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girls making the first moves?
ok..seems like this forum is well known for some advice..so here it goes:
frankly, i'am a girl that follows the normal standards...girl waits for the guy to make the first move. here is the situation, my friends (which are a couple) are trying to set me up with this kid..i know him from high school. i don't really know him that well since he was a grade ahead of me. so anyways, this labor day, we all went out to our beach house down the shore. this kid and i clicked instantly...it was a really great night...nothing out of the ordinary happened (eg hooked up or anything). we basically were at each other's side the whole night at the club..we danced, had great conversations and even cuddled...i was very impressed that he respected me as a woman and didn't pushed me to hook up with him. anyways, that was that..now weeks later, my friends that are trying to hook me up with him are still trying..we had several attempted plans to hang out but never works out for some reason 
something usually comes up and we end up not hanging out (the four of us) sooo...here i'am, sitting waiting!!!!!!! i'am contemplating if i should just be impulsive and ask my friend for his number and call him??? or just wait until the four of us will make up our damm minds and finally hang out again??????? i don't know what to do..and ooo, this kid is shy..my friends say so and i got the impression aswell...so maybe i should grab my imaginary balls and call him to hang out????? I NEED SOME ADVICE PRONTO!!!!
yaya
indy
Re: girls making the first moves?
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| Originally posted by politicsofdancin ok..seems like this forum is well known for some advice..so here it goes: frankly, i'am a girl that follows the normal standards...girl waits for the guy to make the first move. here is the situation, my friends (which are a couple) are trying to set me up with this kid..i know him from high school. i don't really know him that well since he was a grade ahead of me. so anyways, this labor day, we all went out to our beach house down the shore. this kid and i clicked instantly...it was a really great night...nothing out of the ordinary happened eg hooked up or anything. we basically were at each other's side the whole night at the club..we danced, had great conversations and even cuddled...i was very impressed that he respected me as a woman and didn't pushed me to hook up with him. anyways, that was that..now weeks later, my friends that are trying to hook me up with him are still trying..we several plans to hang out but never works out for some reason something usually comes up and we end up not hanging out (the four of us) sooo...here i'am, sitting waiting!!!!!!! i'am contemplating if i should just be impulsive and ask my friend for his number and call him??? or just wait until the four of us will make up our damm minds and finally hang out again??????? i don't know what to do..and ooo, this kid is shy..my friends say so and i got the impression aswell...so maybe i should grab my imaginary balls and call him to hang out????? I NEED SOME ADVICE PRONTO!!!! yaya indy |
YesYesYes indy lady, do it. Fuck it, just be bold.
i think you should blatently ring him up if u both like eachother.
he aint exactly gonna have a pop at you over the phone is he? and even if he does, plenty more....
Personally, i much prefer it when the woman makes the first move. I never know when someone likes me, so it's generally a good thing to be asked 
Call him. 
Just like the Nike slogan:
JUST DO IT
Go for it!
Oh, and also, pics or STFU! 
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| Oh, and also, pics or STFU! |
Go, go, go, go, go!!!!!
Keep these 3 sentences in mind:
1) Nothing falls from the sky
2) Drink the milk before it's sour
3) Drink the falls before it milks
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| Originally posted by armandzadza Go for it! Oh, and also, pics or STFU! |
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| Originally posted by Maaz Go, go, go, go, go!!!!! Keep these 3 sentences in mind: 1) Nothing falls from the sky 2) Drink the milk before it's sour 3) Drink the falls before it milks |
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| Originally posted by politicsofdancin wtf??? haha that's me in my avatar..anyways, so far everyone been saying to go for it hehe thanks so far for the great advice... |
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| Originally posted by You aint Ninja 4) Asshair is there for a reason, therefore they shall not be removed. |
if you guys already hung out and cuddled consider it to be a pseudo-quasi-relationship. If you wont hang out with him without your friends that may seem like you dont like him. In all reality, women SHOULD be the ones to make the first move. Guys have no idea if a girl likes them, girls... you have a vagina right? you do? Ok we like you. Give a nigga a break!
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| Originally posted by politicsofdancin girls making the first moves? |
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| Originally posted by politicsofdancin ok..seems like this forum is well known for some advice.. |
To put it mildly, grow some balls.
But don't try getting too close right away, that tends to scare us guys away.
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| Originally posted by DaveSaenz OMGHI2U!!!!! Don't send the letter. |
Try it. Even if he refuses, it is better to try and fail than to not try at all.
NO! Don't even think about calling him!! Just keep on sitting on your ass like you've done so far!
tsk tsk tsk
cease the day!
carpe diem?
cease = seize
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| Originally posted by Orbax cease = seize |
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