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Posted by elena on Dec-25-2003 15:00:

Death on Christmas Morning...

I just heard that two of my friends whom I graduated high school with died in a car accident early this morning whilst coming back from the beach. Only one of them made it alive, with a broken leg and a clavicle(sp?). The two weren't really close friends but they were still the kids who I shared memories with at beach trips, classes, and parties only 3 months ago when we graduated. I know it won't affect me or you all that much when we go on with our lives today, but I just wanted/needed to vent.
Ive never dealt with death before in life and this is so overwhelming right now.

Posted by Massive84 on Dec-25-2003 15:03:

damn, i feel sorry for their parents

Posted by DJPrototypeX on Dec-25-2003 15:16:

fuck...that sux...today is the worst day for somehtin like that to happen...i hope their families are doin well

Posted by squirrelly on Dec-25-2003 15:32:

Wow, I'm really sorry.

Posted by Streakfury on Dec-25-2003 16:00:

Man, that's really bad, i'm sorry to hear that. My condolences to their families. I hope everyone's OK.

Posted by Trancer-X on Dec-25-2003 18:45:

My sincere condolences. I hope you cheer up.

Posted by wienerschnitzel on Dec-25-2003 21:48:

i doubt christmas will be the same for that family ever again, that is really unfortanate. Even if you were not good friends or hung out with the person i know it is sad to see them go because everyone in this world is unique in their own way and you know you won't see that persons uniqueness anymore. Tragedy! hope you are doing well!

Posted by capricorn15 on Dec-25-2003 22:18:

hey elena,
damn sorry to hear about that. it is really unfortunate when young people die like that. really sad that they had to go out so soon. but i guess it was their time to go. hope you feel better =).

Posted by trancEyes22 on Dec-26-2003 00:44:

elena,

i hope you are doing okay with this news. i'm sure it can't be too easy to deal with, and my thoughts and prayers are with you and the victims families.

god bless

erin

Posted by torontotrance on Dec-26-2003 01:04:

You have my full sympathy...death is not easy to deal with

Shows how fragile life is...one day you are talking to someone...the next day..that person is gone. Same thing happened to me last year, I know the pain....it's extremely difficult to deal with. Yet we all deal with death of others and all will deal with our own deaths (depends if you believe in the afterlife or anything else). It's not easy, it does not help ease the pain....my hero died last year in december near christmas...totally shattered me. That's why I try to make every moment count with others.

So my sincere condolences elena...

Posted by Acheron on Dec-26-2003 02:09:

Shit, I'm so sorry to hear that.

I hope you try to help the families, and that you all help each other through this hard time.

Posted by DaveSZ on Dec-26-2003 02:37:

Elena,

I am thinking about you and your lost friends in this difficult time. I hope you feel better soon, and hit me up on msn if you want to talk.
Did you get to come home to Panama to visit your family? That's what is most important and not material wealth.

divad

Posted by nickpdx on Dec-26-2003 04:27:

Wow I'm really sorry to hear that Especially since it had to be today/this time of year I bet Christmas for those familys will never be the same

Posted by Inertia on Dec-26-2003 05:09:

Elena...

What can I say? Dealing with death has to be the hardest things one can endure,
not to mention how these kids still had their whole lives ahead of them. As
others have said, Christmas will never be the same for their loved ones, be that
friends or family. Guess you never know when it's your time, so we should all
value every moment we still have a breath of life. This can't even begin to help
with what you're probably going through, and I won't try to understand it as I've
never experienced it, all I can do is offer my sympathy and wish the best for
their families.

- Ron

Posted by SuicideEnergy on Dec-26-2003 08:57:

Oh, I'm sorry
I also lost my best friend one year ago.
He has jumped out of the window of 8th floor.
It's really sucks

Posted by nickpdx on Dec-26-2003 19:01:

quote:
Originally posted by SuicideEnergy
Oh, I'm sorry
I also lost my best friend one year ago.
He has jumped out of the window of 8th floor.
It's really sucks

Suicide is the worst way for a friend to die

Posted by Porky on Dec-29-2003 07:23:

hey gongjoo, hope you're doing ok

my best friend commited suicide 3 years ago so i know how you feel. the thing about death is that it is a part of life, just like birth is, and that life is cyclical by nature. take time to yourself to mourn and reflect, the best way to deal with this is to not push it aside but to actually go through the grieving process. hope you're doing better and feel free to call me if you want to talk ok? i can call you back, you got my new email/phone...

take care

lots of love from porky oppa!

Posted by elena on Dec-29-2003 07:31:

thanks for all the support.
the funeral was the most beautiful thing in the world. it was extremely moving. despite all the mourning, we all said goodbye for my friend and felt almost at peace knowing that he was now in a better place.