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Posted by chrismack on Sep-19-2003 22:15:

Gay TAs Redux

Hey. I'm a gay TA, and absolutely love this forum for meeting new people who love trance music.

A while back, I posted a thread that invited any gay TAs (and those who love 'em) to let me know if there was any interest in developing a sub-group of the TAs who might either be gay, or be cool with the whole gay thing. (I thought it would be fun to have other gay trance fans to hang with at events).

The response surprised me in that it was incredibly positive and totally cool (I even ended up with a number of new friends.)

I wanted to keep the concept alive... So, if you are gay, bi, curious, or straight, and are interested in meeting some new people and possibly hanging out in a gay positive way (god, I hate this whole political correct crap, and yet... here I am spouting it) Let me know.

I promise we're not total freaks (despite the above paragraph).

LOL

Chris

Posted by DigDeep on Sep-19-2003 22:22:

See this is why gay people confuse me. First they want everyone to treat them like heterosexuals, and then they go and try to seperate themselves from the rest of the community (in this case the TA community). Personally, i have no problems with gay people at all and dont see why you'd want to reduce yourself to just the gay TA community when obviously youve been welcomed with open arms!?!?

Posted by Vivid Boy on Sep-19-2003 22:52:

the other question on everyones mind is are u into animals too?

Posted by DigDeep on Sep-19-2003 22:56:

I sense a flame coming real real soon.........

Posted by Vivid Boy on Sep-19-2003 22:57:

quote:
Originally posted by TECHno addict
I sense a flame coming real real soon.........

me too...but someone had to pick up pp's slack..im just taking one for the team man

Posted by Fir3start3r on Sep-19-2003 22:59:

I'm just wondering about the Redux?

Nothing against gay people but they're just people too...
Should I create a "Heterosexual TAs" thread?

Posted by Vivid Boy on Sep-19-2003 23:00:

im gonna start a half naked wearing towels and scissors ta thread

Posted by DigDeep on Sep-19-2003 23:20:

quote:
Originally posted by Fir3start3r
I'm just wondering about the Redux?

Nothing against gay people but they're just people too...
Should I create a "Heterosexual TAs" thread?

Thats kinda what i was getting at with my thread too.

Posted by Matt on Sep-19-2003 23:56:

meh, why do we need a sub group of TOTAs who are gay.. TOTA doesn't have anything against gays or lesbians, and we welcome just about everyone into the group!

Posted by Skipper on Sep-20-2003 00:08:

quote:
Originally posted by Mosaic
TOTA doesn't have anything against gays or lesbians, and we welcome just about everyone into the group!

Speak for yourself...the number of ignorant responses I got about Pride weekend was indicative that no, TOTA as a whole is not accepting of everyone.

Posted by Vivid Boy on Sep-20-2003 00:12:

damn straight...i say gay ta's on one side of the room the rest on the other...

*me points to the other side of the room and giggles*

edit: im on the straight side of the room cause i know someone was gonna make a stupid comment on the fact that ididnt specify what side i was on

Posted by Arsondude2.0 on Sep-20-2003 00:26:

Umm i dont mean to sound rude. BUt like gay positive places or groups or friends is a great idea and i hate when so called "straight people" say why divide yourself and segragate (cant spell) yourself. And have comment like "I dont get gay people". FUCK U And i say that in the nicest way.

Im gay and would love to hang out with gay peeps because theres no judgement or restrictions. I went to Lotus on a staight ghetto night and i felt so out of place and hate a horrible time.

Anyway chrismack count me in as a "gay TA" as you put it.

Lots of love,
To anyone
Bobby

Posted by DaksGT on Sep-20-2003 00:33:

quote:
Originally posted by Vivid Boy
im gonna start a half naked wearing towels and scissors ta thread

I'm so in, all about the Nikolodean safety. Mad tite y0

Posted by Matt on Sep-20-2003 00:59:

quote:
Originally posted by Skipper
Speak for yourself...the number of ignorant responses I got about Pride weekend was indicative that no, TOTA as a whole is not accepting of everyone.

weiners they be

Posted by Vivid Boy on Sep-20-2003 03:18:

quote:
Originally posted by Arsondude2.0
Umm i dont mean to sound rude. BUt like gay positive places or groups or friends is a great idea and i hate when so called "straight people" say why divide yourself and segragate (cant spell) yourself. And have comment like "I dont get gay people". FUCK U And i say that in the nicest way.

Im gay and would love to hang out with gay peeps because theres no judgement or restrictions. I went to Lotus on a staight ghetto night and i felt so out of place and hate a horrible time.

Anyway chrismack count me in as a "gay TA" as you put it.

Lots of love,
To anyone
Bobby

im not anti gay buwhy the fuck do u feel out of place...are u human? why must ppl break into different groups? what the fuck for? cause ur like this person or that? guess what every single mother****** is diffferent so make ur group and be the only member in that case... like fuck im fuckin drunk right now u dont see me making a drunkin ta thread where all the drunks can get together and feel confortable...u wanna fell comfortable kill urself thats the only way ull ever feel comfortable in this world...this world is not suppode to be comfortable its suppose to be uncomfortable so u can prove what type of person u are...and what u had to do to make urself feel comfortable...if this world was comfortable there would be no reason for an afterlife....but fuck it these are my views...drunkin views but still my views...

ps FUCK YOU TOO

ps what i really dont understand about ghays is that ifu get along so well with women why dont u find them attractive? theyre the most beautiful things on planet earth...such smooth curves..beautiful and sweet i dont understand u guys...i think men have the ugliest body ever...hair everywhere a fuckin extra myscle that looks fuckin nasty...bah i need another beer....

Posted by jon jon on Sep-20-2003 03:25:

I don't see the problem, Liam and I would love to join your little group.

Posted by Fir3start3r on Sep-20-2003 04:05:

quote:
Originally posted by Arsondude2.0
Umm i dont mean to sound rude. BUt like gay positive places or groups or friends is a great idea and i hate when so called "straight people" say why divide yourself and segragate (cant spell) yourself.

I think that was started with the creation of the thread...

I myself don't see gay TAs, straight TAs, etc. etc.
I see people who love the music regardless of religion, creed or sex.

One ja!

Dig it?

Posted by vtec junkie on Sep-20-2003 08:03:

quote:
Originally posted by Vivid Boy
im not anti gay buwhy the fuck do u feel out of place...are u human? why must ppl break into different groups? what the fuck for? cause ur like this person or that? guess what every single mother****** is diffferent so make ur group and be the only member in that case... like fuck im fuckin drunk right now u dont see me making a drunkin ta thread where all the drunks can get together and feel confortable...u wanna fell comfortable kill urself thats the only way ull ever feel comfortable in this world...this world is not suppode to be comfortable its suppose to be uncomfortable so u can prove what type of person u are...and what u had to do to make urself feel comfortable...if this world was comfortable there would be no reason for an afterlife....but fuck it these are my views...drunkin views but still my views...

ps FUCK YOU TOO

ps what i really dont understand about ghays is that ifu get along so well with women why dont u find them attractive? theyre the most beautiful things on planet earth...such smooth curves..beautiful and sweet i dont understand u guys...i think men have the ugliest body ever...hair everywhere a fuckin extra myscle that looks fuckin nasty...bah i need another beer....

Vivid Boy...please edit your post when your sober so we can understand what the fuck you just said.

Posted by djshan on Sep-20-2003 08:47:

im not gay, never was and never will. yes im aginst someone who wants to be gay with me. but im not against someone who is gay with someone else, but if u are, please make sure i dont see you bcuz i swear i will get sick and i wont be able to have sex with a women anymore. i hope no offense is taken, if so, im sorry, but i just dont want to become ill. thank you, appreciate it.

Posted by j_spot on Sep-20-2003 09:27:

I met you and 'some guy'*I dont remember his name* @ Labour of Love. And I was enjoying myself while hanging out with you two..then came the 'lets go check out so and so because hes cute'

then it hit me..you guys were gay.
and guess what?
It didnt matter. Straight, gay, bi, whatever..you were fun to hang out with, so Id do it again.(unless you thought I was a total wank, but you know what I mean)

but..I wont be planning anything. I just never do. not bias, just no planning @ all.
however good luck, and Vividboy can *pardon the phrase* eat a cock.

Posted by Tordan on Sep-20-2003 10:12:

quote:
Originally posted by dj_moonshine
im not gay, never was and never will. yes im aginst someone who wants to be gay with me. but im not against someone who is gay with someone else, but if u are, please make sure i dont see you bcuz i swear i will get sick and i wont be able to have sex with a women anymore. i hope no offense is taken, if so, im sorry, but i just dont want to become ill. thank you, appreciate it.

Dude.. don't you think that's pretty harsh? You must have talked to or just walked by 100s of gay ppl and not even known that they were gay. You weren't "ill" then were you? At first I was baffled by the whole notion of homosexuality but then I was thinking.. I like being with women and they like being with their own sex. So what's the big bloody deal? As long as it makes them happy it ain't gonna bother me or make me "ill" for that matter. The world is what you make of it buddy and if you're gonna let a stupid issue like this bother you then I pity you.

Posted by Rocco on Sep-20-2003 13:55:

ok Rocco's final thoughts b4 flames happen and the police ends up closing it.

so my finaly thoughts are that the community in which we abide by, the scene, the culture and ofcourse the music.. it's where straights and gays and bi's can co-exhist without many conflicts. Conflicts of freedeom, feelings and ideas. We are there for a specefic reason and it's to embrass not only our sexuality but rather our taste of music and the ideas behind the scene.
In other words, in electronica, in general, the suporters of such scenes end up not judging the ppl by the colour of their skin or their sexual orientation but rather by the contribution he or she put in the scene. Support by going to parties, buying the music or even becoming Djs and producers.

ok, u can now close this thread after the flames go off mr police :P

Posted by samhouse on Sep-20-2003 17:29:

Posted by samhouse on Sep-20-2003 17:31:

quote:

ps what i really dont understand about ghays is that ifu get along so well with women why dont u find them attractive? theyre the most beautiful things on planet earth...such smooth curves..beautiful and sweet i dont understand u guys...i think men have the ugliest body ever...hair everywhere a fuckin extra myscle that looks fuckin nasty...bah i need another beer....

:/
that can be answered with a bit of research.
its a good question..hope you find your answer...

Posted by samhouse on Sep-20-2003 17:34:

as a person who regularly frequents BOTH scenes...gay and straight and enjoys BOTH. (Strictly music wise here people). i will point out that ive noticed in the last few months that more and more people from "both" cultures are willing to come out to a straight club (if theyre gay) or gay club (if theyre straight) simpley for the music. this is just a casual observation and i for one am glad to see minds awakening...

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