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my gf is secretly talkin to her ex....but not kissing or nuttin...they still talk!..

and went out to get ice cream


wut do i do!

how did u find out?

So what? If they're not doing anything what's the big deal? IF you find out that she is doing anything then drop her like a sack of shit...but until then I don't see the problem...

she told she loves me...

but she told she is stilltalkin to himm yadadada

and still cares about him...


do i set an ultimatium...

btw i live 90 miles away from her and visit her on the weekends...cuz i go to school away from her

Tell her straight wats going on with her ex? does she still have feelings for him?

Also just ask it straight, dun't act like u dun care n care too much as well...

Cause if you start making accusations then it gets messy, if she goes

"welllll..."

kiss her goodbye

how did you find out? if you were snooping, you can't say anything because that'll just get you in more trouble. if you found out legitimately, ask her why she kept it a secret ("i didn't want you to get upset and think it meant anything because it doesn't.") chances are it's nothing. just about every girl i know wants to stay on friendly terms with her ex, because that's a nice thing to do well, there's that and girls tend to like as much male attention as they can get.

don't make accusations and immediately put her on the defensive. just ask in a neutral way. "are you still talking to paul?" not "why are you still talking to paul? are you cheating on me?"

she told me straight up...and said she still has feelings for him but nothing will ever happen...


but 4 hrs ago she dumped me..so it doesnt mattter now

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Originally posted by speedracer_mec she told me straight up...and said she still has feelings for him but nothing will ever happen... but 4 hrs ago she dumped me..so it doesnt mattter now

wow.. what a biatch.

if she says she still has feelings for him but nothing will ever happen that is bollocks! sorry she dumped you but it sounds like you are better off this way!

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Originally posted by speedracer_mec she told me straight up...and said she still has feelings for him but nothing will ever happen... but 4 hrs ago she dumped me..so it doesnt mattter now

Yo, seriously man, just be around some friends, since you are at college go out and try to relax yourself in a group setting, dwelling a lot on it isn't helpful. Key is be around your friends, not off by yourself. Relationships can be a bitch but remember there are plenty of women out there, this isn't the only one even though it may seem so now. Take it easy and keep your head up.

just put a desert eagle .50 to his head he will the idea

omg...and you believe her bs?????

sometimes people are soo naive!!!! do you really buy that she is only talking to him??? plzzzzzzz she wants to have her cake and eat it too ..that's what it is...dump her ass

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Originally posted by politicsofdancin omg...and you believe her bs????? sometimes people are soo naive!!!! do you really buy that she is only talking to him??? plzzzzzzz she wants to have her cake and eat it too ..that's what it is...dump her ass

...read the thread, she dumped him

sorry to hear that man, it sucks i was in a similar situation a few years back and i was real pissed. Put it this way, now she's dating an ex. clearly it didn't work out the first time with him, and it wont this time either, she's just to blind to see it. And when that all goes to hell and your having a great time and maybe with someone new and loving life, and she alone, she'll see what she missed out on with you. I know have a great girl 1 000 000 times better then the ex, and less bitchy and doesn't lie either, and i've never been happier. So don't worry someone who would lie to you like that in the first place and isn't stabble enough to love someone throught distance isn't worth keeping.

btw my current relationship is also a long distance one, but i have no worries, because in true love you don't. You find the right person im sure.

for now however i reconmed you take some party time. Go out with friends and have some fun. I think its time to hit some massive raves

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Originally posted by Orbax ...read the thread, she dumped him

oo well...he should've dump her before this thing happened...

two nights ago
she told me she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me




last night she said she didnt know if it was friendship love or real love...she ran away from the question of her ex....all i wanted it to be was me and her and only me and her....nno ex involved..

but obviously she didnt respect the way i felt

god damnit...

she gave me herpes toooo


god damn this world..


im soooooo destroyed right now im bout to go drive outside 100 miles an hour into a tree

no girl is worth shit like that. you will get over it.
how hard can it be to find girls in college.
pull yourself together, you are a guy. remembember that.

go find a random innocent girl and TEA BAG her!!!!! then after its all over yell "I just tea baggeed you, HO!!"

it may sound mean but it will make you feel 100x better.

You should've dumped her ass the instant she said that she "still has feelings for him." But, since you hesitated, you got screwed... ah well.

I'll tell you this, mec. Whatever you do, do notcall her or try to communicate with her in any way. At all. I'm sure that she will eventually give you a shout (after all, she seems to enjoy screwing around with her exes), at which point you can get your closure by telling her that she's a lying whore and that you'd never even think of dating her again.

Anyway, she is a lying whore, so be glad she dumped you! Problem solved!

I hear you man, what a fucking bitch. Go out with some friends, drink a lot, party it up and forget about that lying sack of STDs. You're better off that way believe me.

seriously, i think this is another patrick thread!!!!i think it is a bunch of crap...but if it's not, i can't even read the replies this idiot is saying... you are retarded...!!!!! i bet you anthing, she will say something sweet and nice and you will take her back....i see it coming from a weak individual like you...gEEsh...

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Originally posted by speedracer_mec she told she loves me... but she told she is stilltalkin to himm yadadada and still cares about him... do i set an ultimatium... btw i live []90 miles away[/B] from her and visit her on the weekends...cuz i go to school away from her

dump her and don't look back, it's going to happen anyway

I know there will be ppl who disagree, but from my experience long distant relationships usually don�t work. When u go to college u should drop ur high school gf. Unfortunately, most have find this out for themselves like u just did. Move on, I know it sux. Otherwise u can wait in the wings look for the opportunity to take her out for ice cream. J/k

ok she never actually dumped me

she just said..she didnt know if she felt real love or friendship love




she seemed confused...


she called me today
after the mess was calm

i asked 2 questions.

do u want to stay with me?
do u want to resolve our problems?


she said yes....

wut do i do? im goin over there tonite 90 mile drive...

imma jam out to oakenfold sets pre2000 to make me feel better

my best friend told me to handle it like this...

tell her, "im not ur dad...i cant tell u wut to do or who to talk to..if u wanna work things out..its up to u."..."talk to him i dont care"....

then he said for me to do this," call her less and less....and she will get whooped on me"

place my firm stance....otherwise step out..

wut do i do!????

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