sigh.....real sad right now. girl thing.....

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Posted by penguin on Jul-20-2001 23:11:

sigh.....real sad right now. girl thing.....

god i just cnat stop thinking about this. im going out with this really damn cute japanese girl right now as friends....but i like her more than that and ppl said she likes me more than just friend too...well she said shes going to move to japan to go to college there adn live there permanently....shes not leaving like right now...but like later but i just still cnat stop thinking that i might not ever see her again...even though she said she wants me to come visit when she leaves...god this is really tearing me up inside...oh well i just had to say this to try and i donno thought it might help if i talked about it...not really workin tho

Posted by Dj Lex on Jul-20-2001 23:14:

Hey d00d that is fucked up. Bad situation.
I think you must let her go and visit het maybe in the summer or something JUST as friends. It is not good to feel bad and moving up to japan isn't an option I guess.
Hey pall there are lots of other girls.

Posted by Henkie_henk on Jul-20-2001 23:38:

Dude whats yr age??

Whats yr current situation?? job.. school.. etc etc...

tell us.. and ill try to give you the best advice...

bye.. good luck..

Posted by StereoPrincess on Jul-21-2001 00:23:

does sound sad, but like they said, there are other girls and obviously she really really wants to go.

Posted by dvd on Jul-21-2001 00:30:

do her now and make her pregnate then she has to stay.hahah..ok seriously...you either should tell her u interested and stuff and dont want her to go or dont say anything . I'm the hypocite..i like this girl in church and i dont think she likes me or its like maybe she will if she gets to know me but yeah hard to even say hi to a girl for me, even if she is my friend.

Posted by penguin on Jul-21-2001 04:54:

quote:
Originally posted by Henkie_henk
Dude whats yr age??

Whats yr current situation?? job.. school.. etc etc...

tell us.. and ill try to give you the best advice...

bye.. good luck..

oh well im 17....in high school so its not like i can say like oh i love you please dont go and move in with me....but shes really good friend and i like her and id hate to see her go....yeah i guess its treu and theres other ppl but i guess im just kinda uh well i like thsi girl best right now! oh well ill just see what happens...maybe she wont even go who knows..still some time i guess....

Posted by Dj Lex on Jul-21-2001 09:19:

Hey take care pall and choose the right thing

Posted by Henkie_henk on Jul-21-2001 11:47:

Well since your only 17.. i dont know if yr mature enough to take care of your own ass.. damn i cant even coock my own food lol.. Ya see what i mean..

Ya cant just follow a girl around..

I have the experience that at your age i only had relationships of 2 to 4 months.. but than again i know girls who had a relationship of a year when they were 17.. It all depends on how quickly yr bored lol..

You could always try to tell your feelings.. but keep the "i cant live without you" part aside.. If things cant happen.. she will feel even more miserable.. and we dont want that do we....

oh fuck gotta go.. ill finish this when ill get back...

Posted by Spad on Jul-21-2001 13:43:

Just go for it man. Life's too short. If you make a fool of yourself who's gonna care in 6 months time? You've got nothing to lose, cause you said yourself that you probably wont see her again anyway. Least this way you've got a chance to let her know and think things over.

Don't listen to all this "if not then it wasn't meant to be" shit. Fate can only take you so far, then you've gotta start making an effort. If she goes away and you didn't even try you'll kick yourself.

Then again I'm single so probably best not to listen to me

Posted by Gloomy on Jul-21-2001 13:43:

If you were together for a long time, at least a year I would say, then it would be more difficult. But nothing happened so far, she's still a good friend, no more. Well keep it like that. Ok you know she feels something for you, you feel something for her...well, just keep it like that, don't make it turn into a relation, cause then, it will far more difficult to see her going.
What will happen, will happen, that's one of the rules of the nature So, if she leaves...it means she wasn't the person for you. And the fact you never see her back when she leaves...well keep her as a beautiful memory, and look into the futher. You're only 17. I'm also only 19...lots of (good) things are still to happen to us...

Posted by tu_face on Jul-21-2001 14:26:

all the above stuff is spot on and all, but u need to let her know how u feel... she is prolly feelin the same as u atm (if she likes u too i mean)

dont think itll stop her going or anything, but u would kick urself if u never saw her again without lettin her know how u feel. the chances of seeing her again are better if u tell her...

peace