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so i had a bad breakup and i got real upset, blah blah blah... and now i have decided i just dont want to speak to him anymore, i dont want to remember he exists. it hurts a lot.

and i see him everywhere (online). him and his gf have recently decided to start postwhoring on the board i frequent. (when i say frequent, i mean i have 80-100 posts per day). and it pisses me off so much. i think this is probably stupid cause his gf's posts are actually interesting sometimes but i dont want to remember they exist. should i say something to them or just keep it bottled up? i feel like my rage over it is compeltely uncalled for and no one wants to hear me bitch.

but i just feel like it's really hard to forget someone exists when they just wont go away...

ex's are one of the worst things, cos u can control your own feelings to a level, you can't theirs

just frequent ta even more

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Originally posted by Ian^ just frequent ta even more

i think that is a good solution.

Butterfly - ur pretty

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Originally posted by butterfly i think that is a good solution.

stupid as it sounds, when I split with my gf, i just whored ta, some days posted 50-100 a day lol, but it helped me and just posting random shit, having a laugh, it did a ton for me

or come join the ukta in #ukta on irc.webchat.org :P its random there too

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Originally posted by FunkySimon or stop posting so much and go out and find a new boyfriend!

harsh

if you've been in a long relationship, sometimes u just don't wanna go out find sum1 else, not every1 rebounds

What ever you do dont lission to Creep by Radiohead.

"i want a perfect body i want a perfect soul, i want you to notice when am not around"

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Originally posted by FunkySimon or stop posting so much and go out and find a new boyfriend!

i have a new bf and we are having problems and it is feeding my insecurity issues.

lumps.... awww.... thx. *blushes*

^ian - irc might be a baaad idea for me but maybe i should start venturing into the uk forum more... you guys are entertaining...

get drunk and post shit there (and here)

butterfly, come over here ill give u a hug... im currently playing sasha - wavy gravy ill dedicate this one to you hope u feel better.

I guess Im one of the lucky ones who doesnt have fucked up in the head ex's

im lucky that I dont have ex's either. after Im done breakin up with them they dont EXist anymore? hoho hohohohohohohohoho. No, the great thing about being evil is that when you see them again, (ive actually done this before) and someone introduces you, you stick your hand out and say "diana? Nice to meet you" and leave fuckin icicles on their hand YEEHAW.

my theory is id rather be the one givin the misery than receiving it.

of course im also sadistic, and that gives me pleasure...sexually. haha ah just a little S&M humor for you there. but really.... who gives a shit...wait. never mind no one ever understands how I can erase memory and emotion...its hard being a decepticon whoa , i meant to type a cry face and that popped out without thinking...good old freud

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Originally posted by ThaDevil I guess Im one of the lucky ones who doesnt have fucked up in the head ex's

Non of my ex`s can say that

my ex is insane. she might try to kill me.

but I know, you see them everywhere and it sucks....

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Originally posted by ThaDevil I guess Im one of the lucky ones who doesnt have fucked up in the head ex's

You really are the lucky one.

Funny because those 'fucked in the head ex's' were actually one's bfs/gfs before! Sucks to see whom one was actually dating with!

2 weeks ago, I lost my cell phone and couldn't call the girl I'm currently seeing (who lives in another city) so she called the police to come look for me.


I think she's getting put on waivers.


+1 to my list of ex's.

All my ex's are ugly. I REALLY need to raise my standards a little.

Don't let it bother you so much, move on.

Re: ex's

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Originally posted by butterfly so i had a bad breakup and i got real upset, blah blah blah... and now i have decided i just dont want to speak to him anymore, i dont want to remember he exists. it hurts a lot.

i feel for ya ...i just had a big breakup too .. ithinks tis the season .. alotta breakup goin round around me

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Originally posted by butterfly i have a new bf and we are having problems and it is feeding my insecurity issues.

I'm so flattered, I had no idea!

my response:

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Originally posted by Orbax omg hi2u do u like anal *sends PM asking A/S/L *sends another PM assuring that im not a stalker *sends another PM saying i didnt mean to use the word stalker i know that scares people *sends another PM not that i am *sends another PM you dont have to respond to me *sends another PM but you should *sends another PM not that I am telling you what to do *sends another PM unless you want me to *sends another PM with pics of self and cell phone number *sends another PM saying you should visit *sends another PM saying were getting too serious *sends another PM ITS NOT YOU ITS ME *sends another PM We need some time away from eachother

so as you can see it would a bad idea

Seriously though ex situations can be messy. At least no children are involved.

Re: ex's

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Originally posted by butterfly so i had a bad breakup and i got real upset, blah blah blah... and now i have decided i just dont want to speak to him anymore, i dont want to remember he exists. it hurts a lot. and i see him everywhere (online). him and his gf have recently decided to start postwhoring on the board i frequent. (when i say frequent, i mean i have 80-100 posts per day). and it pisses me off so much. i think this is probably stupid cause his gf's posts are actually interesting sometimes but i dont want to remember they exist. should i say something to them or just keep it bottled up? i feel like my rage over it is compeltely uncalled for and no one wants to hear me bitch. but i just feel like it's really hard to forget someone exists when they just wont go away...

they will go away when you make them go away.
just take a break from your usual boards. theres better stuff to do then post messages all day (like all of us pathetic people )

keep yourself occupied with other stuff that you find self satisfying. go on walks, think, just sit around and listen to music. read. or whatever things you like to do by yourself.

i find spinning to be my fav. past time. whenever something is bothering me, i just hit the decks and hammer out track after track, just listening to the music.

after a big relationship break up, more stuff in your life changes than just hte person you spend most of your time with. its definatly best to put hte person in the past and just ignore him and other people that have to do with him (his new gf).
so spend some more time with yourself, find new things to do and places to hang out (like TA instead of whatever board you were at ). theres no point in going to the same place where you know you will see something from him or that reminds you of him that makes you feel sad. don't waste your time being depressed about him. spend your time learning from the past and moving on and enjoying your time.

you said you already had a new bf ?
i don' t know how long it has been since you broke up with this other dude, but if you are still upset about your ex it seems like you shouldn't be tied down again. you should be single for a while. hanging out with yourself and discovering more about you.

i was in your position before, so i know how you feel. the only thing that is worse is when your ex finds another girlfriend and you have to whitness it, i don't know how that is, but i can imagine. you shouldn't have to leave the board you post at just because they are there, though. do you want me to beat them up? :\

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Originally posted by Aya Brea i was in your position before, so i know how you feel. the only thing that is worse is when your ex finds another girlfriend and you have to whitness it, i don't know how that is, but i can imagine. you shouldn't have to leave the board you post at just because they are there, though. do you want me to beat them up? :\

fufr = fifr = fufr z- = DUDE
dude. there are totallu what...uhm....ghost in the shell tits in hour posts? i dunno. i hpoie so. wait.. poiints is!~ illhelpyou beat them up

I had a big breakup too. We've only been apart for 3 weeks & she's found a dude & is living with him already. I think it's sad how she can go from being with me for 2 years to living with some guy just like that. I'm still sad, but I don't think I'd want to be with somebody like that. I hate being depressed.

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Originally posted by DJ Freestyle I had a big breakup too. We've only been apart for 3 weeks & she's found a dude & is living with him already. I think it's sad how she can go from being with me for 2 years to living with some guy just like that. I'm still sad, but I don't think I'd want to be with somebody like that. I hate being depressed.

He is most likely of the phenomenon I have heard women talk of known as "rebound guy".

He won't last and she will lash out at him cause he is that.

At least that is how it was explained to me by a couple of actresses I had dinner with between shows when I was in college.

MrS

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