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cheating....?????????

Has anyone of you cheated or have been cheated on?? What happened with the relationship?? Just going through some hard stuff and just wanna know. Is it possible for love to over come such hurt??

my 2 cents...if you cheated on your girlfriend, well your fucked. Your not going to get back with her, and if you do, itll never work out. So move on. If she cheated on you, and you wanna get back with her. Don't, give it up, she'll cheat on you again. It's not worth it. If you dont have enough love and respect for the person to not cheat on them, then you don't need to be with that person anyway

i wud never cheat on my gf, no excuse. but my gf did cheat on me twice i didn't suspect it either, once when i left 2 poland a year ago, after we were goin out a month, she cheated, den again after 4 months...um i stayed with her and dont know fucken why...guess im 2 fucked up myself 2 explain why, i went 9 months, when she cheated, after da next 3 months, i stop doin everything, fucken, etc. i dont know why i stayed with her after she cheated on me da first time? i found out about it 2 late, when i broke up with her, neitherless its sad when u cheat on ur gf, or when she cheats on, ur like cheating on urself, being with da person 4 so long, and dis 1 time happens out of no reason, coz she was drunk, blabla, stories like dat dont work

what if you have been with the person and you were there first love and they have not experienced anyone else, is that a forgivable thing?? what if you both cheated?? do those erase each other??

i dont cheat and have never been cheated on. i dont see the point. if im thinking of cheating then i must not be satisfied w/ the relationship im in so why be in it? if u cheat the person u are with obviously is not meaning that much to u anymore or u wouldnt do it. cause why would u purposely hurt someone u care so much about.

it is possible to make up after its happened. and the person may be really sorry and never do it again.. but dont u wonder why they really did it in the first place? not the reason they give u.. but the real reason. and are u always gonna be wondering if he/she has done it again? once someone hurts me i wouldnt go setting myself up to be hurt again.

but most people deserve a second chance. and luv can overcome a lot of things. but not quickly.. your mind and your heart needs a lot of time to think through whatever has happened.

i dunno i havent experienced someone cheating on me so i dont really know. but i hope u work through it.. *hugz stereoprincess* hope u feel better. peace!! -layla

Wise words liquidsounds, none of my mates have ever made a cheating thing work out... and nor did neon, so there's the proof.

I haven't cheated/been cheated on, but one weird thing was, i heard this girl was gonna stand me up, so i'm like fuck this i'm not going (it was very reliable source), and later i found out that it was true (i thank source again), she did stand me up (well, we stood each other up) but now she knew i didn't go either and she was going around telling everyone what a bastard i was cause i stood her up... even though she was the one who planned to stand me up, and neither of us went! I mean how the hell can you get stood up if you weren't there yourself? Anyway, she's been a real bitch to loads of people, and now she's moved to london (good ridance)

So remember guys, even if you know you're gonna be stood up, go! j/k real lesson is some women (and i supose some men, to be fair) are born bitches!

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Originally posted by StereoPrincess what if you have been with the person and you were there first love and they have not experienced anyone else, is that a forgivable thing?? what if you both cheated?? do those erase each other??

umm i guess if da couple loves each other, den ya i guess they wud 4give each other, but its not always like dat..ppl dat r in luv want 2 cheat on each other, coz they wanna make each other ignorant and jealous, waiten 4 da perfect moment who's gonna start it first, its like a game, and it always ends up in a disaster, some1 ends up hurt, heartache, fucked up emotionally...i dont think dat will erase nething, it might go away 4 some time but its always gonna be with ya, no matter wat

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Originally posted by theeyesofdarkness but most people deserve a second chance. and luv can overcome a lot of things. but not quickly.. your mind and your heart needs a lot of time to think through whatever has happened.

dats wat ive most of thought at first layla it doesn't work

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Originally posted by StereoPrincess what if you have been with the person and you were there first love and they have not experienced anyone else, is that a forgivable thing?? what if you both cheated?? do those erase each other??

two wrongs do not make a right!!!!! its not about being even. its a horrible thing regardless. anything can be forgivable.. but dont just get over something cause ud just rather not think about it than not have the person in your life. thats not a good idea. and getting hurt like that can take months and months of healing time.

No g/f yet

Ello my polish bud

Crusader

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Originally posted by bluE_Neon i dont think dat will erase nething, it might go away 4 some time but its always gonna be with ya, no matter wat

that's what i'm afraid of. you know now i can think that i'm over it but what if one day it just comes back and i'm married with a kid or something.

Hey princess do u wanna talk about whats bothering u, as perhaps it would be easier to assess the situation if we heard it? Up to u

Crusader

maybe soon
it hasn't been too long so i kinda have to figure out what really happened and junk. plus my "bf" doesn't like me discussing things of personal sfuff with people and he reads this forum sometimes. if you are reading this then please don't get mad at me.

wait u are asking him not to get mad at u??? ok well then i hope its not him u were talking about that cheated.. cause if so then i dont think it should matter to him who u go to to talk about things if its gonna make u feel better. and u shouldnt apologize for doing anything that u want to do.. like making this thread.. u obviously felt the need/ or want to do it so u shouldnt have to apologize for it.

but if its not him u are talking about then forget what i said. except u REALLY shouldnt have to apologize for doing this. who are u dating? hitler?

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Originally posted by theeyesofdarkness i dont cheat and have never been cheated on. i dont see the point. if im thinking of cheating then i must not be satisfied w/ the relationship im in so why be in it? if u cheat the person u are with obviously is not meaning that much to u anymore or u wouldnt do it. cause why would u purposely hurt someone u care so much about. it is possible to make up after its happened. and the person may be really sorry and never do it again.. but dont u wonder why they really did it in the first place? not the reason they give u.. but the real reason. and are u always gonna be wondering if he/she has done it again? once someone hurts me i wouldnt go setting myself up to be hurt again. but most people deserve a second chance. and luv can overcome a lot of things. but not quickly.. your mind and your heart needs a lot of time to think through whatever has happened. i dunno i havent experienced someone cheating on me so i dont really know. but i hope u work through it.. *hugz stereoprincess* hope u feel better. peace!! -layla

Layla.. = words of knowledge.. and (god and xtctrip and and :-)

really i totally agree with you

am i lazy or what

If u got a b/f who gets mad just at reading stuff and not even talking to u about it, then he isnt a very good boyfriend

Maybe u could write it in polish on a pm to me?

Crusader

oki Ksiezniczko chyba rozumiem co ci sie stalo
co ci sie stalo teraz bedziesz o tym myslala bardzo, bo 2 boli cie ale z czasem kiedy zjadziesz kogos odpowiedniego, zapomniesz o tym ja jak roztalem sie z moja dziewczyna tak samo myslalem i dalej z czasem dostale te myslili, ludzie mowia zebys sobie nowa znalazl a jakos niemoge wiesz, cos mnie jeszcze powstrzymuje, nie te fakty o mojej ex's, moze jeszcze nie jestem gotowy niewiem...wiem ze teraz myslilisz duzo, warjujesz, siedzisz codzienne, myslisz o tym, co sie stalo, kazda mala rzecz ci wchodzi do glowy i to najbardziej boli...kurwa palce mnie juz bola bo tak pomalu pisze, reszte ci napisze do PM jesli chcesz dalej rozmawiac mam nadzieje ze wszystko bedzie dobrze, trymaj sie jakos

hehe uhhhhhh yeah!! lol

FFS the above is really pushing the limits of my ability to read and comprehend, tho this time i wont be translating for a good reason

Crusader

hehehe layla
oki Ksiezniczka chyba jestem troche za daleko..hehe oh well powiedziem co wiem

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Originally posted by Henkie_henk Layla.. = words of knowledge.. and (god and xtctrip and and :-) really i totally agree with you am i lazy or what

and and......... COMPUTER WHIZ!!



*oops sorry stereoprincess i dont mean to take away from your thread*

Neon -> U make it sound like paranoia almost

And theres no need to use such language, what if some small kids read it

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...kurwa palce mnie juz bola bo tak pomalu pisze

Crusader

hehehe its tru though they hurt me know

you guys are making me laugh. thanks. its not that he gets mad its actually kind of because he is so sensitive if that makes sense. probably doesn't. but niebieski tak wlasnie jest tak jak mowiles. crusader ty jestest dziwny.

its weird i would rather talk to strangers about this then my friends because my friends are his friend and they don't want to hurt my feeling and shit like that.

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crusader ty jestest dziwny.

W00t?? Im not weird, just different

Crusader

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