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Posted by Muff2K on Dec-12-2003 07:25:

She Did It Again...

so here's the thing, i'm not a very open guy and i don't tell my friends many things... but... one of my good buddies, mr. rogers, reads this board, so jer u can just tell everyone...

my gf of 2/5 years broke up with me.. again.. she did it 2 months ago and we got back 1.5 days later


she did it again now.. and this time it's for good. i will never ever take her back not in 1 million years, she said if i would forgive her maybe 5 years down the road...

girls are fucked thinking like that... i hope she finds a guy who can give her the happiness i could not....


see you guys @ System for Holden


Posted by E2EK1EL on Dec-12-2003 08:00:

Sigh ... that's fucked up shit

I hope you feel better!

Come find me at Holden we drink and chat man .... Trust me, she doesn't know what she had and lost.


Posted by Endlesswave on Dec-12-2003 08:33:

No worries man, some women are


Posted by DigiNut on Dec-12-2003 16:26:

Told you it was a bad idea taking her back, dude... sorry to hear that she hurt you again though.

I hope you really mean it this time when you say you won't take her back, because it wouldn't surprise me if she changes her mind again.


Posted by Swamper on Dec-12-2003 17:21:

...I've had something similar happen to me..but it was after a longer time..

No worries... you may suffer a bit now because of her not knowing what she wants - but in the long run - you'll be WAY better off...

See, after u went back to her she figured she could pull the same shit again.. forget that. go party. you're free.


Posted by Fir3start3r on Dec-12-2003 17:24:

Don't relinquish to their yo-yo ways...

Obviously she's not mature enough to know what she really wants and that's rough on a guy's heart.
That's not a slight on her; I've seen it a million times with a lot of my friends; she needs to grow up a bit in the relationship department.

I'm not saying she's a bad person, she just needs time and until that time, back away...
Don't put yourself and heart through her indecisiveness...

Best of luck man and cya tonight


Posted by matty on Dec-12-2003 17:27:

Time to let loose. Come to Chicago and we'll find you a nice POlish girl..


Posted by sohaness on Dec-12-2003 17:39:

quote:
Originally posted by Swamper
No worries... you may suffer a bit now because of her not knowing what she wants - but in the long run - you'll be WAY better off...


word to that!

sorry to hear about your breakup...but everything happens for a reason.

steve.


Posted by charmscars on Dec-12-2003 18:11:

this reninds of that scene in 'say anything'


JOE: Lloyd, man, no babe is worth it. Yo, hang with us man. We'll teach you Bibles full of truth.
DENNY: Man, all you gotta do is find a girl that looks just like her, nail her, and then dump her, man. Get her off your mind.
MARK: Your only mistake is that you didnt dump her first. Diane Court is a show pony. You need a stallion, my friend. Walk with us, and you walk tall.
LUKE: Bitches, man.
DENNY: Somebody better get that kid a condom.
LUKE: Yo dudes, I gotta bail.
GUYS: Later for you, Luke.


ps: jarek- i'm sorry you got hurt you are a grrreat guy


Posted by djeso on Dec-12-2003 20:13:

Re: She Did It Again...

quote:
Originally posted by Muff2K
i hope she finds a guy who can give her the happiness i could not....


Honestly you should not think like that, first of all no one can make anyone happy, and second of all she just probably doesn't deserve it. And you should not take her back again.

Hope it all works out for you

Peace

Peter

P.S. It's her loss not yours


Posted by Silky Johnson on Dec-12-2003 20:47:

Re: Re: She Did It Again...

quote:
Originally posted by djeso
Honestly you should not think like that, first of all no one can make anyone happy, and second of all she just probably doesn't deserve it. And you should not take her back again.


How true. Sorry to hear about your break up, but you should be happy for her that she can learn (hopefully) how to be happy alone before she tries to get invloved with anybody else.
From a girl's perspective, I couldn't agree more that we (most of us) are all crazy. Aren't chicks supposed to be the "emotionally healthy" ones? Don't we think we know it all?? Well from my experience, that's a load of crap.
What you need is a nice girl who truly enjoys making you sandwiches, and has a penchant for penis, preferably yours.

All the best in the single life


Posted by Fir3start3r on Dec-12-2003 21:30:

Re: Re: Re: She Did It Again...

quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
What you need is a nice girl who truly enjoys making you sandwiches...


I usuallly have to fend for myself...most of the time...

So yes....sandwich making is important!
(Mine can when she has time...and does a great job btw)


Posted by DigiNut on Dec-12-2003 21:34:

What's the deal with sandwiches, anyway?

Now if a girl could make me Oriental food, then maybe we'd have something to discuss...


Posted by Fir3start3r on Dec-12-2003 21:43:

quote:
Originally posted by DigiNut
What's the deal with sandwiches, anyway?

Now if a girl could make me Oriental food, then maybe we'd have something to discuss...


Sandwiches are the babysteps to high levels of cooking...
(and a univeral warning indicator to men)


Posted by Tordan on Dec-12-2003 21:44:

quote:
Originally posted by DigiNut
What's the deal with sandwiches, anyway?

Now if a girl could make me Oriental food, then maybe we'd have something to discuss...


That's easy... find yourself an oriental gf.

Muff2k dude, sorry about what happened to ya. I know it must be hard especially this time of the year when you got so many plans etc. Similar thing happened to my friend a few years ago. GF left him Dec. 31st just before they were supposed to go to some dinner dance which he had paid $100+ per ticket. Talk about bringing in the new years. Anyways, life's too short to waste on ppl who really don't give a fuck about you. Better you found out now than later.


Posted by DigiNut on Dec-12-2003 21:54:

quote:
Originally posted by Tordan
That's easy... find yourself an oriental gf.

You'd be amazed at how many of them don't seem to have a clue! Their idea of Oriental cooking is Ramen noodles.

quote:
Anyways, life's too short to waste on ppl who really don't give a fuck about you. Better you found out now than later.

And that is the clincher, my friends... don't ever confuse someone who cares about what she can get from you with someone who cares about you. There's a whole world of difference.


Posted by Tordan on Dec-12-2003 22:02:

quote:
Originally posted by DigiNut
You'd be amazed at how many of them don't seem to have a clue! Their idea of Oriental cooking is Ramen noodles.


Thank God for Ramen... its gotten me through nights when I could find nothing but health food in my fridge.


Posted by Silky Johnson on Dec-12-2003 22:57:

quote:
Originally posted by DigiNut


And that is the clincher, my friends... don't ever confuse someone who cares about what she can get from you with someone who cares about you. There's a whole world of difference.


See? Now that's what I meant by my sandwich comment. It's not really about the sandwich persay, but the fact that a girl who truly cares about you will enjoy doing that kind of thing for you.


Posted by dEsidEL on Dec-13-2003 00:44:

KarateKid



dammit man that explains a lot about what you said recently ..

u shouldn't feel bad at all man , 2 much of a great guy to let this hit you ..

on a lighter note.. WELCOME TO TOTA!!


Posted by Muff2K on Dec-13-2003 02:17:

i just got home from work, and man, it's nice to see all the love & support

thanks guys.. it means alot to me


anyhoot...

she calls em today and says, what if i told you i think i made a mistake last night


i say


thats just something your going to have to live with.

and that's that. talked to her a couple times since, she says she sees me in her future... not gonna happen.. i just told her i want my divx's back and thats it


friends say she was cryign all day and is extremely upset, but fuck it, now she will know what she lost, i'm not sayin i'm the best boyfriend around, but i tried despite workign 2 jobs and doing nightschool...

i cant believe she couldnt wait until january to see if things got better... life sucks kinda.. it's nice to have friends to fall back on when u get sacked like this






HOLDEN IS GONNA FUCKIN ROCK TONITE!!!


Posted by 'mju:zik on Dec-13-2003 03:32:

Re: She Did It Again...

quote:
Originally posted by Muff2K
so here's the thing, i'm not a very open guy and i don't tell my friends many things... but... one of my good buddies, mr. rogers, reads this board, so jer u can just tell everyone...

my gf of 2/5 years broke up with me.. again.. she did it 2 months ago and we got back 1.5 days later


she did it again now.. and this time it's for good. i will never ever take her back not in 1 million years, she said if i would forgive her maybe 5 years down the road...

girls are fucked thinking like that... i hope she finds a guy who can give her the happiness i could not....


see you guys @ System for Holden


that sucks man, dont worry theres like 3 billion other females out there, if i see u tonight il get u a nice pill to make the headache go away


Posted by 'mju:zik on Dec-13-2003 03:37:

quote:
Originally posted by Muff2K
i just got home from work, and man, it's nice to see all the love & support

thanks guys.. it means alot to me


anyhoot...

she calls em today and says, what if i told you i think i made a mistake last night


i say


thats just something your going to have to live with.

and that's that. talked to her a couple times since, she says she sees me in her future... not gonna happen.. i just told her i want my divx's back and thats it


friends say she was cryign all day and is extremely upset, but fuck it, now she will know what she lost, i'm not sayin i'm the best boyfriend around, but i tried despite workign 2 jobs and doing nightschool...

i cant believe she couldnt wait until january to see if things got better... life sucks kinda.. it's nice to have friends to fall back on when u get sacked like this






HOLDEN IS GONNA FUCKIN ROCK TONITE!!!


sounds like she just wanted some attention, not to actually break up


Posted by Muff2K on Dec-13-2003 23:10:

http://women.msn.com/266642.armx



this was on msn's homepage today, how appropriate!!


Posted by q-tip on Dec-14-2003 01:39:

Smiley DJ

just remember that she lost you, not the other way around. aint no weight on yur shoulders guy. just strut. what the fuck.



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