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Posted by narcism on Sep-28-2003 13:29:

Just to clear a few things up...

I just need to make this thread to let all u guys and girls aware of a few things...
although its common knowledge between a lot of people now, but i think after an awkward weekend that I need to tell u all that there is no longer a "phil and jolene"

I understand your concern for the both of us as a few of us are/were our friends. But i dont want to answer ur pety quiestions nor do i want people to try and push us back together.
Only a select few know what has happened to me in the past two months or so and those ppl dont really read this board (unless they are lurking and not telling me).
Anyways what im trying to get at here is that this was a relationship btw 2 people, not an entire board. I think its hard enough as it is and having added pressure on top of it doesnt help

Posted by Ian on Sep-28-2003 13:35:

obv im one who knows a bit more, being friends with both, but I do wanna say that a decision is just that, and the last thing they need is ppl trying to push them back together, cos it won't help anyone, and I think this helps clear things up now, which might help those who didnt' know and also quash any rumours u might have heard

Posted by Philby on Sep-28-2003 15:41:

this has been a pretty rough time for both of us, and i appreciate the support people have been giving us, and thank people for trying to help but please dont pressure or hassle jolene, shes been under a lot of stress lately and i agree with her, its hard enough as it is without someone pushing you when you don't know them that well and they don't know the whole story. thanks

Posted by Paulie on Sep-29-2003 01:28:

Re: Just to clear a few things up...

quote:
Originally posted by InAcoma
I just need to make this thread to let all u guys and girls aware of a few things...
although its common knowledge between a lot of people now, but i think after an awkward weekend that I need to tell u all that there is no longer a "phil and jolene"

I understand your concern for the both of us as a few of us are/were our friends. But i dont want to answer ur pety quiestions nor do i want people to try and push us back together.
Only a select few know what has happened to me in the past two months or so and those ppl dont really read this board (unless they are lurking and not telling me).
Anyways what im trying to get at here is that this was a relationship btw 2 people, not an entire board. I think its hard enough as it is and having added pressure on top of it doesnt help

werd!

Posted by webmeister on Sep-29-2003 10:57:

Posted by Slade on Sep-29-2003 12:35:

lol

Posted by Chuck Norris on Sep-29-2003 15:15:

"All we are sayyyyyyyyinnnnggggggg, is give peace a chanceeeeee"

Posted by Philby on Sep-30-2003 01:54:

quote:
Originally posted by Teknoscaper.
lol

what is so funny?

Posted by Breeze on Sep-30-2003 11:30:

didnt give a shit in the first place coz it aint none of my business.

Posted by Ian on Sep-30-2003 12:02:

quote:
Originally posted by Philby
what is so funny?

he remembered his name ?

Posted by JoeCool on Oct-02-2003 03:31:

The fact jolene and phil have had to make this thread and have had to put up with all this unnecceary shit is absolutely disgusting....

the people involved should be fucking ashamed, you all know who you are

To pressure someone into something that they dont want to do is the lowest of lows no matter to what degree you do it to, it shouldnt be done at all

its a very bad character trait to try and push people together when theyre not, how much does it say about your life when you have to put pressure on someone else to be with someone...

get your own life, get your own damn relationships and if you want to pressure someone into something pressure yourself into keeping your nose out of other peoples personal business

Posted by Ian on Oct-02-2003 08:06:

quote:
Originally posted by JoeCool
The fact jolene and phil have had to make this thread and have had to put up with all this unnecceary shit is absolutely disgusting....

the people involved should be fucking ashamed, you all know who you are

To pressure someone into something that they dont want to do is the lowest of lows no matter to what degree you do it to, it shouldnt be done at all

its a very bad character trait to try and push people together when theyre not, how much does it say about your life when you have to put pressure on someone else to be with someone...

get your own life, get your own damn relationships and if you want to pressure someone into something pressure yourself into keeping your nose out of other peoples personal business

as diplomatic as always nick, but well said

Posted by narcism on Oct-02-2003 11:40:

quote:
Originally posted by JoeCool
The fact jolene and phil have had to make this thread and have had to put up with all this unnecceary shit is absolutely disgusting....

the people involved should be fucking ashamed, you all know who you are

I think everyone is curious as to what has happened and in a way i admire them for trying to get both sides of the story, well a select few have... but in saying that people have just pushed the boundaries to far in some instances and by all means im not trying to single people out.
At the end of the day, it was a relationship btw phil and i
not the whole of ta and i

thanks 2 nick, ian and ilya for sticking by me, its appreciated so much

Posted by webmeister on Oct-02-2003 12:18:

Sorry for the trouble guys, hope everything works out for both of you

Thread's over.