word "fuck" in there for added strength eh ?

Posted by loca on Jul-31-2003 18:56:

quote:
Originally posted by StereoPrincess
Really?? I would have never guessed.

i thought i wouldn't make it too obvious. lol

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