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I f**ked up
Last saturday night I went out with a friend and we bumped with an ex-gf of a friend of us....
Then dunno how, she and I kinda ended up alone and making out in some dark alley 
The thing is she and my friend broke up last week after about 6 months of being together. And both of them (my friend and his ex) aren't hmm quite over it.
After a couple minutes I just stood up and said "this is wrong", walked her home, nice goodbye with a kiss on the cheek and that was it. But I can't help to feel kinda shitty.
Anyway I've already decided that NOTHING will come out of it, it just happened out of boredom lol.
Just sharing 
I'm not looking for advice or something like that. Just want to hear about similar experiences
PS: totally off topic. Chill Out room posts don't count on the profile post count? I don't care about the number... but I know i've posted more than 40+ times
At least you stood up and said that it was wrong. You shouldn't have started in the first place but I don't blame you for doing so. Doesn't sound like its that big of a deal, especially if you don't plan on doing anything else like that.
And chillout room posts don't count.
were you both drunk/high ?
I can't imagine this happening just like that.
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| Originally posted by electric_soul After a couple minutes I just stood up and said "this is wrong", walked her home, nice goodbye with a kiss on the cheek and that was it. But I can't help to feel kinda shitty. |
j/k
well... we drank about 3 beers and had a joint in about a 6 hours of fooling around.
But we were pretty sober (at least I was, and she's a heavy drinker, so I take she wasn't drunk). The thing is that with girls I don't wait for anything (all that "signs, eye contact, etc" mumbo jumbo ppl usually talk in here). I just jump on to them and get either slapped in the face or kissed back (I even got punched once lol)
She kinda hesitated, and I told her later "You hesitated, you should've pulled me back", she replied "well... i didn't feel like it".
That was what scared the shit out of me, considering the whole situation.
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| Originally posted by electric_soul well... we drank about 3 beers and had a joint in about a 6 hours of fooling around. But we were pretty sober (at least I was, and she's a heavy drinker, so I take she wasn't drunk). The thing is that with girls I don't wait for anything (all that "signs, eye contact, etc" mumbo jumbo ppl usually talk in here). I just jump on to them and get either slapped in the face or kissed back (I even got punched once lol) |
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She kinda hesitated, and I told her later "You hesitated, you should've pulled me back", she replied "well... i didn't feel like it". That was what scared the shit out of me, considering the whole situation. |
yes, i'm not saying anything about that... she can have all the fun she wants. it's a free country
but well... it's a nice thing to do to not hook up with friend's ex-gf at least for a while after they broke up... and a week is not enough of a while 
In my opinion it's a respect thing - and how close you are to your 'friend' (or if he's just an acquaintance).
You don't do ANYTHING with Ex-gfs of friends of yours where there was any emotional attachment/significance. Also if it was a bad breakup you don't do anything with friends of mentioned Ex-gf after the breakup takes place - so as to not introduce the ex back into the social circle. Cut all ties.
On the other hand, if she was just some ho from a club that got passed around the boys that's a whole other story, but otherwise - no way.
well... we've known each other since we were about 10 years old. but we've started being good friends since about 7 years ago... so no. it's no an acquaintance.
and no, she isn't a girl that just "passed by". that's why I feel so shitty.
So you people already know. never introduce me to your gfs
PS: I was looking forward to similar experiences, i'm the only one who did this kind of thing? hard to believe
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| Originally posted by electric_soul Chill Out room posts don't count on the profile post count? I don't care about the number... but I know i've posted more than 40+ times |
ahlamalek I'm just waiting for your inbox to get flooded by n00bs asking "omghi2u is that u in ur avatar!?!"
IMO, gilrs don't worry about past relations like we man do. Like 2 years ago was kindda dating this girl, we were together for almost 6 months but then I didnt want to be with her anymore. I decided to dump her in early december but she would cry all the time and this would convence me to be with her again. And then on new years eve she tried to kiss me and I said no, cause I just wanted to get smashed and high and stupid. And so I did. She was crying again but I was so f**cked up it didnt bother me this time. Thing is, I had so much to drink and smoke, I simply blacked out. Then suddenly I was making out with HER BEST FRIEND! Witness (firends of ours) said she was the one that came to me and made it all happen. People may say Im synical, but really, I was WAAAAAY too wasted to try any move on a girl. Girls are not diplomatic. I mean, Id NEVER hit on my friend's ex-gf the minute after she dumped him, abusing her drunken state.
But I must admit I loved being abused...
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| Originally posted by UWM ahlamalek I'm just waiting for your inbox to get flooded by n00bs asking "omghi2u is that u in ur avatar!?!" |
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| Originally posted by ahlamalek hahah didn't think about that.... |
Real nice man, I don't knwo I would do that in the same situation. I mean, I'm a nice guy, I really am, but I just don't know 
Btw: Nice pic ahlamalek
Nabistai : nice asss 
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| Originally posted by Furel OMGHI2U is that you in your avatar? more pics or stfu! |
omfg, you're trying to hijack this into Post your pictars III
anyway.... tnx for the feedback people.
Whiskers made me paranoid about this thread, so let it die plz 
bah, there's no chance anyone related would end here (i guess)
go on
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| Originally posted by electric_soul Whiskers made me paranoid about this thread, so let it die plz |
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| Originally posted by whiskers ...plus i'm kinda paranoid that some people will find out about this post and that wouldn't be very nice. |
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| Originally posted by Streakfury Ha ha ha! I Know What You Did Last Summer... jk |
she called me tonight (where the fuck did she get my number from 
)
Anyway, we've cleared all out. we did a stupid thing, both of us see it that way, so it's all ok. phew
happy ending
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| Originally posted by whiskers |
Similar experiences? Sure.... I have two...
One, a friend tried to get together with a guy, and she wanted me to come along and meet his best friend. Well, his best friend ended up liking her, and me and the guy she wanted ended up liking each other, but she still liked the guy that liked me.
Forever in time went by with nothing happening between those two, because he didn't like her (6 months). Then I got the clear from her and me and him got together. Lasted a good 6 or 7 months, ended badly.
Second case: Friend dated a guy for two months, but she lost her virginity to him. They broke up. She met someone else, wanted to marry him bla bla bla. A few months down the road me and her ex hung out... and ended up falling for each other. Two months of lies then a ruined friendship once she found out. Our friendship was on/off for the year me and this guy dated.
We are just starting to become friends again.
Twice is two times too many. NEVER doing that again!
Actually........ Now that I think about it... There were three cases! 
Me and a guy that I was seeing weren't really getting along too well and we ended up breaking up. I met some guy, not knowing it was his best friend. Me and that guy got together and ruined their friendship. (whoops!)
As if that wasn't bad enough, turns out a friend of mine liked the new guy too!
This story turns out pretty bad too. The guy ended up cheating on me with my friend, slept with a girl a few times, and dumped me on my birthday! 
I think I just have a bad track record....
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